3 signs that children will not be filial to their parents in the future. The second type must be corrected immediately

During the Chinese New Year last year, I was a guest at a distant relative\’s house. The relative\’s children were running around outside and making noises. They were feeling hot, so they took off their coats. In the middle of winter, the parents were afraid that their child would catch a cold, so they picked up clothes to put on him. Unexpectedly, a scene that shocked everyone appeared. The child pushed his parents away and shouted: I told you not to wear them, you idiot, don\’t touch me! Read the full text of the Three-Character Classic aloud, children\’s version of Chinese classics, download the mp3. This does not sound like the words coming from the mouth of an 8-year-old child! The adults present were stunned and did not dare to accuse him. Only one old lady lamented in a low voice: She beat and scolded her parents at such a young age, how can she do it when she grows up? As the saying goes: Three years old looks young, seven years old looks old. Whether a child will be filial or not can be seen from his behavior when he was a child. If your child has these three behaviors, he is likely to grow into a \”white-eyed wolf\”. Parents must be vigilant! There was a news online about beating and scolding parents at will. An 8 or 9-year-old boy went to the supermarket with his mother. Because her mother refused to buy him toys, he punched and kicked her, and even pulled her ears to bleed. They say children are angels sent by God, but such children are here to collect debts! The reason why children become like this is also inseparable from the education methods of their parents. Because of pampering, one tolerates the child\’s offensive behavior again and again; because of pampering, one turns a blind eye to the child\’s bad behavior, thinking that the child will get better when he grows up… But in fact, bottomless tolerance will only make the child make the same mistake again and again. , and even ruin the child’s future! Parents give birth to children, and children have the obligation to maintain the most basic respect for their parents. Beating and scolding are never advisable. If a child begins to show signs of symptoms, parents must not let it go. You can first have a calm chat with your children to find out what exactly they are dissatisfied with their parents, and then make adjustments based on the actual situation. But if a child behaves unreasonably and beats and scolds his parents at will, then he must not be tolerated and must be severely punished, otherwise it will only lead to greater disasters in the future. Habitual of occupying things: \”Give me the remote control, I want to watch cartoons now\” \”This dish is my favorite, you are not allowed to grab it\” \”This toy is fun, I want it, give it to me!\” This can often be said in life. Seeing such children, they are called \”little bullies\”. As long as they like and want something, they never care about what others think and just want to keep it for themselves. Because parents love their children, they are willing to give all good things to their children. However, unknowingly, they let their children develop the habit of being a \”little bully\” and think that all good things belong to them as a matter of course. Such children do not understand their parents\’ love and good intentions, so they will not feel grateful to their parents. When they grow up, they will not repay their parents equally. Therefore, parents must not blindly respond to their children\’s requests. They must understand that the world does not revolve around them, and no one has to cater to his every request. Only in this way can children learn to think about problems from the perspective of others, learn to consider others, and slowly understand that sharing is a virtue. Teacher Xiao Gu from the must-read lecture hall for parents once said: Parents’ doting on their children is to feed themA dose of poison will destroy the child\’s future. I have read a story before: My mother was going to the hospital for surgery. Instead of showing concern, my 23-year-old daughter asked her family: You have all gone to the hospital, who will make lunch for me? I wonder which parent doesn’t feel chilled when hearing this? A child who is ungrateful is like a thorn in the heart of his parents. When a child gets sick, mom and dad are busy and stay up all night to take care of it. But when the parents are sick, the child behaves like nothing has happened. He should eat and play; parents always leave good food and drink to their children, and the children They have good things, but they only care about enjoying them for themselves; parents work hard to make money and invest wholeheartedly in their children, but their children spend money lavishly outside, buying the latest mobile phones, wearing luxury brand clothes… Growing up in such an environment Older children do not know how to feel sorry for their parents\’ efforts. When they grow up, they will naturally not know how to repay their parents, be filial to their parents, and will not fulfill their obligations as children. Therefore, in order for children to learn to be grateful, we must start from an early age. Appropriately refuse children\’s requests, do not respond to their requests, and let children obtain some things through their own efforts; do not blindly treat children well, do not put all your attention on children, and learn to care for yourself and take care of your partners; teach Say thank you to the child, guide the child to learn to share, and let the child experience the happiness of \”giving roses to others, leaving lingering fragrance in hands\”. Being filial to parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. A child who is filial to his parents will definitely not have a bad life.