There is a sentence in \”Fatherhood\”: The absence of a father is the misfortune of the family, the sorrow of the wife, the sadness of the child, and the depression of society. But in real life, many fathers believe that work and children cannot be taken care of at the same time. Dads say: Wait until you make enough money, wait until you are done with your work, and your mother will be with you… Little do you know…
Tag: preschool period
Li Meijin: When raising a boy, it is best not to let him suffer these \”scares\” before he is 6 years old
On the road to parenting, especially boys, their psychological development before the age of 6 is particularly sensitive and critical. At this stage, some inadvertent \”scares\” may have a long-term impact on their mental health. Professor Li Meijin, a well-known education expert, suggested that when raising a boy, it is best not to let him suffer these \”frights\” before he is 6 years old. Today we discuss what parents should pay attention to to avoid male…
Why can’t children be prohibited from playing with mobile phones during summer vacation? This article explains it all
At a family gathering a while ago, my younger brother complained to everyone: My 10-year-old nephew checks his cell phone as soon as school is over, and he often laughs at the funny jokes. At first, the younger brother didn\’t pay attention, but when he saw his son playing a game and failing to pass the level and slapping himself wildly, he panicked. In the Internet age, our children are destined to grow up with mobile phones. In the subway, on the bus…
If your child is tired of school, is depressed, and is addicted to mobile phones at home, will you worry about conflicts with him?
Faced with children who are tired of school and depressed, many parents think like this: I don\’t dare to conflict with my children, I am cautious, for fear of irritating them. But in fact, I was very anxious and could not find the time to communicate with my children. Many issues were not discussed. Not daring to conflict is the current situation of many adolescent families. I think there are two main possible reasons: 1. Parents…
After the college entrance examination, watch these six CCTV documentary films just to teach your children the meaning of learning
Summer vacation is here, and the happiest people are naturally the children, but as parents, many people are starting to feel worried. After all, as soon as the holidays come, many children start to stay up at night and wake up in the morning; they are addicted to mobile phones and tablets every day, and their summer homework is put off again and again; on weekdays, they have to put out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food, and they stay at home all day long. , even myopia and hunchback have worsened a lot…
When your child swears or speaks cruelly, your first reaction is very important
A mother came to ask a question: When her child gets angry, he will say all kinds of dirty words, \”Mom, I hate you! I hate you! Go to hell!\” What should I do? Would Little D also say such harsh words? In fact, all the children in the world look alike, and Little D has a lot of harsh words. He said to me, \”I hate you!\” When fighting with children, he also said, \”I want…
Poor people don’t know how to accompany and educate their children.
The most difficult decision faced by poor families is whether to devote their limited time to making money or to accompany and educate their children? The slightest difference between parents\’ ideas and information can lead to huge differences. Although some parents often accompany their children, their children do not perform well; on the contrary, some parents can make money and their children grow up well. What is true high-quality companionship? …
Chinese-style education will not work without reform
Because of a little girl, China’s exam-oriented education was once again whipped and tortured. Recently, a small place called Lianshui became popular just because of a 17-year-old female technical secondary school student, Jiang Ping. The local cultural and tourism department also understands traffic well, and has adopted the slogan “A small river is rich in academics.” In the 2024 Alibaba Global Mathematics Competition, 801 students advanced to the finals,…
What is family relaxation? This is the best answer I\’ve ever heard
Families with a sense of relaxation bring a positive attitude to their children, and relaxation is also a kind of wisdom in education. So what is family relaxation? The following sentence is the best answer I have ever heard: \”Relaxation means not caring about trivial matters. When my mother was cooking, the vegetables were fried and salty. My father said, \”I just want to eat steamed buns.\” There are no steamed buns in such a good dish. How?\” \”So, Dad…
Children dawdle, procrastinate, and have no sense of time, just because their parents have not done this well
There is a long-term hot topic on Zhihu: When it is time to go to bed, and the children have not finished their homework, will you let your children stay up late to finish their homework? Children who choose homework will not get enough rest, and children who choose sleep will not be able to complete their homework, and more homework will pile up the next day! How to solve this \”dead game\”? The new angle proposed by the author of today’s article may give us some inspiration. Every…