Everyone has a moment of enlightenment, either when they are young or when their temples are gray! There are many great principles in this world, but how many of them have we really seen? It is more reliable to say that it is true than to experience it once. \”How can plum blossoms smell so fragrant without being chilled to the bone?\” For our junior high school students, real awakening and growth often come from their own hard work. 01 Although the sun is bright, it cannot ignite the earth. A kind reminder from others is like a bright light in the dark night. Sometimes, it may point the way for us. However, everyone has their own life trajectory and busyness, and it is unlikely that it will always overlap with their own life. Although other people\’s lights are so bright and warm, they cannot always be with us and protect us. \”The master leads the door, and cultivation depends on the individual.\” The reminders of others are only guiding lights. Real cultivation and growth require our own personal experience and in-depth exploration. 02 Hard work, pain and necessity There is a saying: \”You can\’t wake up a person who is pretending to sleep!\” The pressure of study, troubles in interpersonal relationships, confusion of self-awareness, etc., may cause our junior high school students to fall into The quagmire of pretending to sleep. Will pretending to sleep solve the problem? If it cannot be solved, it will make the problem more serious. If we can face problems bravely, each difficulty will be lined up waiting for our classmates to overcome, like a test for us. In the end, we will learn to persevere, face it bravely, and learn from failure. Flowers that have not experienced wind and rain will never be able to bloom their most beautiful light. In the process of hard work, we gradually awaken and grow. 03 The road to awakening, self-driven awakening, is a process from the inside out. It requires us to get rid of dependence, think independently, and have the courage to practice. Only when we first clarify what we want and what we want to do can we have the motivation to work hard and fight. Always believe in your own abilities and potential, and tell yourself that as long as you do the little things in front of you and work hard, you will be able to succeed. Keep giving yourself psychological hints to keep yourself positive. When you can\’t persist, tell yourself: \”I will definitely be able to calm down\”, \”I believe my attention is highly concentrated\”, \”Nothing can stop me from studying\”. With subjective motivation, no problem is a problem anymore. After that, we will continue to work hard, accumulate, and reflect, so that we can truly awaken and become a better version of ourselves. Finally, I would like to say one more thing. On the road of growth, we need to rely on the reminders of others. We should not deliberately refuse, but we need to rely more on our own awakening and self-motivation. Only in this way can we truly awaken and truly grow into A thoughtful, capable and responsible person.
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