A comic tells you that parent-child reading is not that simple

Before parent-child reading, what should you read every day? It is hard to imagine that as parents, we can consume all the entertainment items, but we are unwilling to pick up books. As children, we can only become self-taught in such \”adversity\”. There is only one correct parent-child reading experience: parents themselves should maintain the good habit of reading, set a good example through words and deeds, and let the children realize for themselves that reading is important to you. There is no age limit for parent-child reading. Start as early as possible. \”Children\’s intelligence depends on good reading ability.\” The earlier reading ability is formed, the better the overall development effect of the child. Within a few months after the child is born, you can often show him some brightly colored cards and teach the child the correct corresponding vocabulary; when the child can grasp it with his hands, you can show him some small cloth books. ; When a child can sit upright after nine months, it is the golden period to start family reading. You can read flash cards, cloth books, simple picture books, etc. at the same time. Before the age of three, a child\’s brain development can reach more than 80% of an adult\’s. Reading can promote brain development and cultivate reading habits that will affect the child\’s life. Children\’s interest is the first principle in choosing books. Compared with cultivating interest in reading, literacy is a secondary matter. Don’t treat picture storybooks as literacy exercise books, let alone let literacy replace reading. Because infants and young children have limited life experience, the characters, backgrounds, and themes should be common in their lives. The selection of picture books should be in line with the themes of children\’s lives, and use catchy, concise and easy-to-understand text, so that children can easily accept it. Keep at it and you have no excuse to do anything. Persistence is one of the most important deciding factors. Fishing for three days and drying the net for two days will yield nothing. Stick to the habit and choose a fixed time to read. Parents should guide their children to learn to use fragmented time, such as five minutes or ten minutes in the morning, noon, and before going to bed. American educator Horace Mann said: \”If you can have 15 minutes of reading time every day, you can feel its effect after one year.\” Don\’t give children inferior books. inferior books are not only a matter of material. Such as excessive lead content. What’s more, it’s the negative impact caused by junk content. Some books’ plots are full of loopholes and there are too many typos (some genuine books also have typos, which are printing errors, and the error rate is within 10,000, which is normal). Not only do children You can\’t feel any pleasure in reading, and it also brings bad values ​​​​to your children. Don’t use story audio to replace parent-child reading. In our family, my child likes to look at my face and listen to me reading to her. She doesn’t like the voice of the machine or the anchor. If I persist, my child and I will become more and more intimate and emotionally connected. Come deeper and deeper. Therefore, insisting on parent-child reading is not only for children to learn more knowledge, but also an important measure to promote parent-child relationship. Choose picture books that involve your baby. When children are young, their ability to move is not yet independent. They can only understand external things through the knowledge in books, including shapes, sounds, colors, etc. It is difficult for the baby to understand the meaning of the story. I will try to play role-playing, plot games, drama performances and other games with the baby, or try to draw and tell other methods to understand the content of the book and develop ideas.Find pleasure beyond reading. For example, after reading a storybook about mice and frogs, parents and babies play the roles in the book respectively, showing the different personalities and attitudes of the characters. In this way, the baby can better understand the artistic conception and the meaning of the book. Played a very interesting game. Be patient and be patient. Even if you listen to a story N times and repeat it, it is a baby\’s unique learning method. Since your baby\’s memory and understanding are still relatively limited, novel vocabulary, expressions and knowledge materials often need to be repeated many times before they can be continuously strengthened. , incorporated into long-term memory. Repeated reading can reduce children\’s uncertainty about new content and increase children\’s self-confidence, sense of control and security. Repetition is a way for babies to want more company from their parents. Sometimes, children read books over and over again just to get more company and care from their parents. For example, some children have read a certain book dozens of times, but still ask their mother to read it over and over again, and hold them while reading together. So what is read becomes irrelevant, what matters is listening and feeling. The first purpose of reading is happiness, not preaching. Why do children’s picture books have so many pictures, so vivid and interesting? Why doesn\’t it appear in text? This tells us that picture books should be read to children in a different way, allowing children to experience the plot more, gain happiness from it, and allow children to spontaneously expand their cognition. Always believe in the power of reading. The power of parent-child reading should not be underestimated. Reading to children can not only help them learn knowledge, but also make the parent-child relationship more harmonious. We hope that under our leadership, children can move forward step by step and swim in the ocean of knowledge. From now on, I will fall in love with reading, enjoy reading, and become a down-to-earth and confident person!