A mother with a master\’s degree used a \”lazy\” method and only used 2 months of summer vacation to accidentally train her child to become a bully in primary school.

My neighbor Yangyang’s mother is a mother of two children. She has two children, one is 3 years old and the other is 6 years old. Although Yangyang\’s mother has a master\’s degree in education, she especially likes to be lazy when it comes to educating children. She often does it as simple as possible, but she often has unexpected gains. Yangyang\’s mother\’s two children especially like to listen to stories. They often finish one story and want to listen to the next one. Every day, Yangyang\’s mother would be pestered by her two children to read stories for 2-3 hours. Yangyang\’s mother did not want to keep reading like this day in and day out, which would consume a lot of energy and strain her voice. In order to liberate herself as soon as possible, she thought of the laziest way, which was to make her children more literate. She thought simply that if her children became more literate, they would be able to read by themselves, and she would be completely liberated from reading stories. She developed a detailed literacy plan. Take your children to focus on literacy for half an hour every day. Use the Ebbinghaus forgetting curve law to consolidate and strengthen. This lasted for 2 months. In one summer vacation, the child successfully mastered more than 1,000 Chinese characters and accumulated many idioms. After the eldest child entered elementary school, he immediately adapted to the learning rhythm of elementary school. The child can read independently, and when doing homework, he can complete it successfully without the need for teachers and parents to read the questions. He is recognized as the primary school leader in the class. Many mothers in the community have asked Yangyang\’s mother for specific methods of rapid literacy. Yangyang\’s mother shared 3 tools with everyone, which are especially suitable for children aged 3-6. One is to read quickly four or five times. From easy to difficult. After reading a set of 8 books, the child\’s literacy easily exceeds 1,000 words and the vocabulary is 4,000+. The second is story picture books. While reading, consolidate literacy and idioms. The third one is magic Chinese character cards and idiom cards. Through various interesting ways of playing to stimulate children\’s interest in learning, children can remember quickly and remember it very well, truly realizing learning through play and learning through play. Yangyang’s mother said that every child’s situation is different. Her two children read a lot, and she was too lazy to spend so much time reading stories to them every day, so she used the focused literacy method. Of course, the children also like to read. But if the child himself does not have such a great need for reading, there is no need for parents to force the child to learn a lot of words. This will actually hurt the child\’s enthusiasm for learning. Among the 3 tools, the most recommended by Yangyang Mama is game cards. This kind of card is suitable for all children. No matter what type of child, they will not refuse to play and games. The best effect is to combine learning and games. If you have good tools and know how to use them, you can get twice the result with half the effort. Combining Yangyang’s mother’s sharing and my own exploration, I summarized three children’s favorite ways to play. Let’s talk about the magic Chinese character cards first. One is: look for it. Set a time limit, and whoever finds the most combinations of Chinese characters among a pile of character cards wins. The second is: continuous. Turn over two cards at will, and each combination forms a Chinese character, which scores 2 points. In the end, it\’s up to you to see who gets more points. The third is: drive a train. As long as the revealed card can form a Chinese character with any of the cards above, all the cards can be taken away. The player with more cards wins. Let’s talk about idiom cards. One is: look for it. Within the stipulated time, find out the idioms you know and give the general meaning. See who can find more. The second is: Solitaire game. Can play cardsWay. Draw the cards in turn, and play out the cards in your hand that can catch the dragon. If there is no card to catch, draw a new card. After playing, whoever has fewer cards in his hand wins. The third is: You guess it better than me. It can be doing actions or drawing pictures. Another person to guess. There are really too many ways to use the Chinese character cards, and the children have a great time playing them. They often come to me or his grandpa and urge him to play this set of cards. There is no need to push or force the child to learn on his own initiative. Are you still worried that the child will not learn well? These Chinese characters and idioms will slowly settle in his brain and become vivid and firm. Even when your child grows up, he will still remember playing card games with you when he was a child. Nowadays, children have more free time during the summer vacation. You can take your children to learn and play at the same time to truly achieve painless literacy. After school starts, your children can easily advance to become the top students in primary school.