A child with two characteristics since childhood: expressive when encountering problems, high emotional intelligence, and popular wherever he goes

When I visited my neighbor Guoguo\’s house, I happened to see Guoguo, who was almost 3 years old, crying in the living room. Guoguo\’s mother kept asking Guoguo questions, but Guoguo didn\’t say a word and kept crying. Seeing us coming in, Guo Guo\’s mother said very anxiously, \”This child is really stupid. He can\’t talk or express anything. He gets angry, cries, willfully, and loses his temper when something happens. The more he asks, the harder he cries.\” , there is no manliness at all, and it can drive people to death. Today\’s children are highly pampered. From the moment they are born, the whole family surrounds the child. If the child needs anything, it only takes a word, or even a look, or an action. The family already knows what the child wants, and will quickly satisfy the child. Therefore, even if a child is two or three years old, or even three or four years old, he is still not very good at expressing himself when something happens. On the contrary, when he encounters something he is not satisfied with, he will easily become willful, get angry and cry at every turn. Guoguo\’s mother said that when Guoguo was playing with other children outside, because he was not good at expressing himself and was timid, even if others snatched his toys, he would not dare to say anything and would just stand aggrievedly. I don’t dare to play in the facilities. What troubles Guoguo\’s mother the most is that Guoguo doesn\’t talk about anything when she encounters it. She doesn\’t know how to express herself, doesn\’t know how to ask for help, and is not good at communicating with children of the same age. When she is dissatisfied, she gets angry or cries and tells him. Many times, I have spoken out about something, but to no avail. CCTV recommends more than 500 high-scoring documentaries. Children will become addicted to self-discipline after watching them. According to reports from many parents in the background, there are quite a few children like Guoguo, and they are worried about this. They are worried that if they continue like this, they will not be good at expressing themselves. After I go to kindergarten and go out to play, I am easily bullied and isolated, and my emotional intelligence is not high. What should I do? In fact, the main reason why children cannot express their thoughts is that parents do not guide them in the right way, so children can only express and release their emotions in ways such as crying, getting angry, and being willful. My little baby was also so willful when he was three or two years old, not very expressive, and would cry easily. At that time, I consulted a parenting expert in this field and read a lot of books in this field to gain a deeper understanding of the psychology of children of this age. Features, in the end, I used an interesting method to make Xiaobao change a lot. And since Xiaobao entered the kindergarten, the kindergarten teacher has always praised her for her strong language expression skills, how to get along with children, knows how to solve problems when encountering them, listens carefully to classes, does not talk over words, rarely conflicts with children, and has a very high emotional intelligence , very popular with children. The reason why my little baby has undergone such a big change is mainly due to the fact that I often do a fun thing with her, that is, I spend some time with her every day to read and fall in love with picture books expressing this aspect. Subtly, my little baby becomes A lot has changed. Seeing that Guo Guo’s mother was anxious because Guo Guo didn’t like to express herself, loved to cry, and was angry, I also suggested that she accompany Guo Guo to read this set of picture books. To Guo Guo’s mother’s surprise, in less than a month, Guo Guo’s The change surprised her and her grandma. Guoguo, who used to be a crybaby, timid and didn\’t like to express himself, has now not only become a talkative person, but also has a stable mood, is good at getting along with children, and can be very good wherever he goes.Make good friends quickly, and your emotional intelligence will be much higher even when you talk. In fact, those children who are good at expressing themselves when encountering things since childhood, have high emotional intelligence, and are popular wherever they go, often have the following two characteristics: The first trait: children have lively, cheerful, and courageous personalities, and are not afraid of things they encounter. Instead, think of ways to solve the problem. The second trait: Children know how to express themselves when they encounter problems, dare to express, are good at expressing, and have high emotional intelligence. If you want your child to have the above two qualities, you cannot rely solely on parents\’ preaching. Children cannot truly accept it. The best way, in addition to correct guidance from parents, is to accompany your child to read some picture books and stories about expressing love. This is because falling in love with the Expression series of picture books can not only guide children to learn to express themselves, learn to control their emotions, express their thoughts, and be emotionally stable when encountering things, but it can also make children become more confident, strong, and brave. High emotional intelligence. While reading this set of picture books from the Love Expression series with Xiaobao, I found that this set of picture books is indeed very interesting, especially the experiences of the various little protagonists in the short stories, which are very immersive and very attractive to children. The most important thing is that this set of picture books also covers various personality problems that children are likely to encounter as they grow up, and provides targeted solutions. For example, children are timid, willful, shy, have low self-esteem, are highly dependent, have no independent opinions in doing things, dare not face failure, etc. Through reading experience, children can learn to express themselves, listen, and become more confident and courageous. In addition, the reason why this set of love expression picture books is so loved by children and recognized by parents is because it has the following outstanding highlights: ① In line with children’s cognitive psychology, cute and cute animal images , has a strong sense of substitution and is very attractive to children. Each story in the picture book has a small protagonist, and they are all children’s favorite small animals, such as: small frogs, little rabbits, little elephants, little ducks, and little squirrels. Wait, let the children fall in love with it at first sight. The language and dialogue in the story are in line with the cognitive psychology of children of this age. It is very vivid, short sentences, and rich in vocabulary, which is easy for children to remember and use. It allows children to understand their own behavior through interesting stories and take the initiative. correct. ② The illustrations are brightly colored and have strong visual impact, and the short story is very interesting. The small animals in the story are lifelike. The illustrations are brightly colored and lively, full of childlike interest, and have visual impact. They can attract children\’s attention immediately and attract them to continue reading. By experiencing with these small animals, children can better understand that their usual crying and willful behavior is wrong, and through the language expression of small animals, they can learn how to express their thoughts correctly when they encounter similar things. wait. For example, in one of the books \”Don\’t Cry, Tell Me Clearly\”, Wuwu Rabbit wanted to drink carrot juice soup, but his mother brought him vegetable soup, and Wuwu started crying. His mother thought it was uncomfortable and did not say anything when asked. She was so anxious. I took it to the hospital! Wuwu Rabbit usually cries when he gets lost, and he also loves to cry when he encounters something dissatisfying. Finally, after a series of events, Wuwu Rabbit finally realized that crying could not solve the problem, that crying was of no use at all, and that he was not popular yet. Finally, he learned step by step how to express himself and know how to express himself.Find ways to solve problems and know how to express your ideas loudly and clearly. Several other picture books also help shy, timid, and angry children know how to change, and parents also know how to accept their children\’s emotions and guide them step by step. This set of \”Falling in Love with Expression Series Picture Books\” has a total of 8 volumes, genuine hardcover, only 68 yuan in total, but it can bring great changes to children who cannot express themselves when they encounter problems, love to cry, love to get angry, and are timid and shy. If you have children aged 2-6 years old at home, and you want your children to learn to express themselves from an early age, fall in love with expressions, be good at expressions, and make your children have high emotional intelligence, I suggest you read this set of interesting picture books with your children. I put this set of picture books Below. 2-6 is the critical period for children’s character development. Only by guiding their children in the right way can parents develop their children’s ability to express themselves well, so that they can express themselves when encountering problems, have high emotional intelligence, and will not be wronged or tolerated wherever they go. welcome. Is your child good at expressing himself and having high emotional intelligence?