A 4-year-old girl is forced to cook by her mother every day. The truth behind it makes people cry

A 4-year-old child is in a carefree stage. He grows up happily under the protection of his parents every day and does what he wants to do as he pleases. But a 4-year-old Japanese girl was not so lucky. At the age of 4, she was forced by her mother to cook every day. Not only did she have to cook, but she also had to wash the bathtub, clean the room, etc., and do all the housework that should be done by adults, including preparing things for kindergarten, organizing wardrobes, and dressing clothes. She also does things like stacking by herself. Why does a mother force her child so cruelly? Is it because sons are favored over daughters? It turns out that her mother\’s name is Qianhui, a cancer patient who suffered from breast cancer before she got married. After marriage, the mother who did not want children suddenly found out that she was pregnant. Giving birth to the baby was extremely risky for her because it meant the cancer was likely to come back. Although everyone around her advised her to abort the child, the greatness of maternal love finally defeated everything. The mother resolutely gave birth to her daughter. In the mother\’s eyes, this child is the most precious treasure in her life, and she is Ahua. After Ahua was born, her mother tried her best to take care of her and accompany her. Take your daughter for a ride and give her the delicious food that her mother prepares with the utmost care. Even though her mother was so diligent, unfortunately, her breast cancer recurred when her daughter was 9 months old. When her daughter was 3 years old, her cancer cells metastasized throughout her body. As death approaches day by day, the mother begins to think about what to leave behind for her daughter. She thought that she had no money, power, status or property. After much deliberation, her mother decided to let her daughter learn to cook and do housework, so that the child could live well even if she was alone. On her daughter\’s 4th birthday, her mother prepared a special gift – a beautiful apron. The mother decided to teach her daughter how to cook and do housework. The mother\’s wish is very simple. As long as her daughter can be healthy and support herself, she can survive no matter where she goes. In this way, the 4-year-old daughter was forced by her mother to start cooking with a kitchen knife. Although the way she held it was shaky and scary, her mother still held back her voice and let her learn on her own. She thought: \”What if something happens to me, I don\’t want others to think it, because this child can\’t do anything without a mother. I want to teach her a little more now, so that even if I am gone in the future, she can go on well. Even if She said she was afraid, and even if she hated me, I would persevere.\” Slowly, my daughter learned to use a knife to cut the tofu placed on her little palm, step on the footstool, cut the vegetables on the chopping board, and then put the radish on the chopping board. Grind with ginger. After becoming more proficient, Ahua also started to light gas and use fire, and learned to cook noodles and make miso soup. With her mother\’s persistence and companionship, her daughter not only learned to cook, but also learned to do various housework: sweeping the floor, vacuuming, and washing clothes. wait. Just as her daughter\’s ability to take care of herself became stronger and stronger, her mother\’s condition became more and more serious. When her daughter was 5 years old, her mother completed the final journey of her life accompanied by her family. Before she left, she gave her daughter the most important survival skills: teach her the ability to live independently, teach her the optimistic life philosophy of \”there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain\”, and let her work hard every day… …andThese skills really help children. After the mother left, the child\’s father collapsed in frustration. He used alcohol to anesthetize himself every day and cried bitterly in front of his wife\’s portrait. He had no way to take care of his daughter. The daughter uses all the skills her mother taught her during her lifetime to take care of herself. She gave herself a work schedule for the day, including: washing face, praying, feeding the dog, taking a walk, washing hands, making miso soup, eating breakfast, brushing teeth, playing piano, going to the toilet, and going to kindergarten. After returning home from kindergarten, she started again Washing clothes, drying clothes, tidying up the room and then cooking dinner for herself and her father. Even if her mother leaves forever, even if her father is in a bad mood and has no mood to take care of the children, her daughter can take care of herself. Many times, my daughter will be sad and cry in the dark. At this time, she will remember what her mother told her before she was alive: \”Never forget to smile\”, and then she can become strong again. Ah Hua is now a big girl, but she is optimistic, sweet and confident. These skills that her mother taught her during her lifetime have been with her since she grew up. Writing this, Yuehua also felt very emotional. Not only did I think of the days after my parents left, my mood reached rock bottom, but my career also suffered a heavy blow. Many times, I felt that I couldn’t hold on any longer and wanted to give up. At this time, the words of encouragement from my parents before their death would be repeated over and over again. All over my mind: \”You have to be strong\”, \”You have to be optimistic\”, \”All difficulties and setbacks will pass. If you keep moving forward, you will definitely have hope…\” These words support me from the low ebb. The biggest motivation to come out. Every parent hopes that their children will live a better life and hope that they will work hard to create a better life for their children. It is useful to leave a certain amount of money and property for their children, but it is more important than money and property. But it is the ability to survive. If a child does not have the basic skills to survive and does not have the motivation to live in his heart, he will not be able to enjoy it no matter how much money and wealth is left to him. Money, wealth, power, etc., as long as the child If you have enough ability, you can earn it by your own ability. And the motivation to live, the ability to take good care of yourself, the courage to face difficulties after every failure, the courage to persevere after every setback, and not to be beaten by setbacks. However, maintaining a smiling mood requires parents to cultivate and instill it again and again in the growth of their children. As parents, it is difficult to accompany our children for a lifetime. One day, we will let go of our children and leave them alone. Survive in this world. In these most precious days with our children, can we really leave them the most precious \”treasure\” in life?