A child whose father committed a crime and is in jail, and whose mother ran away from home, would the teacher treat him like this?

I just took over a new class and met a special child… That year, I just took over a new class. Xiaoxin was a special student in our class. His father committed a crime and was in jail. His mother ran away from home. He has been brought up by his uncle since he was a child. His life experience is pitiful, so he naturally became the focus of my attention. Due to lax discipline, he developed many bad habits. He did not complete his homework on time, did not pay attention to hygiene, and his playful personality often made the classroom a mess. I talked to him and tried every means to change him, but he was indifferent. I was defeated several times when I faced him, and there was really nothing I could do against him. Later, I saw a story in a book: God gave me a task to take a snail for a walk, but I thought it was slow, so I urged him, bluffed him, blamed him, and gave up on his task. He crawled forward, and suddenly, I smelled the fragrance of flowers, heard the chirping of birds, and experienced these things that I didn\’t have before. I suddenly realized that it was God who asked the snail to take me for a walk… There is a way to change him… After reading I thought about the story quietly. For a child like Xiaoxin who lacks care, he must learn to feel the love of others and even love others. He must take his time! From then on, I decided to treat this child with double patience and love! First of all, I caught his study habits. In school, when my classmates were doing homework, I always called him to my side. If his handwriting was not good, I would guide him on how to write it; if he got the question wrong, I would patiently give it to him. Explain… In fact, he is very judgmental about people\’s faces. Over time, he has developed a habit of always looking at me after finishing a question. When he sees that I don\’t make a sound, he knows that he has done the right thing. When he sees me frowning, he always looks at me. I knew I had done something wrong. However, the good times did not last long, and soon he started not doing homework again… Later, I thought of a way to let him be the team leader to send and receive homework. Xiaoxin became an official, and he was naturally very happy and would regard himself as his own. Center, strive to be a good example, and the quality of the completed work is quite high. This is what psychology calls the \”expectation effect.\” When he feels the teacher\’s ardent hope for him, the child spontaneously develops a good desire to pursue progress and actively improves his behavior. The child opens his mind and builds confidence… As time goes by, he will become less likely to fail to complete his homework. I also often talk to him about the importance of hygiene and guide him on his hygiene habits. Seeing that I care about him so much, he slowly opens up and can basically pay attention to hygiene. Finally, a teacher told me: \”Hey, Xiaoxin in your class is much cuter than before!\” His uncle also reported to me that his performance at home was indeed better. A person who has established self-confidence is the easiest to educate. I will publicize his gratifying progress and let his face be filled with bright smiles again and again. Someone said: \”Happiness is like a butterfly that cannot be caught when it is pursued. If you calm down, it may perch on your body.\” Now, I understand that I should stop, adjust my mentality, put my subjective thoughts aside, calm down and listen to my child\’s voice, slowly grasp the child\’s natural growth pattern, and take my time, because, Education needs to wait, calm down the mind, slow down the pace, let meLet\’s take the little \”snails\” for a walk together to overcome every difficulty and enjoy the joy of growth!