3 signs that junior high school students are beginning to waste away, very accurate

It is difficult to raise a junior high school student, but it is easy to destroy a junior high school student! Because this stage of their lives is a critical period for their physical and mental development. If they don\’t pay enough attention, they may go astray. Many times, our parents and teachers don\’t know why they suddenly became like this. There are some signs that may indicate that they may be gradually approaching the edge of \”abolition\”. Day 01: Changes in behavior and behavior usually manifest as frivolous and inappropriate speech and behavior. These phenomena are easily interpreted by our parents and teachers as high emotional intelligence, cheerfulness and liveliness, etc., and it is easy to miss the opportunity for correction. They may often communicate with others in a mocking, sarcastic or sarcastic way, and even extend this attitude to their studies and life. In class, if a classmate makes an accident in answering a question, they may ridicule and sarcastically make fun of them. If the teacher does not stop them, they will become even more outrageous in the next teacher\’s class! The oily atmosphere is caused by the bottomless indulgence of our teachers and parents. This must be admitted! We usually say that what kind of teachers bring out what kind of students, the style of a class follows the teacher in the class. The same is true at home. If the family atmosphere is tense and there is a lack of communication and understanding, they may seek self-identity through imitation or rebellion. We classmates may feel that by showing a greasy attitude, we can attract the attention of others or gain some kind of satisfaction. Once being angry becomes the norm, our classmates may put a lot of energy into things that attract other people\’s attention, not take learning seriously, and ultimately miss the opportunity for growth. Therefore, we must do a good job in management at the source. If they are frivolous and inappropriate in their words and actions, they must be stopped as soon as possible! Day 02 Not caring about anything: A change in attitude toward not caring about anything is also a worrying sign. They may lack enthusiasm and interest in study, life, family, friends, etc., and they may not even have clear plans and goals for their future. I always feel that I am very tired just thinking about the next day. I just live one day at a time, just dawdling. There are many reasons for this situation. The biggest possibility is learning. That kind of frustration and powerlessness can really undermine people\’s confidence. Anyway, if you want to learn but can’t learn it, it’s better not to learn. This is the mentality of our classmates. Our junior high school students have this sign. The most likely reason is that they don’t have suitable learning methods and they don’t know how to learn at all! I have shared my learning methods before, you can check it out. Another point to mention is that if the family environment lacks warmth and support, they may feel lonely and helpless, and thus lose confidence and enthusiasm for life. Like our parents, if we have too high expectations or are too strict with our children, it may also cause them to develop a rebellious mentality and show an attitude of not caring about anything. Day 03 Frequent conflicts with others: Deterioration of interpersonal relationships. Conflicts may occur at home, school or society! It\’s fine when you can see it, but it\’s easy to cause changes in personality when you can\’t see it. There may be many reasons for frequent conflicts with others.But the most common is a lack of communication and understanding. Our classmates are gradually forming their own independent consciousness and self-awareness, and they are eager to be understood and recognized. However, due to the influence of various factors such as family, school and social environment, they may not receive enough support and attention. This lack of communication and understanding can lead to negative emotions and behaviors, which can lead to conflicts with others. Try to listen to their thoughts and feelings as much as possible, respect their choices and decisions, and provide them with necessary support and help. At the same time, our parents and teachers should also educate them on how to get along and communicate with others to prevent them from venting their emotions in places they shouldn\’t.