On the road of children\’s growth, the reason why children become outstanding is not because of their parents\’ arrangements, but because of their parents\’ letting go. In the process of raising children, I always feel that loving children means doing everything for them, until the children become lazy and lose their independence. Only then did I realize that I thought I was good to my children, but in fact it did not make my children better themselves, and it also made my children far away from being excellent…
Tag: preschool period
How parents can criticize their children correctly
1. Every child has different temperament and personality. In psychology, there are four types of human temperament, namely: choleric type, sanguine type, phlegmatic type, and depressive type. 1. Choleric type The characteristics of choleric are \”rapid, strong, and lasting emotions, and rapid, strong, and powerful actions.\” People who belong to this type are enthusiastic, straightforward…
How do parents encourage their children to act from the heart?
A few days ago, a friend came to me for help, saying that her child’s academic performance was not very good before, so she thought of many ways to motivate her: If he scored 80 points in the exam, he would take him to a big meal; if he ranked in the top 20, he would be rewarded. Toys; if you get to the top 10, you will be rewarded with a trip to Disneyland. Parents have worked hard, but their children\’s grades have not improved. At first, the children were interested in this reward system…
What to do if a child threatens his parents by crying
Do you often encounter children who cry when they are not given toys, cry when they are not allowed to eat ice cream, cry when they are not allowed to look at their mobile phones, cry when they are not allowed to play with items that cannot be played with, or cry when they are not allowed to eat inappropriate food? In short, as long as they are not satisfied, they will roll on the floor and cry loudly. For this reason, many parents compromise in order to prevent their children from crying. In fact, I used to be like this, but recently I found that if my children are not satisfied…
How to cultivate children’s ability to be independent
When a friend mentioned his son, who was in sixth grade, he became very angry: \”If you don\’t let him do something, he won\’t feel comfortable; if you say, \’Just do it,\’ he won\’t do it!\” It turns out that , some time ago, my son wanted to participate in a robot competition. He was worried that it would affect his study, so he said he would wait a few months. My son didn\’t participate, he felt uncomfortable all the time, and he wasn\’t as active in studying as before…
What should I do if my children are not filial to their parents?
As the saying goes: \”Filial piety comes first among all good deeds.\” The ancients attached great importance to filial piety, and many kings advocated governing the country with filial piety. The story of the \”Twenty-Four Filial Piety\” is widely circulated to this day. Nowadays, most parents pay more attention to their children\’s learning and want their children to become better. They often neglect to teach their children to be filial. A child\’s mind is born like a blank piece of paper, whatever the parents draw on it is…
Really powerful people have great brains, let your children see more
Some people say that a \”Romance of the Three Kingdoms\” is a heroic epic. Those strategists who have clever calculations in their chests can win a victory thousands of miles away in a moment; they have heroic soldiers in their hearts, and in the midst of talking and laughing, their guns and oars will be turned into ashes. Wang Zuozhi’s talents Xun Yu, Wolong Kongming, Fengchu Pang Tong, ghost genius Guo Jia, poisonous scholar Jia Xu, young Qi Jiang Wei… are countless. Among this group of heroes, only…
What should I do if my child can’t withstand setbacks?
Parents often complain to me that their children cry when they encounter problems when doing homework; some children let their parents do it while they wait for the answer. So, what should parents do when their children encounter difficulties in learning and cannot solve them independently? Recently, our laboratory conducted a related study to answer this question. Participants in the experiment were all families with children aged 3 to 6 years old. children…
What should I do if my child is timid and unsure of himself?
In childhood, a child not only needs a mother, but also a father. Only with the love of both parents can the child grow up healthily. Parents\’ love should include tolerance, acceptance, support, and respect, rather than being so-called, sarcastic, picky, and disrespectful. When children grow up, parents do not view their children with acceptance, tolerance and respect, but with criticality and criticism…
How to raise happy children
CCTV host Li Xiaomeng once shared a mother\’s story, which moved me deeply. This mother, in order to accompany her son to grow up, has been working at home. The family\’s income mainly came from his father\’s job. When he was at his poorest, the family only had a few dozen yuan left to survive. But the mother never complained about her efforts or talked about all kinds of truths with her son. Instead, she always taught her son to look on the bright side. Her son…