There was a family education open class called \”Teacher Please Reply\” before, and there was such a mother and son in the program. One of the children revealed that ever since he entered elementary school, his mother’s nagging has been endless: he was nagged if he didn’t do well in the exam; he was nagged if he wrote slowly; he continued to be nagged if he didn’t write correctly. When the son asks his mother to say less and give him some breathing room, the mother will respond to the child like a string of pearls…
Tag: preschool period
Be your child’s emotional management coach and help him become an emotionally stable learner
01 Exercise to improve emotional regulation ability from an early age. When children grow up, they will have more energy to study. Elementary school students, especially children in lower grades, are not very capable of emotional regulation. If parents do not pay attention to communication skills, they will spend a lot of time and energy on other things. Necessary internal friction. When children lose their temper, adults get angry and scold them. Not only was it a waste of time, neither party learned anything, so next time it will be the same…
Li Meijin: Why are children very smart when they are young but mediocre when they grow up?
In the long history of parenting, every parent has been proud of their children\’s little flashes of wisdom, but one day in the future, they will inevitably feel a little doubt about that dazzling past: \”Why did my child look so dazzling when he was a child?\” Smart, but seem to become mediocre when you grow up? \”This is not just your confusion, it touches the deep fog of parenting. Today, let us…
More than 20 school principals were investigated, which may be a great tragedy for education
Educational corruption is a cancer that is more abhorrent than any other corruption phenomenon. 01. More than 20 school principals have been investigated, or it is a great tragedy for education. According to the author’s incomplete statistics, more than 20 school principals have been investigated since 2024, involving a wide range of school levels, including basic education in primary and secondary schools, and In the field of higher education, so that a certain school…
Once parents commit this taboo, they will not be able to raise promising children.
Two days ago, a reader confided in the backstage and said this: One day at noon, she was struggling to feed her child, but the child did not pay for it, and played carelessly while eating, and even touched the bowl. Food was scattered on the floor. She got angry and yelled at the child: \”I feel so tired every time I eat. Go to the wall and think about the past! Tonight…
\”Cigarette card\” is another pair of devil\’s claws reaching out to children!
Background: When I first heard \”cigarette card\”, I thought it was a popular social term among adult men. Later I found out that this was actually a new type of \”game\” that has recently become popular among primary school students. On May 18, a primary school student in Fujian accidentally used too much force and broke his finger while indulging in the game \”Cigarette\”… \”Cigarette\” is made from…
The most core method for getting along with adolescent children: six words
Yesterday, there was a question in the group of adolescent parents: Human nature must be free, and parents have the obligation to discipline and guide. How to choose and balance? For example, mobile phones and game issues. In fact, the essence of this problem is that children want to make their own decisions. As a result, parents give them freedom. Children play games on mobile phones and cannot control themselves. Parents want to control, but children do not listen. Give your children freedom. Children are addicted to games…
The most important subjects in primary school are not math and English. Don’t let your children try too hard. They will regret it in junior high school.
In primary school, many parents will make their children study hard in mathematics and English, and enroll their children in various English cram schools and Mathematical Olympiad classes. They wish that their children could finish the knowledge of junior high school in primary school. As for the Chinese subject, many parents and children do not pay much attention to it. Because in Chinese subjects, compared to English and mathematics, the gap between children is very small. But in fact, Chinese subjects are the most needed…
After hearing what a parent said to his child, I concluded that his education was a failure.
One day at around 7 o\’clock in the morning, I was walking from outside the school to the school and saw a mother standing at the school gate looking into the school. Following her line of sight, I saw a boy of about third or fourth grade, carrying a large schoolbag on his back and a handbag in his hand, walking slowly forward. I had just taken a few steps when I heard the parent shouting to the child: \”Can\’t you walk well?!\” When…
Shanghai junior high school teacher: High school entrance examination split, I witnessed the struggles of different families
\”Mom, I still want to go to technical secondary school…\” Li Xiaole once again mustered up the courage to have a showdown with his mother. But the result was the same as usual, \”You have a problem and can go to high school, why don\’t you?\” Before he could finish explaining his reasons, his mother immediately refuted it. Every year, similar scenes occur in Yourou\’s class. The junior high school where Yourou works is located in Shanghai, and the admission rate for the general high school students in the class is not enough…