It is impossible for parents not to be anxious when their children do not go to school. The cause of anxiety is the unpredictability of consequences. In other words, the feeling of losing control is what causes our anxiety. In this life we are looking for the feeling of control everywhere. Making plans, making items, classifying priorities, concreteness, and visualization are all to make us have more certainty about things and life…
Tag: preschool period
The age of 9 is a miracle, and it is also a hurdle for children. After passing it, it is easy to become a \”student master\”
When a child reaches the age of 9, there will be a very big change. The age of 9 is also a very important and critical period in life. They began to think, \”Why should I do this?\” \”What exactly is this thing?\” \”How do I do it well?\” That is, they began to think about the three final questions of life: Who am I? Where do I go? How do I get to? They began to explore more…
Primary school Chinese teacher: There is a clear 4-point gap between \”literate\” and \”illiterate\” children in kindergarten. Parents should be vigilant
A classmate of mine is a very Buddhist. Not only did her children go to a public kindergarten that didn’t teach any knowledge, they also didn’t go to a kindergarten transitional class before entering elementary school. She believes that learning knowledge is something that happens after elementary school. Children should enjoy their childhood and play freely before elementary school. Therefore, when her children were in elementary school, they could not count smoothly, let alone read. As a result, her son…
No matter how old your child is, if you want your child to become emotionally stable, do these 8 things
In life, we may see that some children have relatively stable emotions, while others may have emotional outbursts at the slightest thing. Each child has a different natural temperament, so their emotional responses to external stimuli are different, which is normal. In addition, no matter adults or children, absolute emotional stability does not exist, because everyone has times when they are emotional or out of control…
Her son is addicted to the Internet. This mother does the opposite: I never stop my child from playing games because I have figured out these things…
Elon Musk once said: The mobile phone has become an organ of the human body. I saw a piece of news online: Shanghai Children’s Hospital has established a separate Internet addiction clinic. Many parents bring their children to see them for depression, anxiety, and more serious children with bipolar disorder, schizophrenia and other mental illnesses. And among these kids…
If you don’t teach your children some things, no one will tell them in their lifetime.
Many parents think that everything will be fine if they send their children to school. In fact, this is not the case. Parents are the most important teachers in their children\’s lives. If you don\’t teach your children some things, no one will tell them in their lifetime. Especially the following three things, you must tell your children some principles of life. Independence and self-care are the capital for a person to travel far away. Many children nowadays are hiding…
People’s Daily recommends: The most advanced family education is when parents do these 9 things
The philosopher Plato once said: \”Where a person\’s education from childhood guides him will determine where he will go later.\” People are like this. What kind of family they grow up in when they are young will determine what kind of path they will take when they grow up. road. What causes parents plant in the soil of education in the first half of their lives will bear fruit on their children in the second half of their lives. Family is a child\’s first school, parents…
Unexpectedly, the reading situation of the children in the editorial office was a little different from what I thought.
A few days ago, I casually asked in the editorial group, how are the children’s reading status recently? Any confusion? Most of the kids in the editorial department are in grades 1-3, and they are all about the same age, so we can chat together. I didn\’t expect that the reading worries of my editor friends are basically similar, they are all worried about time for their children: There are also friends who are struggling with reading in some subjects…
Six \”paradoxes\” that can help children who are tired of studying get better
\”Paradoxes often sound contradictory, but they can help people stop being stuck in the original system, jump out of the original dimension, look at things from a higher dimension, and solve problems. The following six paradoxes can be very useful. How to help a child who is tired of studying get better. \” 1. If you want to get better, you must accept that he is \”bad\”. When a child who is tired of studying returns to your home, will your parents\’ first reaction be…
There is a kind of education called \”low temperature and slow cooking\”
Saw a post on Zhihu. The poster was a mother who claimed that as her son grew up, her temper became worse and worse, and she often lost control of her emotions. She gets particularly angry when her son disobeys even a little bit. She would yell at him, even twist his face and ears, and use cold violence on the child without speaking or paying attention to him. She said: \”I knew what I was doing was wrong. After beating him…