After reading the \”Hercules Effect\”, I understood: The biggest danger in education is competing with children

\”Bang -\” I can\’t tell, this is the first time my son has slammed the door in front of me. Every time this happened, I was so angry that tears welled up in my eyes, and I wanted to kick his door open. I really can’t understand that before the first day of the new year, my son was still very obedient to me and would do whatever I asked him to do. Friends around me also praised me for being so good at \”managing\” my son…

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\”New type of domestic violence\” is spreading: parents are unaware, and children are overwhelmed until they can breathe

I was chatting with a friend yesterday and I was deeply moved. She complained that her child was ignorant. He was already in the second grade of junior high school and still didn’t know how to study hard. A friend said: In order to let my children live a better life, I often stay up late and work overtime. Sometimes I stay up until past midnight for a month. Because of the intense work all year round, I can’t sleep well now. I have severe cervical spondylosis and poor lumbar spine, but my children are not healthy. Don\’t care…

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Parents’ biggest folly: Raising “obedient” children

Parents share: Are obedient children really good? Obedient children are sensible and well-behaved when they are young, and they do whatever their parents ask them to do. Behind it are ingratiation, fear, and even despair. They are things that children do around their parents in order to make their parents happy and satisfied. They take care of their parents\’ feelings, go against their own nature, and suppress themselves. A person in a period of pain…

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The more disciplined adolescent children become, the more rebellious they become. What should parents do?

Let me tell you a story first: It originated from a Greek fairy tale and tells the story of the hero Hercules. One day, Hercules went out and walked, and suddenly he found a bag on the road. The mouth of the bag was tied up and it looked bulging. Curious, he stepped on the bag. I never thought that instead of being crushed, this bag seemed to be enchanted…

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When children do this during the holidays, they are restoring their psychological energy.

When they are at home during the holidays, it is estimated that many parents of middle school students will be anxiously watching their children, watching them sleeping, playing on their mobile phones, and not studying, and it is difficult not to nag them. Think about it from another angle: What we see is only his appearance at home, but what we don’t see is his state at school. We didn\’t get to experience his life in school. After such a tight schedule for a long time, just a few days off…

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Li Meijin: If your child is negative, if you do these 5 things more, he will become more positive day by day.

👋【Introduction: Entering the child\’s small universe】Dear parents, does your baby occasionally turn into a \”little sorrow\” and can\’t get excited about anything? Don’t worry, parenting expert Professor Li Meijin’s five secrets will teach you how to turn on your child’s positive switch, turn cloudy days into sunny days, and make every day full of positive energy! 🌟 🌈【The first thing: find the \”glittering point\” and say it out loud🌈】…

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People\’s Daily: The real reason for the gap between children in the same class and the same teacher! (Forward to parents)

I often hear parents ask: \”We are in the same class, with the same teachers, the same classmates, the same learning content, and the same homework at home, but why is my child not as good as other children?\” Because teaching is at school and education is at home. The acquisition of knowledge depends on teachers, and the growth of children depends on parents. \”People\’s Daily\” once published an article: Family education determines a child\’s life! real…

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The class teacher reminds: After learning a unit, children can review more efficiently this way!

I learned it in 40 minutes of class and could write my homework after class, but my test scores were not very good. I believe many parents and children will have this kind of trouble! That must be ignoring the importance of review! It is easier to understand in class. In fact, it is easier to deduce the entire idea from known results than to generate ideas out of thin air. This truth is very simple, \”accepting\” is far better than \”producing\”…

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It was only after I witnessed my son becoming useless that I realized: Rebellion in adolescence is the biggest misunderstanding parents have about their children.

I am a relatively delicate person. After becoming a mother, my relatives and friends all think that I am very competent and take good care of my children. This is especially true when accompanying students to study. Since my son entered the first grade of elementary school, tutoring his children has become the focus of my life. Checking memorization, tutoring homework, checking in in the group… they are all very caring. To my son…

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