Ever since I became a parent, it seems that quarreling has become a serious matter. It is no longer the incarnation of \”disagreement\”, but a weapon to \”hurt children\”. I got emotional and had a quarrel, but I regretted it afterwards. Ten thousand voices floated through my mind, including the voices of parenting experts, the accusations of relatives and friends around me, and the internal questioning of myself: \”Don\’t be a child. ..
Tag: preschool period
Children who are constantly entangled with their parents and find it difficult to become independent, have a low sense of security and are anxious.
Are you unknowingly making your children lose their sense of security? When you tell your children to be careful over and over again, have you ever thought that this might be conveying your anxiety? Every \”don\’t talk to strangers\” and \”be careful\” will make teenagers more afraid of the world and lose the courage to explore and be independent. As a mom, have you realized that sometimes your overprotectiveness can…
Less \”reasoning\” with children and more \”building relationships\” with them
Rousseau once mentioned in his book \”Emile\”: \”Talking to children is the most ineffective education.\” Children are most afraid of their parents nagging them endlessly. And parents who are keen on being reasonable will only make the relationship between their children and themselves further and further away. Psychology professor He Lingfeng said: \”The first priority of parents is to maintain a good parent-child relationship, so that your influence on them is; if…
10 characteristics of children with low IQ
Every parent hopes that their children will be smart, but some children may have some problems while growing up, making parents worry about whether their children\’s IQ is normal. So, what are the characteristics of children with low IQ? Today, we will summarize the top 10 characteristics of children with low IQ. 1. Slow response: An obvious characteristic of children with low IQ is slow response…
When faced with disobedient children, this \”empathy technique\” is 10,000 times more effective than reasoning
To be honest, what is cut off is the parent-child link. A few days ago, I took my son to the supermarket to buy things. Suddenly I heard a burst of crying. It seemed that the situation was probably that a little boy really wanted a car toy, but his mother refused to buy it. At first, the mother was quite patient and patiently reasoned with the little boy: \”We have so many small cars at home, we can\’t buy any more.\” \”Look at how small this car is…
Who raises smarter children? Not the mother, research confirms: If this person takes care of the baby, the baby will have a higher IQ
Who is taking care of the children in your family? When I talked about this topic with my friends, I found that in most families, the mother takes care of the children, while the father rarely takes care of the children. On the one hand, the father may be more busy at work and have no time to take care of the children. On the other hand, it is really unreliable to let the father take care of the children. The \”perfunctory way of raising children\” mentioned on the Internet actually refers to the father taking care of the children. Dad takes care of the baby…
After witnessing the other side of a top-notch mother and son, I completely reconciled with myself!
My problem is: I always feel that I am not self-disciplined enough and emotionally stable enough. Therefore, I have a natural respect for people who are self-disciplined and emotionally stable, and I often feel inferior to them. After becoming a mother, I met many excellent mothers because of their children. Every time I see these \”perfect\” parents, I feel ashamed and feel that it must be because I am not good enough and my children are not good enough. This may…
Keep in mind 5 reasons you must consider when choosing a kindergarten
In the process of children\’s growth, kindergarten is the first step for them to contact society, and its importance is self-evident. Choosing a suitable kindergarten is crucial to the development of a child\’s character, habits and even future learning and development. So, what reasons should we keep in mind when choosing a kindergarten? Next, I will give you an in-depth analysis of the five must-haves for choosing a kindergarten…
High school students are all spotted. Here are 5 steps to help your children do homework. If you stick to it for one month, you will see changes.
All academic leaders are not born, but develop step by step through self-discipline. When you see the so-called excellent results of other people\’s children, what you cannot see is the hard work and efforts put in by the parents behind the scenes. Whether you are raising a child with a Buddhist background or a tiger mother with a wolf father, in fact, the most important thing is whether the parents can set strict requirements, and this strict requirement cannot only focus on grades, but on daily life…
3 signs that junior high school students are beginning to waste away, very accurate
It is difficult to raise a junior high school student, but it is easy to destroy a junior high school student! Because this stage of their lives is a critical period for their physical and mental development. If they don\’t pay enough attention, they may go astray. Many times, our parents and teachers don\’t know why they suddenly became like this. There are some signs that may indicate that they may be gradually moving towards \”abolition…\”