A mother wrote a letter to her rebellious son. Those who have children must read it to their children.

Parents are the first mentors for their children in life. I recently read a letter written by a mother to her rebellious child. Between the lines, there are golden words of advice from a mother to her children on life issues. I write this letter to you for three reasons: 1. You are standing at a node in your life: looking back, it is the childhood that slipped away quietly, and moving forward, the curtain of youth is slowly opening to you. 2. If we don’t tell you some things, no one will tell you. 3. Make an agreement with each other: We will work hard, you will study hard, and no one will let anyone worry about you. 1 About goals People can not have great ideals, but they cannot lose their goals! In a system where one exam determines life, no matter how hard you work, how diligent you are, or how good you are, as long as you fail the exam, you will be eliminated! You should understand that having a lot of homework, heavy school bags, and studying day and night is not because adults are ruthless, but because reality is cruel! 2 About positioning At home, all only children are little emperors, but at school, there are too many emperors, and no one will take you seriously! Unless your grades are better, your talents are more outstanding, and your performance is better, the teacher will still treat you as a treasure. The same goes for society. From now on, whether you want to be rich or pauper, whether you want to live in a bungalow or a villa, whether you want others to look down on you or respect you, you are all responsible for yourself. 3. Regarding learning in school, learning is the main thing, but not the only one. Good study but poor physical fitness is the same as \”reading and reading, and the more you read, the more you become a pig\”. When there are gatherings among classmates, the competitions are: academic qualifications at the age of 20, abilities at the age of 30, experience at the age of 40, financial resources at the age of 50, physical strength at the age of 60, medical records at the age of 70, and almanacs at the age of 80. Decades of life are ultimately about your body. Son, exercise well! 4 About the future A person\’s future is determined by knowledge, ability, and attitude. Knowledge can be acquired through learning, abilities can be grown through practice, and attitudes are developed through habits. You sometimes lack the spirit of perseverance in cultivating good habits. It\’s not too late to correct your attitude now. In the future, I hope that everything you do will benefit both yourself and others. 5 About yourself in school, teachers have no obligation to be nice to you unless you respect the teacher first, and classmates have no obligation to care about you unless you care about your classmates first; in your life, no one has the obligation to be nice to you, except me and Your dad. Don\’t think that the world can\’t rotate without you, and don\’t think that you are insignificant and give up on yourself. 6 About Friends Making friends is like investing. Of course, investment must consider return. If you find a friend, and the friend does not give you return in the end, it can only prove that your investment failed. You should find friends who are stronger than you, and especially remember to help your friends when they are in trouble. Because people who have laughed with you are easy to forget, and people who have cried with you are the most unforgettable. This is why providing help in times of need is more meaningful than adding icing on the cake! 7 Regarding love, sooner or later, you are going to fall in love. As a person who has experienced it, I give you this advice: Walking in front of flowers and under the moon is always beautiful, and sweet words are even more charming, but don’t forget that there are still winds, frost, rain and snow in reality. Love is nothing more than – you love her but she doesn\’t love you, she loves you but you don\’t love her, you and she love each other. The third scenario is undoubtedly fascinating, but the probability is less than 10%. Therefore, noWe should look forward to the beauty of love too much, and don\’t exaggerate the sadness of lovelorn. Shake hands with beautiful women, talk to profound women, communicate more with successful women, and live with ordinary women. That’s the mentality, that’s fine! 8 Regarding distance as a parent, everyone longs for a shorter distance from their children, but as your children grow up, your sky will definitely become wider and wider, and the space and time distance between you and your parents will definitely become farther and farther. Parents, of course, are particularly concerned about how much space they can occupy for their children! Because the sky for parents is exactly the opposite of the sky for children—it becomes smaller and smaller as we get older. I, a common man, also have public sentiments and care about whether you are always around. Son, can you understand the love between parents and their children? 9 Regarding gains and losses of a person, you cannot always be proud, nor can you always be frustrated. When you are proud, you must be clear-headed. There are too many people in this world who are better than you. You must remember your own insignificance. When you are frustrated, do not shrink back and persevere. : How we got through it in the past, we will get through it now. 10 There is only one fate for loved ones. In this life, even if I cannot be with you all the way, I will always want to protect you from the wind and rain when the wind and rain are blowing! Even if I can\’t fight beside you all the way, I will always want to share the pain with you in difficult and dangerous times! In this life, no matter how long we will be together, please cherish the time we spend together. In the next life, whether we love you or not, we may not see each other again.