Before my son went to junior high school, I heard many people say to me: \”I envy you, there are old people to help you take care of your children!\” Yes, for \”dual-income\” families who are both working hard in the workplace, the old people can help pick up and take care of your children. It is such a blessing for children to learn. However, I didn’t realize at the time that I needed my children and me to repay for my laziness. parents-in-law…
Tag: preschool period
How to increase your child\’s self-esteem
Don\’t take your child\’s self-esteem lightly. Every child gradually understands what \”self-esteem\” is from the time he or she develops \”self-awareness.\” As they grow, they look forward to the understanding and respect of adults. Parents want their children to earn face for themselves, but they always ignore their children\’s face. They often think that their children are ignorant, forgetful, and forgetful, and they criticize their children without restraint…
How to educate children about frustrations
As parents, on the one hand, we protect our children from the wind and rain, worrying that they will be disadvantaged and injured in the future; on the other hand, we are afraid that we will raise a child who cannot withstand the storm. Cultivating children\’s ability to resist setbacks is a natural process. It does not require parents to deliberately create setbacks. Children only need to explore in real life to gradually build a strong heart. Unfortunately, many…
How to teach children about frustration
Once, my child and I were invited to attend his friend’s birthday party. The birthday boy excitedly performed a newly learned magic trick for everyone, but it failed. The children laughed. The birthday boy looked embarrassed, with tears in his eyes. At this time, his mother walked up to the child with an embarrassed look on her face and said, \”It\’s okay, it\’s just that I didn\’t do it well. There\’s nothing to cry about!\” But the child…
How to make children more confident and bold
A few days ago, I happened to see a story told by Li Songwei, a Ph.D. in psychology from Peking University. He has a 9-year-old daughter. When he sent his daughter to learn how to swim, he found that her daughter was very afraid of water and could not learn how to swim. The more the coach told her not to be afraid, the more it backfired. The most powerful treasure trove of parenting and early education resources in history! He missed it and regretted it for three lifetimes. He was very troubled: How can he make his daughter become…
Methods and techniques for morning reading, collected for children
Does your child have the habit of reading in the morning? A Chinese teacher from a key primary school suggested that morning is the prime time for memory, and you can remember quickly and firmly with a clear mind. Morning reading can help children open up their energy and open their minds for learning throughout the day! Many mothers say that reading in the morning is good, but my children also read in the morning. Why is there no effect? The teacher pointed out that in fact, most children…
What should you pay attention to when you are just pregnant with your baby?
The most important thing to note when you are pregnant with your baby! Keep these points in mind! Parents-to-be, don’t be careless! When you are pregnant, you have to pay attention to various things. You can\’t eat this or that. There are too many restrictive things. Some people will even try to find ways to verify whether it is a boy or a girl. I remember when I was pregnant, my family was very careful, letting me rest at home and not even letting me go to work, which caused me…
What are the bad habits that children between the ages of 3 and 6 must not get into during the critical period?
When talking about the shortcomings of some parents in educating their children, Professor Li Meijin once said: The more hardship a person endures in his early years, the better his endurance. Especially those with sons at home, they must not be obedient. Many treacherous children are spoiled. Professor Li Meijin gave these two contrasting examples, which are also very appropriate: \”A boy is making trouble with you when he is three or four years old. Let this child make trouble. How can he fight with you…
50 classic beautiful sentences about spring, for children to collect
1. For cherry blossoms, they start with surprise, fall into beauty, and overflow with tenderness. 2. The lovely spring comes, bringing with it a torrent of flowers and music, the flowers spread across the earth, and the melody of youth floats in the sky. 3. The best spring is when there is sunshine on one side and blue sky on the other. 4. I hope that spring will not be late and we will eventually meet again. 5. I said to myself, step over, spring is not far away,…
Confusions and questions about children’s education
Recently I saw a video by psychology professor He Lingfeng. He recalled two things on his education journey: The first thing was that his daughter was addicted to watching TV dramas. When my daughter was a child, she fell in love with watching anime during a certain winter vacation and watched more than 200 episodes in one go. This anime only updates one episode per week, with the original Japanese version on Tuesday and the Chinese subtitled version on Thursday. After school started, He Lingfeng…