A mother uses a bowl to catch her child\’s urine in a restaurant: Parents are the ones who deserve more education than their children.

Some time ago, a Weibo post went viral on the Internet. Some netizens broke the news: In a hotel in Beijing, a mother actually used the hotel\’s special bowl for children to catch her child\’s urine, and then poured the urine into a large bowl filled with food. It’s true that one kind of rice feeds hundreds of kinds of people, and there is something for everyone. A customer saw this scene and criticized the child\’s mother, but she disapproved and said: The dishes have to be washed anyway. What is the logic? Some netizens were very angry and commented: You have to brush your teeth anyway, just drink it! It’s all red anyway, so what’s the mosaic? This kind of person should be blacklisted by all hotels. After being accused, the mother did not feel that this was inappropriate at all. When she was photographed and exposed, she was still playing with her mobile phone leisurely. Some people can’t help but ask: Do you not even have time to take your children to the toilet just to play with your mobile phone? If you do this, won\’t you worry that your son will use your bowl to catch your grandson\’s urine in the future? Later, the reporter visited the hotel. When mentioning the Weibo exposure, the staff expressed their helplessness: It was the first time such a thing had happened in more than ten years. There are restrooms on every floor of the restaurant, and the child is not very young, so he should be able to go to the restroom. The restaurant emphasized that it had destroyed all the tableware used by the two guests and took videos as evidence. Netizens expressed: I am really worried about this child\’s future. What will happen to the children educated by such parents? It’s chilling to think about. Behind every naughty child stands a bear parent, or even a group of naughty parents. Parents\’ words and deeds affect their children all the time. If parents are unethical, their children will certainly be uncivilized; if their parents are rude to others, their children will also be rude; if their parents make the home environment cluttered, their children will place items randomly… Children are all born imitators, Ta Will imitate all aspects of their parents’ words and deeds. It can be as small as a look, an action, or a mantra, or as big as your attitude toward people and things, your personal behavior habits, and your temperament. Rather than the naughty naughty children, the parents behind the scenes should be educated more. I saw a piece of news before, and now I feel scared when I think about it. It is about a little boy who follows his mother to a hot pot restaurant to have dinner with friends. The little boy sat in his seat for a while and then slipped off the table. He was running around in the hot pot restaurant, not only affecting the staff\’s service, but also knocking over other people\’s drinks, but the boy\’s mother turned a blind eye. There were two female customers sitting at the next table. They were probably good friends who hadn\’t seen each other for a long time. While they were chatting enthusiastically, the little boy stared at their mobile phones on the table. The little boy managed to get under their table and tried to get the phone. One of them saw this and took the phone back. At this time, the little boy pretended to be aggrieved and came to her mother to complain, saying that the aunt at the next table would not let him play with her mobile phone. I thought that the little boy\’s mother would educate her child, but what he said was shocking. She said: Go talk to them and let them give you their mobile phones to play with. The boy was encouraged and again tried to ask for their mobile phones. After being rejected, the little boy stood up on a chair and spit several times into the hot pot they were eating. The two female customers were dumbfounded and told the little boy\’s behaviorThe child\’s mother. But she said: Children are not sensible, adults, please give in. Later, the owner of the hot pot restaurant couldn\’t stand it anymore and gave them a different soup base. I originally thought that the storm had subsided, but who knew that a greater \”tragedy\” was still to come. One of the female customers at the next table went to the restroom. At this time, the little boy suddenly rushed to her chair, picked up the hot pot soup base, and poured it on the guest opposite. The customer screamed in pain. It was later learned that half of the victim\’s face was severely burned and his appearance was completely disfigured. The little boy\’s parents also paid huge compensation. There is an old Chinese saying: It is the fault of the father to raise a child if he does not teach him. I have to say that some naughty children are really created by their parents. When a naughty child commits a crime, if his parents do nothing, do not discipline him, excuse him, or even set a bad example, it will only make him more unscrupulous and do whatever he wants. Such a child has a violent temper. Once you enter society, you are very likely to go astray, with disastrous consequences. Due to social, practical, environmental and other reasons, the most effective way to educate children is where should we start? This has always been a perplexing problem for parents. The best education in the world is the words and deeds of parents. This is better than any famous school with famous teachers. Some people say that the current social environment is like this. How can we put all the responsibility on parents? We blame the bad social environment. Can we seek justice and explanation from the social environment? Obviously not. Parents can only see results if they start from themselves, not empty talk. Austrian psychologist Freud once said: Life is like chess, if you make one mistake, you will lose everything. Life is worse than playing chess. It is impossible to play another game, and it is impossible to regret the game. When the children are young, if parents do not set a good example for their children and do not correct their children\’s wrong behaviors, and the children break the law and commit crimes when they are older, the law will not tolerate them because they are confused for a while. As the saying goes, \”The upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked.\” When a naughty child makes a mistake, it is the naughty parent who should be educated. In this world, many things actually follow rules. From the day parents bring their children into the world, their words and deeds are paving the way for their children\’s future lives. Being a qualified parent is a knowledge, a lifelong knowledge. Expecting your children to become dragons or phoenixes is not as good as improving your own qualities. Leaving money or things for your children is not as good as trying your best to give your children a good education. As a parent, you must correct your own conduct, be careful in your words and actions. Your words and deeds are the basis for your child to shape their initial outlook on life, and are also the key to your child developing their initial personality, character, and character. Therefore, the essence of educating children is to educate yourself. Self-education is the most powerful way for parents to influence their children.