As parents, we all hope that our children will succeed. We habitually serve as mentors for our children as they grow up, giving them advice and teaching them to avoid risks and seize opportunities. But they can also cross boundaries without realizing it, causing children to miss a good opportunity to grow independently. In the matter of raising children, it does not mean that everything is done well for the children, nor does it mean that everything is taken care of…
Tag: preschool period
Is it useful for children to memorize a lot of ancient poems without understanding them?
I remember when I was pregnant with Mulan, I went to the hospital for an HCG test for the first time. There were many people around the doctor’s table. Finally it was my turn. The doctor took the test sheet and said: Your value is not even 1/10 of others, you will definitely lose it. , prepare for surgery. I just gave birth to a baby before, 77 days later, the baby stopped. Hearing such cold words and such a straightforward judgment made me feel uncomfortable…
Solutions to separation anxiety from 2 to 3 years old
Many children will have emotional problems when separated from their parents, commonly known as \”separation anxiety.\” For example, when parents send their children to the gate of kindergarten or school, and as soon as they let go of their little hands and prepare to say goodbye, the children start crying violently, and good words and persuasion are of no use… The main reason why children have \”separation anxiety\” is what? It\’s because I\’m afraid of unfamiliar surroundings that I don\’t want to be separated from my loved ones…
What should children eat to improve immunity and strengthen resistance?
Children always get sick several times a year, including colds, fevers, and runny noses. Parents can’t help but wonder if there is something wrong with their children’s immunity? Come and listen to what Dr. Jiang has to say. How to improve immunity 1. Supplement vitamins and minerals. Mainly food supplements. You should have a scientific and balanced diet in life to ensure vitamin supplements. The natural vitamins contained in fruits and vegetables are…
Learn to communicate and build a harmonious parent-child relationship
Psychologist Carl Jung said that the parent-child relationship often has the greatest impact on a child. Once there is a problem in the parent-child relationship, the resulting consequences are likely to cause trauma to the child\’s personality. In family life, parents often think that blood ties can help them save the energy of communicating with their children and managing emotions, but in fact, the parent-child relationship…
What does a child’s self-care ability include?
Recently, a friend shared a surprising thing with me. She said: \”One of my cousins almost starved to death.\” It seemed like a joke, but behind it was bitterness. It turns out that the city where my friend’s cousin lives was under control due to the epidemic last year, so she had to remain silent. The sudden home quarantine and control confused this little girl who had just graduated. She usually eats everything…
How to cultivate children’s internal drive
In life, some children must have external supervision to complete whether they are studying or doing other things. Some children do not know how to arrange their study and life independently after being admitted to college, and become lazy or even \”lay flat\”. ”, these are all manifestations of a lack of inner self-driving force. The concept of \”self-drive\” was proposed by the famous psychologist Jung, which refers to the individual\’s ability to interact with the environment…
My child always says it’s okay, what should I do?
A few days ago, my best friend complained to me: I don’t know what’s going on in today’s children’s heads. When I was a child, I was always surrounded by people chattering and making demands. The older I get, the harder it is to communicate. I actively seek her opinions and always look indifferent. If I ask an urgent question, I will just say to you: \”Forget it, don\’t tell me, you won\’t agree anyway.\” Do you really want to piss people off? I guess many parents have…
How to cultivate children\’s empathy ability?
Empathy refers to the ability to understand, empathize, care and pay attention to the emotional state of others. It is a very important ability in interpersonal communication and one of the basic elements of social adaptation and personality development. Cultivating children\’s empathy not only helps to form a healthy personality and positive social relationships, but is also one of the key factors for becoming a successful person in the future. This article will start from the following…
How to cultivate children’s spatial thinking ability, a must-have for young children’s enlightenment mathematics
I know a mother from Tsinghua University. Her eldest son is 6 years old and his math ability has reached the fourth grade level of primary school. The child did not attend a training class, but was taught by the mother herself at home. She does not simply let her children recognize numbers and do addition and subtraction like others, but pays special attention to spatial thinking skills. Some friends may think that people are born with good genes and have good education…