Why do some children go to prestigious universities, while others drop out of junior high school and go home? Why is this? Let\’s put it this way, what really widens the gap is not IQ and personality at all, but these few seemingly inconspicuous little things. 1. People who are punctual may not necessarily be excellent, but excellent people must be punctual, because punctuality represents self-discipline, responsibility, and makes people feel reliable. For children, punctuality represents the ability to manage time, study and live in a planned and responsible manner. Punctuality can best reveal a person\’s education and cultivation. Details will always determine success or failure. Please let your children learn to be punctual from the day they know time. For example, when children get up every day, what to do after getting up, what time to eat breakfast, what time to go to school, etc. Make time plans. 2. Sorting Compared with the cultivation of learning ability, sorting ability has always been relatively marginal and not taken seriously. Many parents do not take it seriously. In fact, this is a conceptual misunderstanding. Organizing ability has a great impact on learning. Many children lack the habit of organizing. They either don’t bring textbooks, pens, or notebooks to class. Therefore, parents should not neglect the cultivation of their children’s tidying habits. Organizing starts with small things. CCTV recommends over 500 high-scoring excellent documentaries. Children will become addicted to self-discipline after watching The Pattern Explosion. School bags are a must-have item for children. You can start from the simple matter of learning to organize your own school bags, and then gradually transition to organizing bookshelves and desks. Storage, start with small things and accumulate successful experiences, so that children will be more willing to learn and develop a good habit of organizing and storing! Parents set examples. Parents are their children’s first teachers. Parents’ education cannot be replaced. Parents’ words and deeds have a profound impact on their children. Parents should take the lead in becoming enthusiasts and practitioners of organization and storage, keeping items in the home in order and the home environment neat and orderly; Parents should also become their children\’s instructors and companions in learning to organize and store, so that their children can learn about it and fall in love with it. Learn the habit of tidying up, which can exercise your child\’s observation, hands-on, and self-discipline abilities. 3. Reading. Some people once conducted a survey on children who were rated as the top ten teenagers in the country and found that these children\’s reading ability was higher than that of ordinary children. Others once interviewed some successful people and found that when summing up their successful experiences, these children , all mentioned that reading has benefited them a lot…Why does reading have such a big impact on a person\’s growth? Bi Shumin said: Letting your children fall in love with reading will definitely become the most cost-effective educational investment in your life. Educator Suhomlinsky said: \”A child who does not read is a potential poor student in learning.\” Reading is a lifelong asset. Children who love reading have richer and more mature ideas, unique insights, and are not easy to follow blindly. 4. Physical exercise is the capital of learning. A strong body can ensure continuous learning efficiency and results. Exercise is good for physical health, sleep quality, concentration, and learning efficiency. And exercise can make people\’s brains more flexible and smart. 5. Do housework. Harvard University scholars once conducted a survey and came to a surprising conclusion: children who love to do housework and those who don’t like to do housework will have a better adult life.The post-employment rate is 15:1, and the crime rate is 1:10. A survey report shows that the average working time of American primary school students is 1.2 hours per day, South Korea 0.7 hours, France 0.6 hours, and the United Kingdom 0.5 hours, while our Chinese primary school students work an average of 1.2 hours a day. The labor time is only 12 minutes. The main purpose of doing housework is not to let children share the housework, but to make children independent, responsible and responsible.
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