A middle-aged mother’s advice: don’t be angry with your children. You’ll understand after reading this

A few days ago, I was chatting with a very wise parent. She told me that when dealing with children, never get angry and cherish the time when your children are still with you. In the future, when children grow up, they will become farther and farther away from their parents and go to college. You have to go home once for vacation. If you are married and you don’t know how often you go home, no one will listen to your nagging in the future… I have seen such a passage, please cherish the time when your children are still at home. 7 years ago, Home is everything to him; before he was 12 years old, home was at night; before he was 18 years old, only weekends were left at home; before he was 23 years old, home represented the Spring Festival. From then on, home stopped being called home and became \”home\” or \”parents\’ home\”. Children\’s growth is rapid. They gradually grow from immature children to independent adults. This process is full of changes and challenge. As parents, we should cherish every moment with our children, be less angry, understand more, and grow together. The growth of children is the beginning of leaving home. As children grow older, they begin to have their own social circles, studies and jobs. They may leave home to attend college or move to another city for work reasons. Even when children come home occasionally, it\’s often during holidays or special occasions. And when they get married and start a family, they may go home less often. Therefore, we should cherish every moment we have with our children now. Be less angry, be more understanding. As children grow up, friction and misunderstandings are inevitable. As parents, we sometimes feel frustrated or angry because of some of our children\’s behaviors or choices. However, it is important to learn to control your emotions and understand your child\’s position and feelings. Children need our support and encouragement as they grow, not endless blame. Children will tolerate us, and we must also tolerate our children. Children\’s love for their parents is unconditional, and they will often forgive our faults and shortcomings. Similarly, we should also learn to tolerate the imperfections of our children. Everyone grows at his own pace, and children are no exception. We should give children enough space to explore and make mistakes freely, rather than restricting them with strict standards. Don’t complain about the hard work of doing homework with your children. Doing homework with your children may make us feel exhausted, but it is a valuable opportunity to connect and communicate with your children. As children grow, these times will become less and less. We should cherish these moments rather than complain about the exhaustion they bring. There is no eternal companionship, only eternal memories. When our children grow up, we cannot always be with them. However, we can create beautiful memories by cherishing the time we have now. These memories will become an eternal bond between us and our children. Even if they are far away, they can still feel the warmth of home and the love of their parents. As parents, our role is not only to nurture, but also to guide and support our children. Let us cherish the time we spend with our children, tolerate them with love and understanding, and work together to create a family environment full of love and support. In this way, no matter where the children go, they will remember the way home and the love of their parents.