A 4-year-old girl secretly ran away to play. When her mother found out…

In the warm afternoon, the sun shone through the window lattice in this bright house. A quiet and beautiful girl sat beside the bright piano. Pure music flowed from her fingers like clear river water. Her delicate fingers played on the black and white keyboard. The mother jumped nimbly while sitting beside her, immersed in the wonderful music, with a satisfied smile on her face. This girl is my daughter, and of course the mother is me. I\’m a kindergarten teacher. I originally graduated from a kindergarten teacher and knew some music theory knowledge, but it was not my original intention to let my daughter learn music because I was reluctant to learn the piano. After all, learning the piano is quite boring. When I was a teacher majoring, I had to learn music theory knowledge, and the teachers at that time didn\’t seem to be that patient, so I didn\’t learn piano entirely out of my own free will. \”Don\’t do to others what you don\’t want others to do to you.\” With my experience of learning piano, I originally didn\’t plan to let my children learn piano. Learning piano requires a lot of hardship. My child is an only child, and I really don’t want her to endure this hardship. Until one day, a friend of mine’s child wanted to learn piano and asked me to go with her to choose a good piano for her child. So I took my 4-year-old daughter into the piano store. In the piano store, a variety of pianos caught my daughter’s attention. When we finished selecting the piano and were about to walk out of the store, my daughter didn\’t want to leave. Her eyes were staring straight at the piano, revealing an expression of longing. I said, \”Child, we have to leave.\” But my daughter was unwilling: \”Mom, I also want to learn to play the piano.\” I couldn\’t help but burst out laughing, \”But baby, learning to play the piano requires hardship!\” \”What is hardship? Mom \”Why do you have to endure hardship to learn the piano? I want to learn it.\” I thought, my daughter is still young, if she wants to learn, it is better to take her to watch others play the piano first. So I took her to a piano training center. The training center is full of primary school students, who are older than my daughter. When she sees her brothers and sisters playing the piano, her daughter listens carefully and sometimes beats time with her feet and hands. I think the child may have some artistic talent. At that time, my salary was not too high, but I still gritted my teeth and bought a piano for my child. For a 4-year-old child, this behemoth is so magical and it can play beautiful music. The piano has brought new joy to my daughter\’s life. When she first started practicing the piano, the little one showed a strong interest. At just 4 years old, she practices for two hours every day. And she masters the notes very quickly. At this time I saw that the child really had some artistic talent. I made up my mind to train her well. Every Sunday I would accompany my children to the training center to practice piano. After a while, the novelty wore off, and my daughter could no longer cheer up Qin. Because the daughter\’s comprehension and self-control abilities have not yet been established, playing a simple piece of music often requires dozens or hundreds of repetitions and corrections. In my daughter\’s eyes, practicing piano began to become boring. One day, when my daughter was practicing the piano, I was busy cooking. When my meal was ready, when I went to call my daughter, I found that she had secretly ran out to play with other children. I couldn\’t help but feel angry, but I thought about how she was still a child, so I didn\’t have an attack. But then I thought about letting the childKnow how to pay the price for your actions. So when my daughter came back, I didn\’t urge her to practice piano. Instead, he calmly arranged for his daughter to rest. The next day, when she arrived at the training center, the teacher asked her daughter to play to her what she had learned yesterday. Naturally, her daughter, who was in love with playing, played unsatisfactory and was criticized by the teacher. After this incident, my daughter gradually realized the importance of practice, and she no longer needed my urging when she practiced. Instead, practice seriously for two or three hours. Watching her piano skills gradually improve, I feel very happy. When my daughter was in third grade, I took my daughter to take the exam. On the day before the exam, I did not let my daughter practice the piano. Instead, I took her to a scenic spot. My daughter was very happy to play. Throw away the fatigue and worries of learning the piano. In this way, my daughter went into battle lightly with a happy mood and passed the exam easily. But the problem came again. Because my daughter had passed the exam and showed off in front of her friends many times, she became increasingly proud and became less enthusiastic about practicing. This reminds me of this problem. Many children are like this. Dazzling results in the early years can easily make people complacent, and can also make parents\’ expectations too high. Children will get carried away and may stop moving forward. This will be detrimental to the children\’s future development at a high level. is disadvantageous. After a period of time, my daughter\’s piano skills showed no improvement. There happened to be a children\’s piano competition in our county at that time, so I took my daughter to participate. Before the competition, my daughter vowed, \”Mom, I will win this time. Who am I?\” I couldn\’t laugh or cry when I heard my daughter overestimating herself, but I remained silent and took my daughter to the competition as scheduled. During the competition, my daughter met many masters, and their piano playing skills were far superior to her daughter\’s. Therefore, the daughter did not realize her ambition in this competition, but got an inconspicuous ranking. After the game, my daughter said to me dejectedly: \”Mom, why are they so good? They are much better than me.\” I struck while the iron was hot: \”Then what should you do?\” \”Mom, I will play and study hard. I will be better than them all from now on.\” From then on, my daughter\’s pride gradually disappeared. As she grows older, her daughter\’s willpower becomes stronger and stronger, and she often forgets to eat and sleep when playing the piano. Especially now that my daughter’s studies are getting more and more important, I think she should give top priority to her studies. She has gradually relaxed her requirements for piano practice, but her daughter has not relaxed herself. I\’m really happy about this. My daughter is in sixth grade and has grown into a tall and graceful girl. My growing up daughter will bring me many unexpected surprises. In one part of the song \”The Castle of Love\” recorded by our kindergarten, my daughter was responsible for the accompaniment, and her daughter\’s piano sound amazed the kindergarten teachers. In the \”Xinghai Cup\” Children\’s Piano Competition, her daughter also won honors. Of course, the original intention of letting children learn the piano is not to let them become musicians or pianists in the future, nor is it to make them a means of making a living for their daughter. It is just to cultivate the child\’s temperament, exercise the coordination of the child\’s hands, and develop the child through piano learning. The child\’s intelligence. Looking at my daughter who is growing up day by day, I seem to see a bright future for my child. I can\’t help but feel relieved,My child, I can create a growth environment suitable for your development, but you still have to walk the road yourself. Mom believes that you will overcome obstacles on the road of growth and create a blossoming future.