After the summer vacation, my child has entered a key junior high school. Looking back on the past six years of studying with him, I am filled with emotion. I used to think that children\’s academic performance depended on talent and luck, but after six long years of accompanying me in primary school, I deeply realized that being a top student in primary school was actually carefully planned. 1. Follow the four \”basic principles\” 1. Focus on cultivating good students in lower grades…
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Parents should never say these four sentences to their children again!
There are four things we should pay attention to, and never tell them to your children. Otherwise, no matter how much you love your children, they may feel insecure, have no independent opinions, or even have low self-esteem and cowardice when they grow up. These four sentences have a long-term psychological impact on children. Once harm is caused, it will be too late to regret. The first sentence is, \”Don\’t cause trouble for me, our family can\’t afford it.\” Such words will make…
Abandoned children in education: Within 5 to 10 years, a group of children with super problems will appear in China
A parent from an affiliated primary school in Beijing told teacher Amy that after the double reduction, children can freely use their mobile phones to watch videos, go on WeChat, and socialize in class. As long as the volume of the mobile phone is not so loud that it affects other children\’s learning, the teacher will let it go. School teachers also only focus their limited attention on a few good children with better grades in the class. There are many in the class…
What are the psychological characteristics of adolescent children?
Recently, I saw this Weibo post: Blogger @游志猷 was in a parent group and heard a lot of complaints about adolescent boys. Every time I hear it, I am stunned. Friend A said that recently there was a competition among several high school students to see who was the most deadly: some children dismantled the fire hydrant on the wall, and some stole things from the teacher’s desk. There are three boys, no…
After my husband and I “raised” our son to death, we suddenly realized: Rebellion in adolescence is the biggest misunderstanding parents have about their children.
It’s really hard to be a parent to adolescent children! My son is 14 years old and in the second grade of junior high school. Since he was in the sixth grade of elementary school, my communication with him has been like playing the piano to a cow, unable to communicate normally. I say one thing, and he says the other. Whatever I ask him to do, he insists on doing the opposite. My blood pressure never dropped when I faced my son who was as stubborn as a donkey. I left for school in the morning and I saw it was getting late…
Can’t your first grader sit still? try these methods
Parents who have cute first-grade children, are they often troubled by their children’s inability to sit still? Don\’t worry, today we are going to talk about this problem that causes many parents a headache, and find a solution together. Children in first grade are in the transition stage from kindergarten to elementary school, and their attention and self-control skills are still developing. Being unable to sit still is a very common phenomenon…
When dealing with adolescent children aged 10-17, shutting up is the standard, and companionship is the best. What is the best?
Heck, when it comes to adolescent children, it’s a really troublesome period for many parents. Although adolescent children still have to rely on their parents financially, they have begun to want to be independent psychologically. This feeling is like a time bomb planted in the house, and you don\’t know when it will explode. In the past, children were willing to share every little thing with you, but now they shut themselves up in their rooms when they come home…
In the first grade of elementary school, when I had a choice after school, I hope I made the right choice
The head teacher announced to the class group the types of special classes for Monday, including 11 events including basketball, martial arts, painting, taekwondo, cheerleading, roller skating, and broadcasting and hosting. A student can only choose one item, and each class is limited to five students. I chatted with the teacher privately. Is it okay if I don’t participate in the on-campus extension from Tuesday to Friday and only sign up for the special class on Monday? The teacher said, no. About…
Three types of \”cold violence\” are popular in kindergartens. Children cannot express their sufferings, but parents have no idea.
In the minds of many people, kindergarten is a good childcare institution. After children enter kindergarten, they will definitely receive good care and education. But in fact, sometimes children may not be happy in kindergarten, but they just bear it silently without telling their parents. I was full of joy on the first day of school, but felt depressed when school was over. The truth is disturbing…
In junior high school, any child who is addicted to these four things will not get good grades. Parents should pay attention to it.
Junior high school happens to be a child\’s adolescence. Children at this stage are not only concerned about learning, but their energy is easily distracted by people or things outside. Some of these external forces can become the driving force for children to move forward, making them better and better, while some can drag children off their horses and make them go downhill. In the three years of junior high school, the time is short and the tasks are heavy, so I can\’t afford to waste it. so…