In today\’s parenting families, the main force is still the mother. The mother\’s busy figure can be seen in everything from the children\’s eating, drinking, studying, and living. As for the father, he may have been involved in the beginning, but while the mother became \”more and more diligent\”, he became \”more and more lazy\”, and finally even disappeared… Psychologist Hu Shenzhi said this: \”The structure of the family Like…
Tag: preschool period
The child said to me: Mom, please stop encouraging me.
Encouraging our kids is getting harder and harder in our family. I often encourage them habitually and subconsciously regard girls and wine as little children who still need a lot of encouragement, but the feedback from the children is: they don’t need my (frequent) encouragement. For example, in my opinion, Jiujiu is a little boy who is rich in emotions, has high emotional value needs, and loves to cling to his mother. But when he\’s good at…
There are many benefits to raising children as \”outsiders\”
In our daily life, many parents are used to scolding their children in public places, thinking that this will help their children remember the lessons and become more sensible. However, this seemingly simple and direct education method actually hides huge hidden dangers. Two days ago, when I accompanied my child to an interest class, I witnessed a young mother yelling at her son. She ignored Zhou…
Chinese-style parents try to use \”hardship education\” to push their children to \”success\”, but they don\’t know that they are destroying their children\’s self-esteem and future.
Recently, a post on the Internet quickly became popular. Although the incident described was small, it aroused strong empathy from countless people. The story takes place in a cake shop. A little girl of five or six years old was shopping for bread with her mother. The little girl happily picked one of her favorite donuts, and then suggested that her mother also pick two, and said: \”One for you, one for me, and one for dad. ok…
If your child loses his temper and cries when he is not satisfied, you can easily solve it by doing this
What should I do if my child loses his temper and cries when he is not satisfied? For example, take the following two cases. Case 1: My son is 1 year old. He cries loudly when he is not satisfied with something, some of which are obviously unreasonable. At this time, is it okay to put him aside and let him cry? Case 2: My daughter is three and a half years old. Recently, I don\’t know how to describe her personality in a few months. She loses her temper and stamps her feet at every turn…
How to learn to read, write and read before the age of 6
An interesting thing is that every year, the topics that parents care about during home visits have different themes. Last year, the focus of the home visit was on choosing a school. This year, the focus is on how to learn to read, write, and read. How can children quickly enter the learning state in the new semester and lead the class? Common misunderstandings about reading, writing and literacy among preschool children 1. Point reading When some parents read with their children, they point to each item while reading…
How can children quickly enter the learning state in the new semester and lead the class?
The new semester has just begun. It is recommended that parents do not let their children answer a lot of questions, but focus on the following five things, so that their children can quickly enter the learning state, be in a leading position, and their grades will rise steadily. What about those five things? 1. Morning reading. Parents, don’t underestimate morning reading. The benefits of morning reading are unlimited. The article has been published before, there are ten major benefits, here…
Three golden periods for boys to grow taller
Height is an important physiological characteristic for boys, and seizing the golden period of height growth is of key significance to achieving the ideal height. This article will introduce in detail the three golden periods for boys to grow taller, and provide some effective methods to promote height growth. The first golden period is the first year after birth. During this year, the child\’s height will grow rapidly, with an average growth of…
Never help others bully your children
The night before yesterday, my best friend said to me sadly: \”You know what? I have always envied a kind of parents since I was a child. They are very protective of their children. No matter how many shortcomings you have, they can always see the advantages in you. No matter what you have No matter how much you love to make them angry, they can always soften all the thorns in your body with love and tolerance. No matter how much trouble you get into, they first care…
Guide children to learn to share appropriately
Humility is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and learning to share is also an important quality and ability that children need to cultivate in the socialization process. Children\’s sharing behavior not only promotes the development of their social skills and cooperative abilities, but also plays a positive role in cultivating their empathy, sense of responsibility, and awareness of fairness. However, in the process of guiding children to establish a sense of sharing,…