I have been engaged in psychological counseling for children and adolescents for more than 30 years, and have conducted nearly 10,000 psychological counseling sessions. Especially after 2000, cases increased exponentially. Through in-depth exploration of these cases, I found that children’s problems are almost always family problems. Only when each family member performs his or her own duties and finds his or her own role can he or she help children grow up healthily and happily. …
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How to develop a self-disciplined person in your child
Every parent hopes that their children can take the initiative in doing things, study more seriously, take care of their own affairs, and let their parents worry less. But the children always find various reasons to procrastinate, dawdle, and do things perfunctorily. They always procrastinate in doing things and are not self-disciplined enough. Their parents worry very hard, but it is ineffective. Parents are worried because their children still can\’t get up on time, refuse to eat well, and…
Good parent-child education is to let go of your children without letting them go.
Both \”helicopter parents\” and \”hands-off parents\” are not conducive to children\’s growth. There are two completely opposite situations in today\’s family education: one is the \”helicopter parent\” who wants to keep an eye on their children around the clock and arranges everything extremely carefully. Trying to completely control the child\’s growth and development process. The other situation is to ignore it at all and let it go, and the parents basically don\’t care…
What to do if a child has a bad temper and loses control of his emotions
As parents, we all have this experience: a child\’s face, like the sky in June, changes at a moment\’s notice. One second, she was loving as a mother and filial to her son, even hugging him; the next second, he was squealing and rolling around. For example, you must be familiar with the following scenes: When a child wants to watch TV and his parents don\’t agree, he lies down on the ground; when he sees a toy he likes and refuses to buy it, he yells…
How to improve children’s poor self-discipline
In everyone\’s WeChat, there is always a community similar to \”I love my family\” and \”Love each other and we are a family\”. This community either has no news for several days, or hundreds of messages pop up at once. In the past few days, my cousin suddenly asked a question, and the group immediately exploded… Her question was \”Is there any way to get the children to get up on time?\” She said that she was furious…
Preparation for children’s daily habits before entering school
On the surface, children are just playing in kindergarten. In fact, the acquisition of these habits will affect their lifelong quality of life, because living habits will transfer to children\’s learning habits. For example, hygiene seems to be a kind of living habit. Some children will wipe their noses with a tissue when they have a runny nose, while some children will wipe their noses directly with their sleeves. In fact, this reflects the child\’s future…
Why do children eat clothes and walls?
The behavior of children eating clothes and wall coverings is called \”pica\”, which refers to a form of appetite disorder. This symptom is common in children but can also occur in adults. This behavior can cause life-threatening and health problems and requires prompt diagnosis and treatment. This article will discuss the causes and solutions of pica in children, such as eating clothes and wall coverings. Reasons (1) Camp…
The psychological impact of parents’ quarrels on children
Before I begin this article, I would like to ask you a question: Have you ever had the experience of being forced to be in the middle when your parents were quarreling? Recently, I saw a post on Zhihu, where the poster shared a problem that has troubled him for many years. My parents have been fighting for almost 40 years, and I have been stuck in the middle for more than 30 years. I have been hoping for their divorce for more than 20 years. For a moment, I seemed to be suddenly pulled back to my childhood and saw…
How to interact and talk with children to make them better and better
As parents, the most important thing is to let their children grow up healthily, so many families invest a lot of time and energy in enrolling their children in various classes in an attempt to develop their intelligence early and let them win at the starting line. However, many children\’s education experts have found that the influence of parents on their children is the most critical. If parents can provide their children with positive and uplifting ideas in daily life…
Printing and coloring pictures for children aged 3-6 years old.pdf
If you are a caring parent, you will know that it is crucial for children to develop their color cognition and painting abilities in early childhood. In this process, a high-quality coloring information package is essential, and today I would like to recommend a very useful information package to you – a coloring information package for children aged 2 to 6 years old. This information package is very comprehensive and includes…