68 top scorers in the National College Entrance Examination, their families’ methods of educating their children are surprisingly similar

As the saying goes, \”Happy families are all alike, and every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.\” The same applies to family education. By interviewing 68 college entrance examination top scorers across the country over the years, we found that there are striking similarities in their family education methods, which parents can learn from! What they are passionate about is not learning, but thinking about what Anhui Zhuangyuan said: \”Enjoying learning is the highest state.\” Science top scorers are often keen on logic and reasoning; liberal arts top scorers love reading and are good at expressing themselves, and chatting with different people can also be one of their hobbies. This habit of being good at thinking and thirsting for knowledge originated from the inspiration of my parents when I was young. For example, the mother of Anhui champion Sun Meng said, \”If it is a scene, we will try our best to take the children to experience it, so that the children can \’act out\’ based on their feelings instead of making up random things.\” Even top academics cannot do without the nourishment of love. Behind the top academics there is not a group of tiger mothers and wolf fathers holding whips. The top picks all describe their parents like this – \”loose, trusting, and like friends.\” There is a passage that explains the relationship between love and grades very well – \”Children with poor grades are mostly due to a lack of security and their energy is exhausted in inner conflicts. Family Education Instructor Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother Chinese version e-book + English version pdf +mobi+azw3 Deeply influenced by the words and deeds of their parents, children rarely talk about their parents’ verbal teachings to them, but talk more about the influence from their parents’ actions. Dong Jiyang, the number one scholar in Anhui Province, said: “Occasionally I get tired of studying. , I didn’t want to read. My parents noticed it and didn’t say anything. They turned off the TV and sat down to read. When I saw them reading, I felt embarrassed and stopped reading. \”Good habits are inseparable from \”independence since childhood\”. The old man often said: \”The tighter you hold on, the more tired you will be. If you let it go, you will feel more relaxed.\” The same is true for raising children. Learn to let go, and you will find that your children are better than you. It’s much more powerful than I imagined. Almost all the parents of top scorers mentioned “doing their own things” and cultivating their children’s independence from an early age. A top student at Tsinghua University said in an interview that it was the respect and letting go of my parents that made me I learned not to run away when faced with difficulties and to think proactively. Teach students in accordance with their aptitude and explore the shining points of children. In the interview, it can be seen that some education methods that have been criticized have not been resented by children because they are used by the right people. The number one scholar in Guangdong Zhang Heng said that he has been a strong and confident child since he was a child, and sometimes he is a little complacent. \”Whenever I achieve something, my father occasionally gives me affirmation and encouragement, but more often he pours cold water on me and reminds me in time.\” I nicknamed my father\’s education method \’critical education\’. I think it suits me very well. \”Read classics and expand your thinking. When you were young, you read world famous works, and when you are older, you read everyone\’s classics. This is the reading path mentioned by many number one scholars in interviews. Sun Jingyan, who scored 148 points in the Beijing Chinese Language College Entrance Examination, said in the article: Read more, It will develop a sense of language. The cultivation of reading is absolutely inseparable from the guidance of parents. Jingyan said that her parents have loved reading stories to her since she was a child. Reading is the best way for humans to quickly acquire technology and culture that have condensed thousands of years of history. The many benefits of reading are self-evident: it can increase knowledge, eliminate the rough and select the essential, and form a positive outlook; broaden horizons, you are no longer limited to a small corner of your life, you can travel freely through ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, and your knowledge is spread all over the world. As the scope of your study expands, you will also develop a broad mind and lofty ideals and beliefs; you can learn to solve practical problems Solving problems in life can also invisibly add a touch of literary and artistic flavor to oneself. A collection of wrong questions is a must-have for top picks. 96% of top picks do not agree with the \”question-sea tactic\”, but 99% of top picks will have a collection of wrong questions that they have compiled by themselves. Diligence is not the golden key to getting high scores. Beijing champion Liang Siqi said that he usually spends a lot of time relaxing, but his study efficiency is very high. If he has certain plans and arrangements when studying, he will not be aimless. Do everything. It’s not about quantity but quality. In fact, there are only so many types of questions. If you find out all the blind spots, you will be invincible. Regular work and rest, and love of sports. Middle school students are in a period of growth and development. If their work and rest are irregular during this period, often going to bed late will inevitably affect their learning and physical development. The following scene is probably the most common phenomenon in middle schools: every morning, especially during the first and second periods, the teacher talks endlessly on the stage, while the students fall asleep in the audience; when it is time between classes, in the classroom A group of people \”falled down\” or hurriedly went to have breakfast; some students were repeatedly late because of oversleeping, which not only affected the teaching progress, but also affected their own learning. In the interview, 98% of the top scorers said that they never stayed up late, and even went to bed at 11 o\’clock when preparing for the exam. They ensured adequate sleep, a regular schedule, and regular exercise. There are many things more important than grades. Parents are more concerned about their children\’s attitude towards learning than scores. In addition to learning, most parents say they have other things they value more. The mother of Anhui top pick Ding Yaqi said: \”As long as the child is kind and can distinguish right from wrong, no matter what path she chooses, I will absolutely support it!\” This sentence almost represents the voice of most of the parents of the top pick in the interview. Compared with scores, these parents value their children\’s safety, health, happiness, and well-being more… After seeing so many things in common, I believe the parents have already had some reflections and rejoiced. In fact, no matter whether the child is the top scorer in the college entrance examination or not, the goal of us parents has always been to make our children happy, and correct family education methods can help us achieve this goal.