There is no doubt that parents in the world love their children, but a large number of parents love in the wrong way and impose things they think are good on their children, but ignore their children\’s true feelings and thoughts. Children who seem to be calm and normal may be suffering from unknown pressure and pain inside. China Youth Research Center and the International Liaison Department of the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League released China…
Tag: preschool period
How to stimulate children’s inner drive
I want to share two little things in my life recently. When children encounter things they don’t want to do or encounter setbacks in doing something, how should we help them and stimulate their own inner motivation? On weekends, I took off the training wheels of Yu Xiaobian\’s bicycle and took them to the square to ride. Because it was her first time riding a bicycle without training wheels, she was very scared and kept following…
How can children grow taller during the golden growth period of April?
The plan for the year lies in spring, and spring has quietly arrived. Look at the pink flowers on the branches, the green heads of the grass popping up, and the gentle spring breeze blowing on the cheeks. The season of revival of all things has finally arrived. The children gradually take off their thick cotton clothes, run happily, and gradually stretch their bodies. This is a critical period for physical development. Every spring is also the time when everything revives and warms up…
Tell your children what true filial piety is
Nowadays, there are various problems in family education, such as children who are not grateful, only see their own interests, and cannot handle interpersonal relationships well, etc. These are all related to the failure to establish the fundamental virtue of filial piety. \”The Classic of Filial Piety\” says: \”Those who do not love their relatives but love others are said to be unethical; those who do not respect their relatives but respect others are said to be unruly.\” It means that a person who does not love and respect his own…
After reading Zhuangzi 3 times, I finally know how to solve mental internal friction.
\”Zhuangzi\” records such a story. A man was walking on the road and accidentally saw his own shadow and footprints, thinking he had encountered a ghost. He ran quickly. Unexpectedly, the faster he ran, the more footprints he left, and the closer his shadow chased him. So he ran even harder until he died of exhaustion. Many times, the reason why people feel pain is not because of the things themselves…
3 signs of a child’s normal height growth period. Parents, don’t miss this opportunity.
When the topic of children\’s height is mentioned, many parents will pay special attention. Especially parents who are not tall themselves are even more worried that their children will not grow taller. Since genetic factors account for about 70% of a child\’s height, many parents will be particularly disappointed when they see that their child\’s height is not ideal. However, the 30% proportion of the day after tomorrow has a huge impact on the child\’s height…
How children become clever
We often praise children for their \”dexterity\”, but in fact, it is the dexterity that makes them smart. Soviet educational psychologist Kortsova trained the infant\’s hands while measuring and recording the intensity of the brain\’s bioelectric currents and found that the maturity of the cerebral cortex accelerated with the stimulation intensity and time of finger movement. She concluded: Promoting flexible movement of fingers is to improve the cortex of both hemispheres of the brain…
Parents must understand the best time for boys to awaken
The boy\’s enlightenment period refers to the period of time between birth and adolescence, which mainly includes the development and growth of the brain, body and psychology. At this stage, the boy\’s body and mind are in a state of rapid development, so parents need to pay attention to the boy\’s growth and development and provide him with a good environment and support. So when is the best time for a boy to get started? out…
How to help children deal with criticism correctly
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: When educating children, criticism is more profound than praise, because criticism must pay attention to methods. This is an art. If you use it well, it will be more effective than praise. For parents, criticizing their children is a downright technical job. If the criticism is not adequate, it will be difficult for children to make corrections if they do not recognize their own problems; but if the criticism is excessive, it will be easy to hit…
4 things to say that will ruin your child. Don’t say them if you can.
Li Si (pseudonym) is in the third grade of elementary school. He is usually unknown in school and has few good friends. When others talk to him, he always lowers his head in embarrassment. In class, the teacher always hesitates when asking questions, and his voice is as low as an ant. For this reason, the teacher found Li Si’s parents through several home visits and said that the child was too unconfident and introverted, which was not conducive to growth. where…