At different stages of every society, children\’s education has a direct impact on society. One characteristic of first-born babies is that they will quickly hide in their mother\’s arms when they hear sounds. It may be because they are stimulated by fetal movements and get closer to their mothers. The second-born baby may like some more lively children, like to be held by outsiders, and like to have family members around him. A baby\’s personality is different from that of our adults, and a larger part of the reason is that it is influenced by family values. In fact, in life, every family often hears about children\’s growth problems, and we often hear that the reason why children have different personalities from children of the same age is because parents have different parenting methods.
Will a boy and a girl form two completely different personalities? This is not the case. It is possible that the two children have exactly the same personality. It is more likely that boys and girls have two different types of relationships. There are differences in the growth environment of boys and girls. If parents compare their children, they will find that there are several differences between them.
First: Some parents pay attention to respecting their children\’s opinions, while some parents\’ respect for their children will make their children feel that they are the little emperor or princess of the family. Why parents have such big differences in their children\’s growth is actually related to their children\’s family concepts. For example: Some families treat their children as members of the family, so when doing some things they will focus on the children without considering the feelings of other family members. Some families treat their children as an independent business, so they respect their children\’s opinions more, do not want their children to be wronged, and cannot let their children do things they don\’t like. Therefore, when parents look at their children\’s personalities, they can see that their children are more different than others, and they can also understand their children\’s thoughts. Such children know how to respect others better.
Second: Parents rarely lose their temper in front of their children. Many parents of children are not very willing to get angry when getting along with their children, especially their own children, who are very active and easily get along with other children. People conflict. Parents are always strict with their children\’s behavior. In the process of educating their children, they often use critical education methods to make their children\’s minds more confused. If parents don\’t get angry, their children will know how to behave in a way that is appropriate for their age. Children are the heart and soul of parents. In the hearts of parents, if there is a docile child, the parents will particularly like it and be more willing to pay for the child, so that the child can feel the warmth of the parent.
Third: For children who have never been beaten or scolded by their parents since childhood, we usually use violence to solve problems. But if a child has never been beaten or scolded by his parents since childhood,Once he has been beaten or scolded, he will become particularly confident and believe in himself even more. If a child is beaten and scolded by his parents since childhood, then the child\’s character will be full of inferiority and arrogance. Will such a character affect the child\’s growth, especially for boys? We generally like to use violence to solve problems, but parents must protect their children when they are growing up and do not hit or scold them, so that they can grow up healthily.
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