A letter to parents shocked the Ministry of Education and expressed the feelings of every parent

This letter not only moved millions of parents, but also alarmed the Ministry of Education, and the People\’s Daily also forwarded it for recommended reading. Some netizens even suggested that this article should be used as the first lesson of high school Chinese and college Chinese. A university professor wrote a letter to his daughter who had just entered university! In the letter, the father gave nine suggestions to his daughter, who had just entered college at the time, covering all aspects of morality, professionalism, knowledge, and love. This letter not only moved millions of parents, but also alarmed the Ministry of Education, and the People\’s Daily also forwarded it for recommended reading. Some netizens even suggested that this article should be used as the first lesson of high school Chinese and college Chinese. Their story: The father’s name is Wu Hui, an associate professor in the Department of Journalism and Communication, College of Humanities, Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics. My daughter Wu Yang was admitted to Southwest Forestry University last year and is now a sophomore majoring in English. Wu Hui himself has a story: he worked as a primary school and junior high school teacher for 10 years, took the postgraduate entrance examination when he was almost 30 years old, and later studied for a doctorate until he became a university teacher. Wu Hui started writing this letter home in February or March last year, when his daughter was still in her third year of high school. He slowly accumulated and pondered it for several months, and finally wrote it before the college entrance examination. After the college entrance examination, he handed the letter to his daughter. , this letter from home changed my daughter’s life. Now her daughter is in college. While taking the IELTS exam, she took the initiative to join two clubs, the Volunteer Club and the Journalists Club. She also went to the Ludian earthquake-stricken area to serve and became a celebrity in the school. So what is the content of the letter Wu Hui wrote to his daughter? Many parents said after reading it: It said everything I wanted to say but could not say in my heart… Baby, time flies like an arrow, and the sun and the moon fly by. Babbling in swaddling clothes and toddling in the courtyard are already a long time ago. Before you know it, you have grown up, and in a blink of an eye you are going to college. Logically speaking, 18 is an adult and I shouldn\’t have anything to worry about. It\’s just that you have never left home since you were born. I\’m always worried that you can\’t take care of yourself outside. You said you don\’t want to go to university locally. I understand and support it. The sea and sky are vast outside, and you can fly wherever you want. You hate preaching, but while you are away studying, I still want to give you a few words. It may not be effective for you, but it is comforting to me. About morality Morality is first of all a practice, and kindness cannot only exist in the heart. The idea of ​​being a moral person is not new. I mainly want to talk about how to do it. Morality is first of all a practice, and kindness cannot only exist in the heart. I remember once taking a bus, I took the initiative to give up my seat to an old man. At that time, you and Sister Jun both said that you didn\’t expect me to give up my seat to others. Let me ask you, isn’t this how your teacher teaches you? You said yes, but you just felt a little embarrassed when you did it. I understand this mentality of young people. When I helped others for the first time, I also cared about other people\’s opinions. Now that I think about it, it\’s not necessary at all. It\’s a good deed without personal gain, so what\’s the point to worry about and what\’s the point of being afraid of criticism? There are many small things in life, as long as they are done at your fingertips, it is a kind of good deed. Don\’t be stingy when you can help others. The world will become a better place because of your efforts. Dad has received favors from others, and we must understand how to give back to society. Regarding majors, choosing a major is about choosing interests, not using interests.Standard measurement. The quality of professionalism is relative and dialectical. A good major today does not mean a good major forever. Do not use the standard of profit to measure the quality of a major. Choosing a major means choosing your interests. No matter how popular your major is or how strong your subject is, if you don’t like it, it’s meaningless. The standard of interest is more stable, and the standard of interest is not long-lasting. Doing what you like and reading your favorite books is a great enjoyment in life. Choose what you like, learn what you love, you should be more happy at work, and your life will be of higher quality. In any major, as long as you study well enough, you won\’t have to worry about getting something that others haven\’t. It\’s like traveling. As long as you go far enough, you can see scenery that others have never seen. With the continuous development of human society, professional division of labor has become more refined, but professional division of labor cannot be divided into wells and rivers. Various majors are ways of explaining the world. If you dabble widely, you will be wiser. About knowledge Knowledge makes life more possible. The theory that \”reading is useless\” exists, and there are also people who make a fortune without reading. But individual cases cannot explain the problem, only general phenomena are convincing. Anyone with a little common sense will know that even if measured in terms of money, the role of knowledge cannot be ignored. Otherwise, the high emphasis placed on intellectual factors by well-known multinational companies cannot be explained. As long as you do a simple statistics, you will find a positive correlation between knowledge and income. Whether reading is useful or not depends on how you view it. You cannot just use \”money\” as a criterion. Knowledge brings more possibilities to life. Knowledge determines a person\’s temperament, taste, vision, level of appreciation, and values… These are all key factors that affect the quality of life. These are the result of intellectual education, not the product of monetary exchange. If you can realize that there are many more meaningful ways of life after graduating from college, then this college will not be in vain. Regarding reading and reading classics, classics are the product of time selection. The biggest difference between college and high school is that there is a lot of freedom, and there are also many people who squander their freedom. I hope you can take advantage of this rare freedom and read more. Nowadays, many young people don’t like reading. They can spend a lot of time shopping, shopping, playing games, chatting online… but they just don’t want to spend time reading quietly. I once wrote a reading message to my students: \”While you are young, seriously fall in love with good books.\” I emphasize that while you are young and enter the society, you will know how difficult it is to find time to read. I also emphasize reading good books. Some books are really harmful, poor in thought, and mediocre in content. Reading is like making friends, you must carefully identify them and avoid getting close to those who are not good friends. A simple way is to read classics. Classics are the product of time selection and the result of readers\’ pickiness. There must be a reason why a book becomes a classic. As long as it\’s a classic, you can read it if you want to. Competition does not rely on personal relationships, but competition based on ability. In this era, we need to speak with strength. The rules should become more and more fair, and competition will definitely become more and more cruel. Dad is a stubborn person. He doesn\’t like to ask for help when doing things, and he rarely asks for help from others. When I was transferred from elementary school to junior high school, it was because the principal thought I had the skills to teach junior high school. Later, the county school recruited 6 teachers. I took the third place in the exam, but I was not admitted. It didn\’t matter. I didn\’t ask for help from others. In the second year II was admitted to graduate school and left that place. Don\’t rely on personal relationships, just rely on ability to compete. Although this is more difficult, it can win the respect of others externally and gain inner peace internally. How great! You have to know that if a person does not want to live a lowly life, he must have the capital to hold his head high. You have to seize the opportunity to improve yourself. Face the ups and downs of life and meet the challenges of the times. It is important to be beautiful both inside and outside. Don’t pursue vase-like beauty. Everyone has a love for beauty, especially girls. People need to know how to groom themselves. Unfortunately, I don’t have any experience to impart to you in this regard. It\’s okay to buy some new clothes, wear jewelry, and use makeup to enhance your look. Of course, being beautiful and attractive isn’t just about appearance. Speech and behavior can convey a person\’s demeanor; treating others can reveal a person\’s cultivation. It\’s important to look good both inside and outside. I don\’t want you to pursue vase-like beauty. Besides, no one in our family has the capital to be a vase. Knowledge is the best cosmetic. Good literacy will make people more attractive. This is an attraction that cannot be taken away by time. About love, true love is deep rather than shallow, sincere and selfless rather than greedy. Love is beautiful, and Dad hopes you find the one you love. My child, as long as you are happy, my life will be complete. Love is very serious and must be taken seriously. Emotions are not for fun, and love is not for show. True love is deep rather than shallow, truly selfless rather than greedy. Your lover is not your private property. You can miss him, but don\’t disturb him easily. You can love him, but don\’t restrict him tightly. Falling in love will make people do all kinds of stupid things without realizing it. As a girl, you must know how to keep yourself safe, what you can and cannot do, and think clearly on the way to a date. The decision to love should be based on daily careful examination, not temporary impulse. I hope your future boyfriend will be upright and well-educated. If you are serious, I will bless you. When it comes to making friends, give in when you can, and help when you have difficulties. University is a place to study and make friends. A person must have a few close friends in his life. A happy life does not depend on money and wealth, but on social relationships. Friends are one of the broad social relationships. If you have someone to share your happiness with, you will be happier; if you have someone to share your sadness with, you will not be too sad. There are people everywhere who are worthy of your concern, and there are people who care about you everywhere. You will feel that the world is full of sunshine and your heart is like a spring breeze. There is no love without reason in the world, and there is no hate without reason. If you want others to be nice to you, you must first be nice to others. In the university dormitory, four people sleep in one room, and everyone comes from afar. It is a meeting decided in the previous life. Give in when things happen, and help when there are difficulties. Roses with others have lingering fragrance in their hands. Regarding time, don’t always feel young. It’s still too early to do anything. Time is the fairest, everyone has 24 hours in a day. Time is the easiest to come by, but it is also the least cherished. In life, I often hear people say that we need to make up for time. Time cannot be made up, if it is wasted, it is wasted. Don\’t always feel that you are still young and that it is too early to do anything. There is a saying: \”I remember the boy riding the rocking horse, but in a blink of an eye he was already gray-headed.\”People\”. College students\’ time is often wasted in two aspects, one is club activities and the other is surfing the Internet. It is indeed a good thing to participate in club activities appropriately, make friends and increase your knowledge. But too many extracurricular activities will make Time is wasted in the name of all kinds of fairness. The Internet is very convenient, but it can also cause trouble. Computers and mobile phones keep you connected with the outside world, but also allow you to be interfered by the outside world at all times. You might as well turn off the Internet at the appropriate time and let time Spend it on more meaningful things. Baby, it’s better to practice it yourself than to say a thousand things. Dad can’t teach you everything, nor can he accompany you throughout your life. As time goes by, life will not last forever; one day, The separation will be forever. I hope these suggestions can be beneficial to you. No matter when and where you are, be happy. If you are well, I will be happy. This family letter is really well written. Although the whole article is very simple, but Every sentence is a practical truth. No wonder it has alarmed the Ministry of Education! I hope every parent can see it!