A few days ago, I was chatting with my cousin from college about a very unpopular girl in their dormitory: She wakes up in the morning and the alarm clock keeps ringing, and she doesn’t want to turn it off when she wakes up. She doesn’t care about other people’s feelings at all; she plays games all night long. He also plays a variety of voiceovers and shouts, never considering the person who is already lying on the bed sleeping; if the roommate has a little privacy, it will quickly spread throughout the class, and he even takes advantage of others…
Tag: preschool period
Is it better for children to be exposed to sports as early as possible?
Now is the era of developed Internet. Most children\’s \”play\” is mobile phones, computers, TVs and other electronic products. If they are not allowed to play, their children will lie down or sit when they go home. Most parents are aware of this phenomenon. In the eyes, it is inevitable to worry about the physical development of the child. It is during the growth period, how can we not exercise more? Staying at home and playing with your mobile phone all the time will give people a…
Don’t blame your father for being poor, don’t be as filial as your brothers, don’t blame your wife for being miserable, don’t blame your children for being angry.
In our life, we meet countless people and know countless people. But there are actually not a few people who are truly important. Our parents who gave birth to us, our brothers and sisters whose blood is thicker than water, our partners who grow old hand in hand, and the children who support us, these are the most important people in our lives. They are the most sincere to us, the closest to us, and are the most trustworthy people in this life. …
The best way to train children lies in these \”Four Releases\”
I once heard a saying: \”The excellence of children is soaked in the sweat of their parents.\” Parents are the ferrymen of their children\’s lives. Outstanding children strive for family education! Education is actually not a process of \”picking up\”, but often requires putting it down. We need to let go of blame, let go of expectations, let go of comparisons, and let go of our low self-esteem. Every time you let go, your child will grow up. lay down…
The most taboo thing parents say to their children is…
People often say: When adults get along, the most taboo thing is to speak unabashedly and make unreasonable judgments. Unfortunately, when adults get along with children, their words become casual and harsh, and these sounds often turn into hints. Hints always have a certain guiding role. Generally speaking, the younger the child is, the higher the degree to which the child will be affected by psychological suggestions. Positive dark…
The great educator Fan Zhongyan’s tutoring methods are worth learning
\”Living room communication method\” and Tibetan poems, you can educate your children well without suppressing them. I found that a big misunderstanding in family education is that parents use other people\’s children to suppress their own children all day long. Looking at other people\’s children are all good, looking at their own There is something wrong with the child. Over time, the child\’s self-esteem is severely damaged, causing him to resent both his parents and other people\’s children. …
What is the appropriate sense of boundaries between parents and children?
Two days ago, while chatting with a friend, we got into an argument about an issue. In her opinion, today\’s children are too delicate, cannot withstand wind and rain, and are not independent at all. \”The living conditions are so good, and parents have created everything. Why are they afraid of hardship and fatigue, and not as brave and fearless as we used to be?\” I said, you have given the answer, precisely because their parents have arranged everything…
Your family environment is closely related to your child\’s growth
Mr. Cai Yuanpei once said: \”Family is the first school in life. The character of a lifetime, the so-called invariable character, is probably embryonic in the family.\” What kind of soil will produce what kind of flowers. The family environment and the words and deeds of parents will subconsciously determine the future of their children. As a saying goes, in the daily life of the native family, children 2 are hidden…
What to do if you lose control of your emotions?
Behind an emotionally stable child, there is a pair of emotionally stable parents, and behind an emotionally out-of-control child, there is a pair of emotionally out-of-control parents. Parents are their children\’s first teachers and the source of their children\’s emotional stability. All children\’s problems originate from their parents. If you want to raise emotionally stable children, you must first become emotionally stable parents yourself. Only in this way can your children…
How to improve children’s learning enthusiasm
If your child\’s test scores drop a lot next time, what will you do to him? Will you comfort him, encourage him, and let him continue to work hard; or will you blame him, beat him, or punish him? I believe many parents find it difficult to accept the decline in their children\’s grades. If you are unable to accept your child\’s failure, you may blame and punish your child for it. But what impact will punishment have on children…