On weekend morning, Xiaogang was about to go to the park to play football with his children when his mother called him out, \”Xiaogang, don\’t go out to play today. A distant relative of our family will be visiting our house soon. You can go to the train station to pick him up.\” So Xiao Gang reluctantly rode his bicycle to the train station. When he passed the park, he saw his friend Zhuang Zhuang and other friends playing football. Oops, I feel itchy in my heart. Look at my watch. Realizing that it was still early, he should play football for a while before going to pick up his relatives. Xiaogang made up his mind and changed his direction to play football. Xiaogang had so much fun playing football that he had long forgotten about picking up his relatives. After he finished playing football in the park, he thought about it after patting his head. He quickly got on his bicycle and wanted to ride the bike as fast as he could. At this time, an old woman came towards her on a very narrow road, carrying a large bag in her hand. Xiaogang quickly rode past the old woman in order to make time. In order to make way for Xiaogang, the old woman shook her body and everything in her hand flew out. A bag of eggs was broken into pieces, a big apple fell to the ground, and a big watermelon fell to the ground. At this time, Xiaogang looked back to see that the old lady was okay, got on his bicycle and ran away quickly, thinking to himself: I don\’t look at people when I\’m walking. Fortunately, I didn\’t hit her. That watermelon looked so sweet, what a pity… When Xiaogang arrived at the train station When I arrived, there were no traces of relatives anywhere, so I had to go home dejectedly. I thought to myself, my mother will definitely scold me this time. Before Xiaogang entered the door, he heard his mother\’s voice coming from inside the house: \”This kid, I didn\’t pick you up at the train station, and you were almost hit by a car.\” Dad then said, \”Wait until this brat comes back. Let\’s see how I deal with him.\” \”It\’s okay. It\’s not the child\’s fault. I wasn\’t hurt either. It\’s just that the eggs and watermelon I brought you were broken.\” This was the voice of an old woman. At this time, mother noticed that Xiaogang was back, and quickly pulled Xiaogang and said, \”Xiaogang, call grandma.\” Xiaogang took a closer look and saw that this was the grandma that he almost hit just now. Grandma was also stunned when she looked at Xiaogang, and she obviously recognized Xiaogang. At this time, Xiaogang was extremely scared, thinking, how could such a strange and strange thing happen to me? This time he is dead… What he fears most is that grandma will complain to her parents and tell the truth, but she will not be able to live in vain! She felt extremely regretful and had no choice but to pray silently… Of course, grandma also saw the child\’s embarrassment, but kept silent, which made Xiaogang even more uneasy. After a while, to Xiaogang\’s surprise, grandma actually smiled and touched Xiaogang\’s head and said, \”This kid is so energetic. Come and try the fruit grandma brought you.\” She had no idea what had just happened. Mention, during the meal, grandma kept praising Xiaogang for being smart and sensible, and kept picking up food for him. Xiaogang felt very uncomfortable. He really didn\’t expect that the old lady would be so kind to him? The psychological gap fluctuated all of a sudden, and I felt uncomfortable all over! After finishing the meal, Xiaogang finally couldn\’t help the painful torment in his heart. He mustered up the courage to suppress his red face and said sincerely to his grandma: \”I\’m sorry, grandma, I almost hit her.\”You, and didn\’t pick you up at the train station on time. At the same time, I also admitted my fault to my parents. I went to play football and forgot the time and did not pick up my grandma. \”After hearing what the child said, the old lady finally smiled and nodded! My father and mother were also surprised and speechless at this time. They didn\’t expect that the truth of the matter was like this, and they couldn\’t help but blush. Looking at the old lady\’s kind expression, The face-faced father seemed to understand the old man’s good intentions, and said to the child hesitantly: “Good boy, you are a good boy if you know you are wrong. If you know your mistakes and can correct them, then you are a real man. But in the future, cyclists will definitely Pay attention to safety, especially the elderly like grandma, and be sure to give way first. \”Xiao Gang blushed and nodded. Just like that, the matter came to an end. From then on, Xiao Gang seemed to be a different person. From time to time, he would help the elderly to cross the road, and take the initiative to give up his seat to the elderly when taking the bus. He has become a good child who respects the elderly. Nowadays, many families only have one child, and they give more care to the child. Generally, children in this situation will have various problems, such as selfishness, not knowing how to consider others, and even It is disrespect for the elderly. These bad habits will have a greater impact when they grow up. Therefore, when children do not respect the elderly, parents must provide correct guidance. Usually when educating, the following must be done A few points, first of all, in daily life, try to give children as much time as possible to get along with the elderly. And it is best to be alone, so that they can have a very good time to develop feelings. Because most children now Basically, they live with their parents and rarely have time to get along with the elderly. This makes children have certain obstacles in communicating with the elderly, so providing them with a certain amount of time to get along will bring good results. . Secondly, when it is discovered that children do not respect the elderly, parents should not be overly aggressive. It can be said that patient persuasion is very necessary. On the contrary, if parents educate with bad emotions, it will not be acceptable to the children. The degree is lower. The last point is also very important. Everyone knows that some of the daily behaviors of parents have a great impact on their children. Therefore, parents must set an example in their attitude towards the elderly in daily life. , so that children will be affected by this unconsciously.
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