I have boys at home, and when it comes to their tempers, the most criticized points are definitely that they are \”stubborn\”. I still remember one time, I had a dinner with my publishing friends. His son was four years old at the time, about the same age as Xiao Xiaoyu. That time, Xiao Xiaoyu, who came to Beijing for the first time, was still very well-behaved. My friend said to me: \”Your child has a really good character and seems to be very obedient. And my family…
Tag: preschool period
A child’s greatest happiness: being allowed to do these 4 things in childhood
While reading Hemingway\’s biography, I came across a passage that was thought-provoking. A young reader asked Hemingway: For you, what is the best initial training for a writer? Hemingway paused for a moment and replied: An unhappy childhood. We have no way of knowing what Hemingway experienced as a child. But perhaps it was his unhappy childhood that gave him a keen insight into life…
These three education methods are \”consuming\” children\’s energy
There is a topic on Zhihu: What is the most painful and unforgettable experience in your growth experience? The netizen\’s answer is very heart-wrenching: My parents have liked to criticize me since I was a child and have no patience, which makes me have big flaws in my character today. Now I will often hate them, hating them will make me live in the shadows all my life. My father favors boys over girls, and has hit me since I was a child, calling me stupid, because…
Is dad more anxious than mom? This psychologist\’s 30 years of research has shown us how difficult it is to be a father…
In the traditional impression, compared to women, men tend to have more \”anti-anxiety\” physiques. However, this year’s newly released “Family Education Blue Book (2024): Report on China’s Family Raising Environment” provides an interesting finding. This mental health data based on nearly one million families shows that when it comes to education issues, fathers are more anxious than mothers…
Tell your children what to do when they are bullied
A mother asked for help in the group: \”My child is introverted and timid. He is often bullied and doesn\’t know how to deal with it. What should I do?\” Many times, we only think about educating our children to be sensible and modest, but forget that they will have to face it one day. In the Jianghu, there will be all kinds of people and conflicts. When they grow up, these good children who were obedient in childhood are likely to become \”soft persimmons\” who are bullied and remain silent…
5 inconspicuous little habits in first grade, but they are standard for top students. The sooner you develop them, the better.
The following 5 inconspicuous little habits can affect children\’s future learning. Parents should help their children develop them as soon as possible. 1. Carefully review the questions. The reasons why first- and second-grade children make mistakes when reviewing questions are nothing more than the following two points. 1. Illiterate. I don’t know the words. I don’t know what to do in the question. I can only guess based on the only pictures or numbers. Therefore, these children must first solve the problem of literacy…
After witnessing the whole process of my daughter becoming useless, I realized that a mother who sacrifices too much is a disaster for the whole family.
As parents, our dedication begins from the moment our children come into this world. Nurturing, accompanying, teaching…many parents are willing to let go of themselves and devote their efforts to their children. But I want to tell all parents: In the past 14 years, the thing I regret most is that I gave up myself and devoted myself to my children! No…
How to make children feel loved? Remember to say these 4 sentences often
\”You must be independent in personality and dependent emotionally.\” This is a sentence from the book \”Every Child Needs to Be Seen\”. Author Gordon Neufeld explains: (Child) Maturity is a process full of contradictions. True independence and separation happen to begin with dependence and attachment. For example, before parents help their children face sleeping in separate beds and separation anxiety at school, they must first satisfy their children…
My child is already myopic, does he still need myopia prevention and control?
The degree of myopia is increasing every year, and it affects more than just vision. When myopia reaches a certain level and forms pathological myopia, it may lead to various eye complications. Research shows that if children and adolescents are myopic without timely and effective intervention, the degree of myopia will increase every year. Myopia increases at a rate of 10 per year during adolescence…
Children who are tired of learning refuse to communicate. Parents should try the opposite approach. Saying something different will work wonders.
All parents love their children, and their starting point is to wish them well and hope that their children will live happily in the future. But deviations often occur in the process of expressing love. When a child rejects himself again and again, refuses to study, keeps playing with his mobile phone, does not go to school, does not take exams, and constantly touches his parents\’ bottom line, he may still be able to hold back and work hard at the beginning to maintain his patience and try…