In a child\’s learning career, there are always several nodes that require our focus. Generally, parents are more concerned about their children\’s entrance examinations, entrance examinations and college entrance examinations. In fact, there is another critical period that determines the development of a child\’s life, and that is the fourth and fifth grade. Because children during this period undergo great physical and psychological changes, it is important to cultivate children\’s various abilities…
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There is a kind of moral kidnapping called \”You are already a mother\”
Biluo came to me to complain because she had a conflict with her husband. When we met, she burst into tears: \”My husband really disappoints me. I wanted a bouquet of roses for my birthday, and he said to me, \’You are already a mother, can you please stop bothering me? ?\’ I was working overtime at the company at night, and he said to me, \’You\’re already a mother, aren\’t you worried that your children will have no one to accompany you?\’ I spent my own money to buy a pair of shoes worth more than 1,000 yuan…
Children are not the continuation of their parents’ lives, nor are they copies of their parents.
When we admit that children have their own cognition, their own ideas, their own interests and hobbies, their own spiritual world, and even their own growth experience and their own path to take, there will be more joy and understanding between us and our children. , less control and struggle. Children are not the continuation of their parents’ lives, nor are they copies of their parents. Children are just children. My friend’s daughter is in second grade…
As a parent, don’t let love wear the mask of violence
Yesterday, while walking in the community, I met a young mother disciplining her child. The girl, who was about 7 years old, kept crying: \”Mom, Mom.\” The mother yelled at the child in a sharp voice: \”You don\’t eat well when I ask you to eat! You don\’t do your homework well! What shame do you have?\” I want a toy?! Mom and Dad work hard for you every day. We love you so much, but you…
The last thing you should do to your children has actually been done to you by your parents! This is how the causal loop works
Recently, I went shopping with an old friend I hadn’t seen for a long time. The relaxed and happy \”girlfriend time\” I was looking forward to did not happen. Instead, I became a trash can for my friends\’ negative energy. It turns out that she had just accompanied her parents on a week-long trip to a domestic tourist destination some time ago. According to her, everything during the trip was full of torture: She felt that her parents had to buy tickets to enter expensive and cheap tourist attractions wherever they went…
The son chews on his old age? ! You didn’t force me!
Is it strange that children cannot grow up and still cannot control their basic life after reaching a certain age? Sometimes it may be that the mother is too capable, stretches her hands too far, takes too much care, and assumes the responsibilities she should bear for her son. My neighbor\’s house is very typical. The reason why it is typical is because of the hostess and aunt. My aunt and I are 60 years old this year. My mother and I retired from a family factory, and the two families divorced…
How many of these photos can you take without crying?
I\’ve been feeling very mixed these days. I successfully transmitted the vicious cold virus to Xiaochuan (I wonder if there will be any victims later?), and he also had a fever of 40 degrees. My whole body was sore and refreshing, but it couldn\’t compare to the discomfort I felt watching Xiaochuan wake up coughing over and over again in the middle of the night. . The day before yesterday, I gave Mr. Yu Guangzhong’s article by Zhang Mei, Zhang Guanli, and I felt even more annoyed and self-blame. But yesterday…
How important is it for children to see the world?
Some time ago, I was having dinner and chatting with a well-known photographer friend, and while we were half-drinking, I asked curiously, when did you plan to start this career? She fell into memories: It was too early. To say that I first had this idea, I went to Yunnan with my parents when I was eight or nine years old. I grew up in the city. For the first time, I saw the lakes and mountains that I had never seen before. At that time, I felt…
You will be shocked after reading this story about how much damage parents’ problems can cause to their children if they do not solve their own problems.
This is a true story that happened in a kindergarten, about the voice of a four-year-old girl. One morning, Teacher Taozi (pseudonym) tidied up the class environment as usual and waited for the arrival of the children. While waiting, Teacher Taozi received a text message. It was sent by the mother of a child in the class: \”I had a quarrel with Mi Bao (pseudonym) at home today…
The child steals things from outside? Your discipline methods will affect his life
A few days ago, a mother left a message saying that when she was sending her son to elementary school, she found two heavy toys in his schoolbag. After opening it, I realized something was wrong because the family didn\’t buy it for him. When she asked the child, he even hesitated and evaded his eyes. At this time, she felt something was wrong, but she was afraid that her abruptness would hurt the child. She just held back and thought…