How to be a smart parent? All they really do is \”indulge\” children to waste time

How many parents are worried that their children will not be taken care of when they are not in school, and they wish they could put a pair of eyes on their children so that they can keep an eye on them to see if their children have not made good plans and will waste their children\’s holidays. Some parents have arranged various itineraries and cram schools for their children before the holiday, but in the blink of an eye, the balance of the holiday is only the last day, let alone planning…

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Does parental anxiety have a big impact? It comes from not believing that your child is an ordinary person

During this period of time, I disappeared from the circle of friends, and my articles were rarely updated. When people asked me about it, the reason was that I was doing homework with my baby. The midterm exam is a watershed, which makes us who were originally calm start to become anxious. I originally wanted to explain to the teacher on my child\’s behalf that \”the child may still be uncomfortable because he has not learned in advance, but he will get better over time.\” As a result, the teacher replied with one sentence:…

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Are children nowadays becoming more and more difficult to manage? It\’s because you didn\’t do these things right before you were 6 years old

Many parents will find that when they were young, they could not love their children enough. However, as the children grow up, the children show less and less respect for their parents. So we often feel frustrated: Why are our children becoming more and more difficult to manage? What step did we make wrong? In 1964, the first episode of the \”Seven Years in the Life\” documentary series \”7 Up\” had the following subtitles at the beginning: \”Let…

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Wu Jing bursts into tears when talking about his son for the first time: No matter how tough he is, he can\’t stop his child\’s tenderness

\”As long as you count three, two, one, look up, you can see daddy.\” Liu Peiqiang said to his 4-year-old son in the popular Spring Festival movie \”The Wandering Earth\”. In the movie, Liu Peiqiang, played by Wu Jing, is an astronaut. Because the solar system is facing destruction, he is going to space to perform a \”wandering earth\” mission. This is likely to be a road with no return. Responsibility, for the sake of the earth…

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When getting along with children in adolescence, don’t keep an eye on the children, but keep an eye on yourself.

A few days ago, a mother left a message: My daughter did very well in the first grade of junior high school, but she didn’t want to go to school from the second grade of junior high school. I have a bad temper. Although I have read many related books, those methods are of no use on my daughter. Sometimes, I couldn\’t help but beat, scold or ridicule my children, and afterwards I felt extremely self-blame and regret. Our relationship was once very bad. I\’m worried that my child won\’t be able to study…

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We must teach our children: not taking advantage is education

Once I was riding a high-speed train and I brought some biscuits with me. I was eating them when I noticed a little girl in the aisle staring at the biscuits in my hand with a longing look on her face. Amused by her appearance, I picked up a bag and said, \”Little sister, take it and eat it.\” She had already reached out to me, but in the end she retracted her hand, and after a fierce ideological struggle, she said: \”Mom said you can\’t just take anyone…

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What is a good nutritious breakfast for children? These are simple and time-saving, let’s do them together

A small investment in breakfast brings big rewards. Nowadays, many students have developed the habit of skipping breakfast or eating casually. The reason is basically that they don’t have enough time to wake up late, and they think breakfast is not that important. But learning is heavy mental work and requires a lot of energy. If you don’t eat breakfast or don’t eat well, your academic performance will be affected first! Physiological research…

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My son is a genius who is not understood by the world [so shocked that he burst into tears]!

A genius not understood by the world. To other children, being born into a family where the father is a government official and the mother is a university professor is equivalent to holding a golden key. But it was a kind of pressure for me because I did not inherit the good genes of my parents. When I was two and a half years old, other children could read Tang poetry and Song lyrics from 1 to 100, but I couldn\’t even count to 10. Elementary school…

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