Some time ago, my child’s school organized a three-day parent-child outdoor camping activity. It is rare for parents to get together and chat in twos and threes. At first, the topic was just focused on the children, but as the relationship became more familiar, the content of everyone\’s chats became a bit \”gossip\” in nature. During the chat, a parent brought the topic to the relationship between husband and wife. According to…
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How terrible is the influence of the original family? Influence the fate of children and determine their life
Satya, the master of family therapy, once said: \”A person is inextricably linked to his family of origin, and this connection may affect his life.\” The imprint of the family of origin will really be passed down from generation to generation. Everyone has their own family of origin, and to a greater or lesser extent, they continue to \”pass on\” the influence of their family of origin to their children. What kind of cause…
Li Meijin: If you change the way you talk, the change is so big? It turns out that changing children really starts with heart-to-heart communication!
In the journey of parenting, the art of communication is often overlooked, but it has the magic power to rewrite the parent-child relationship. Professor Li Meijin, an expert in criminal psychology, reminded the dreamer: \”If you change the way you talk to your children, the change is so big? It turns out that change really starts with communication!\” This is not only a simple reminder, but also a profound insight. , leading us to explore how to adjust communication…
Connect young children and get rid of \”procrastination\”
The most direct result of procrastination may be that the child will be late. In fact, children who are not late love going to school more. Why does not being late play such an important role? There really is. For children, if they are late for school, they will enter the classroom in full view of their teachers and classmates, feeling anxious and uneasy. Moreover, the teacher didn’t hear what he said before, so he took out the textbook in a hurry, and…
How to transition from kindergarten to primary school? These 5 points to remember
After the following summer vacation, many children bid farewell to kindergarten and enter elementary school. At this time of year, parents have mixed feelings. They are happy that their children have grown up and are about to enter a new stage, but they are worried about whether they can adapt to the new environment. The transition from kindergarten to primary school is an important link in all education transitions. Because in this process, children need to improve their learning, social interaction, emotions, and self…
How to raise a child with inner security? Please consider these 3 sentences as your mantra
In today’s article, let’s talk about security. Security is not a new topic. It has been mentioned often since parents began to pay attention to their children\’s inner world. For children, love and security are essential nutrients for their growth. Only when children have a sense of security can they explore the world with greater peace of mind and freedom. So…
These 6 invisible controls are destroying children’s motivation
Child complains about parent: You have always controlled me. Parents counterattack: No matter how much I control you, I do whatever you want. The conflict has become somewhat heated, with the father-in-law saying the public is right, and the mother-in-law saying the mother-in-law is right. Today we are going to talk about several types of \”letting go\” that you think may be a kind of control in children\’s feelings – invisible control. \”It\’s up to you.\” Little A said, \”I don\’t want to…
The head teacher reminded: Most children with strong learning potential come from these four types of families.
I have heard more than one parent worry like this: When their children were in elementary school, their learning status was quite good and their test scores were not low. But as soon as I entered junior high school, I felt slack and my energy was not as good as before. It was like long-distance running. The more I ran, the less energy I had. I am worried that if things continue like this, the children will struggle to learn in the real sprint stage and will easily fall behind in the end. As the saying goes \”Lu Yao…
10 secrets parents should know about raising girls
We know that raising a child is one of the most sacred tasks in the world. We not only feed the child, but also cultivate her character and give her a beautiful heart. Only with a warm upbringing can we raise a warm daughter, and a girl with a warm heart will be able to love better in the future. Next, I will share with you parents how to raise a warm…
Experts tell you what kids of all ages desperately need
Each stage of a child\’s growth has its own specific needs. For children before the age of 3, they long for care and attachment, and parents should meet their physiological needs in a timely manner to establish a solid emotional foundation. When children enter the stage of 3 to 12 years old, they begin to need clear rules and boundaries. At this time, parents should firmly express \”no\” to help them…