4 signs that a child is slowly becoming better, parents must know!

To hope that their children will become successful and that their daughters will become phoenixes is the greatest expectation that parents have for their children. As parents, we all hope that our children will be successful when they grow up and have their own achievements in society. So, what kind of children will become outstanding when they grow up? In fact, in the process of raising a child, if the child has the following four signs, it means that he is slowly starting to become outstanding! Educated Someone once said: \”In the garden of the human soul, the most simple, beautiful and ordinary flowers are human education. People\’s education is often reflected in the details, every word and deed, every move, every bit. Every daily behavior can reflect the cultivation of character.\” The most expensive thing is education, and the most difficult thing is self-cultivation. This is especially true for children. I once saw a photo on the Internet: a little boy and a middle-aged doctor bowing to each other face to face. The little boy is named Junjun. He is only 3 years old this year. He was sent to the hospital by his parents for treatment because of a high fever that persisted. After treatment, Junjun\’s condition improved. When he went to the hospital for a review, Junjun\’s parents told him that his illness was cured by Dr. Yang and signaled their children to express their gratitude to Dr. Yang. Unexpectedly, Junjun expressed his gratitude in an unexpected way, which was a deep bow. Dr. Yang was touched by the child\’s cuteness and sincerity, and immediately bent down and bowed in thanks. Some netizens said that this picture is like a warm current, giving people warmth and relief. But in addition to being moved, I also discovered another kind of light in the little boy, that is, education. My child, you look so educated and beautiful. He may not be outstanding as defined by the secular population, nor may he be able to become a professional elite. But he is well-educated and will eventually be treated gently by the world. As a saying goes: \”A person\’s interpersonal relationships determine whether a person can fly high, and a person\’s upbringing determines whether a person can fly far.\” A child\’s upbringing determines his or her future development. Become confident. As the saying goes: \”Confidence is the cornerstone of success.\” If a person lacks self-confidence, he will not be able to do anything well. Whether in study or life, self-confidence plays a big role. I once saw a piece of news about a 7-year-old Japanese boy who touched countless people. The little boy has long black hair. At first glance, he looks no different from a girl. He grew his hair long because he wanted to give it to people who were sick. His father was very opposed to it at first: \”When people call him a little girl, I have to explain to them that he is actually a boy.\” However, his father finally approved his child\’s behavior. He said: \”He just donated his hair.\” Always working hard.\” As a \”special boy\”, he also suffered a lot of pressure in school. Everyone laughed at him for being a girl, and he was often teased by his classmates. After persisting for three years, the little boy cut off his long hair and gave it to patients suffering from hair loss due to cancer. It’s not just love that I find admirable. But for a child, having his own ideas and being able to stick to his heart in the face of criticism is an unimaginably powerful self-confidence. Confidence is a kind of ability, which comes from children\’s independent thinking and from children\’s step-by-step practice and thinking. Self-confidence is an excellent nutrient for a child’s growth and will become the child’s currentThe best look in the future. Children with confidence are always willing to stand in the brightest place and show themselves without any timidity, so they will be more likely to be favored by fate. Learn self-discipline Someone once said: \”There is a quality that can make a person stand out among the mediocre people who do nothing. This quality is not talent, education, or IQ, but self-discipline.\” Self-disciplined people are talented. You will have a cheating life. The same is true for children. A child who learns self-discipline will benefit from it throughout his life. I once read an article that told a little story: an 8-year-old boy grew up abroad and later returned to China to receive second-grade education. The little boy studied the front and back of the Chinese language test paper for an hour and a half and only filled in one blank. The mother was worried that her child would not be able to keep up, so she told her that she should start reading from the first grade. The little boy shook his head and determined to go to the second grade. In the first semester, the little boy scored second to last in the class. At the end of the second study session, the little boy ranked first in the class with a score of 99 in Chinese. Everyone was shocked and asked the little boy\’s mother for advice on how to educate him. But the mother said: \”I didn\’t do anything, the child did it himself.\” The little boy\’s mother is a psychology professor and has focused on cultivating the child\’s self-discipline since he was a child. The child has benefited from it for many years. After returning to China, when children encounter problems in Chinese, the first thing they think of is not to give up, but how to solve the problem. He made a plan for himself to study Chinese for half an hour every day. Learn a few pinyin, memorize a few Chinese characters, read the text a few times…the little boy planned everything clearly. Behind success is strong self-discipline. Self-discipline is enough to make a person successful. A self-disciplined child has a bright future. There is a saying about the courage to admit mistakes: \”Only when you dare to admit mistakes can you make progress.\” In life, everyone will inevitably make mistakes, and \”sages\” are no exception. The reason why sages are sages is because they have the courage to admit their mistakes after making mistakes and correct them in time. Therefore, a child who is brave enough to admit his mistakes will tend to be more popular and more likely to succeed. George Washington was born into a large plantation family. There are many orchards at home, with many fruit trees, and a cherry tree of excellent variety. This cherry tree is growing beautifully and is full of flowers. One day, Washington\’s father gave him an ax and asked him to cut down the miscellaneous trees that were affecting the growth of the fruit trees. Unexpectedly, Washington accidentally cut down the only cherry tree in the orchard. Fearing punishment, he covered the cherry tree with miscellaneous trees. When his father found out, he did not punish Washington directly, but first praised him for his hard work. After hearing his father\’s praise, Washington suddenly felt ashamed, told his father the truth, and asked his father to punish him. However, his father did not punish him, but said: \”I would rather have a child who has the courage to admit his mistakes than have an orchard full of lush cherry trees.\” Washington was still young at the time and didn\’t understand why admitting his mistakes would be better than having an orchard full of luxuriant cherry trees. A cherry tree is still precious. My father taught me sincerely: \”A person who dares to make mistakes will do it for his own good.\”Only by taking responsibility for mistakes can he gain a better foothold in society and gain the trust of others. \”Children who have the courage to admit their mistakes embody a sense of responsibility and a sense of right and wrong. Such children will know how to take responsibility for their own words and deeds, and then they can control their own future. What is the purpose of education? It is to cultivate children into an excellent person .An excellent child cannot do without the guidance of his parents. On the road of children’s education, parents need to accompany and accompany them!