A mother said that her 10-year-old son was very timid and timid all day long. He was often bullied by his classmates at school, and she was worried about this. The relationship between her and her husband was not very good. They often quarreled, and the children were very depressed living in this environment. Not only that, the husband will beat the child whenever he is angry. As time goes by, the child becomes very \”obedient\”. …
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Be wary of the seven types of mothers who specialize in cheating babies!
The first type: working too hard and living too tiringly. What my mother often talks about is \”Is it easy for me to pull you up so big?\” The word \”pull\” vividly expresses the hard work of raising children. I wake up early for my children at night, buy groceries and cook at dawn, send my children to school, help them with homework after class, and do laundry in the middle of the night. Diligence and simplicity are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation and a good wife…
Xie Weihe: \”Mother\’s education\” is the key to family education
Family education plays a very critical role in a person\’s growth, and mother\’s education is the most core factor in family education. In my thinking and research on family education, I often think of my mother. Her image in my eyes and her influence on my life and academic career are irreplaceable. My mother\’s words and deeds made me deeply understand that \”mother…
Li Meijin: When educating children, emotions must come first and restraint come last!
When we discuss a child\’s behavior, we often trace it back to the child\’s family of origin. In the end, we find that no matter whether the child\’s behavior is good or bad, it is inseparable from the influence of parents\’ education. Children\’s problems are all parents\’ problems, and children\’s excellence is all the fault of parents. Education starts from the moment a child is born. It doesn’t only happen when children are taught serious lessons…
How to make your child become a self-disciplined person
I heard a friend talk about her parenting experience, which was about \”tolerance\”. When most mothers are busy urging their children to get up on time to complete their summer homework every day; complain that their children are neglected and can\’t remember the things they need for interest classes; and complain to each other about their children\’s performance during the holidays in the parent group every day, I A friend who always looks much more elegant and calm. Being a parent forever…
The consequences of losing control of your emotions are terrible, parents must know
Mother lost control of her emotions and killed her child. A few days ago, I saw a piece of news that was both sad and angry. A 6-year-old boy in Fujian tried to go to bed without washing himself. When his mother saw this, she became angry, rushed to his room, and kicked the boy in the abdomen. Later, after the boy washed up and went to bed, he suddenly felt cold all over in the early morning, and his family immediately sent him to the hospital. After doctor…
How to cultivate children’s self-discipline
On the road of raising children, what kind of behavior of the child actually makes you entangled or even painful? We only have to look for one thing. This is the real child. His behavior stimulates me. What I need to do is to quickly eliminate my painful emotions. , and think about why he is like this? Because as a child grows up, everything he shows is real and full of variables. Growing up…
Why it’s hard to be a parent It’s even harder to be a parent in China
Many people think that it is difficult to be a parent and that family education is difficult. Is it really hard to be a parent? In fact, it is easy to say that it is simple. In the final analysis, it is the four words of \”leading by example\”; but it is also difficult to say, and the difficult point is also these four words. If you want to be a good parent, it is very important not to relax in terms of self-requirements and self-growth. But many parents feel that they have reached middle age, and with work…
How to improve children’s IQ and EQ
It’s heartbreaking to see a trending article about a boy who is sick. Starting a year ago, the boy often made some unconscious movements, such as blinking, clearing his throat, shrugging, etc. At first, the parents paid little attention to these small movements. It was not until recently that they took their children to see a doctor and they were diagnosed with \”tics\”. Tics are a neurodevelopmental disorder in which involuntary muscle movements occur…
Why is it so difficult for you to teach truly outstanding children?
Family is a child\’s first school, and parents are their child\’s first teachers. Parents\’ behaviors and habits will subtly influence and pass on to their children. Psychologist Rousseau once said: A person\’s education begins when he is born. He has already been educated before he can\’t speak or understand what others are saying. Yesterday, Erbao was sleeping in Hanhan. I saw him lying on his back…