When dealing with adolescent children, showing weakness is not weakness, but a kind of wisdom

My friend\’s child is in the second grade of junior high school and the summer vacation is about to end. I got new glasses last week and found that the number has increased a lot compared to last year. People who wear glasses tell them that wearing glasses every day will slow down the increase in prescription. My son was right next to me and could hear clearly. But when he got home, his son put his glasses on the table and didn\’t wear them at all. My friend checked the information on the Internet again, and online experts said…

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Those children who are addicted to study are \”spoiled\” by their parents

Many parents try their best to educate their children. But the child is in a lethargic state, unable to cheer up for anything? \”Whenever we talk about their children\’s studies, many parents complain: \”My children get sleepy just after studying. They either drink water or their eyes are blank. \”I don\’t dare to help my children with homework because I\’m afraid my heart won\’t be able to bear it and I\’ll faint from anger.\” \”…

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The biggest stupidity of parents is to do these 4 things wrong and deplete the blessings of themselves and their children.

In the wonderful journey of parenting, every parent hopes that their children can grow up happily. However, sometimes some behaviors of parents not only fail to bring blessings to their children, but may actually deplete themselves and their children\’s good luck. **Netizen \”Little Bee\”** shared: \”My parents always like to compare me with other children in front of me, which makes me very uncomfortable and feels…

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How to quickly and effectively develop queuing routines for new children entering kindergarten?

Letting children line up may seem simple, but it is actually not easy. We must be a teacher who can observe and analyze children\’s behavior, actively explore the reasons for children\’s queuing behavior, and use various methods to make children proactively aware of the importance of queuing up in collective life. The \”Kindergarten Education Guidance Outline (Trial)\” points out in the organization and implementation: \”Family is the foundation for children…

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Tell all mothers a cruel truth, do you know? This is the \”good mother\” in the eyes of the children

01 I have been caught in the rain, and I want to be an umbrella holder for my children. I have a friend who comes from a middle-class family and is an only daughter. It can be said that she \”doesn\’t know what it\’s like to be sad in the world.\” Later, she got married and her husband earned a good income. She also lived a life full of relaxation for a long time after marriage. However, since she had a child, she suddenly became a different person and became extremely hard-working. her home…

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After I raised my son to death, I realized that children without a \”sense of value\” will never learn self-discipline.

Before my son reached the age of ten, I often heard the envy of others: \”You are so lucky to have an old man to help take care of your child. It saves you a lot of worry!\” Indeed, for a dual-income family, the helping hand of the old man is like a rain of sweet rain. We are so busy that we can take a breather. However, I never foreseed at that time that behind this convenience, there was a price that I had to bear with my children. male…

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Mom, why do you need to finish your summer homework as soon as possible? This mother’s answer will make her child laugh for the rest of her life

Do you remember those mountains of summer homework when you were a kid? Every time I see them, I get a headache and want to throw them all away! But every time, my mother would seriously remind me: \”You must finish your homework early.\” I always thought in my heart: What\’s the hurry? There\’s still a long time! It wasn\’t until one day when I overheard the words of my neighbor Zhenzhen\’s mother that I suddenly understood. Her words…

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The meaning of a father is always more than making money to support the family, and cannot be replaced by a mother

Let me tell you a very sad fact, that is, it is really difficult to raise excellent children with the strength of the mother alone. No matter how important the mother\’s role is, it cannot replace the father\’s role in the child\’s growth. Those children who have excellent academic performance, strong problem-solving skills, stable emotions, and do not give up easily when faced with challenges all have one thing in common – they…

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Why do many children grow up unhappy? Because my parents didn’t provide enough of these 5 things when I was young

What is happiness? Speaking of happiness, many people will think of a poem \”Facing the Sea, Spring Flowers Bloom\” by the famous Chinese poet Haizi. The poem reads, \”From tomorrow onwards, be a happy person; feed horses, chop firewood, and travel around the world.\” The happiness described by Haizi is also the happiness that most people pursue, that is, a successful career, a happy family, and free time. , financial freedom. …

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I regretted raising my daughter to death with my own hands: The biggest mistake as a parent is to make your child \”hate learning\”

My daughter is 14 years old and is in the second grade of junior high school. Since the first semester of junior high school, her study status has become very unstable and her mood has become increasingly negative. She said every day that she was sleepy, didn\’t get enough sleep, and complained about school life. My motivation to study has also been significantly reduced. I have to go to bed after finishing my homework at night, and I don’t read any extra books. Indeed, it is very hard for junior high school students nowadays. They go out early and come back late every day, and…

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