A must-read for parents, a senior kindergarten teacher writes to parents the instructions for kindergarten admission!

The baby is about to go to kindergarten, and parents feel as if they have knocked over a five-flavor bottle: they have expectations, reluctance, and all kinds of worries. So, what problems do babies often encounter when they first enter kindergarten? How can we help babies adapt to kindergarten life smoothly and quickly? The biggest problem when children first enter kindergarten is separation anxiety. Both babies and parents are anxious. To reduce anxiety, we need to understand: what process most babies go through when they first enter kindergarten. When does a baby cry? How long are you going to cry for? When sent to kindergarten in the morning, babies usually cry for about two weeks. ✔ Tips for sending gifts to kindergarten: When you first enter the kindergarten, you may consider not sending them as gifts from your mother, father or grandparents. Soothe the baby in advance: Dad understands that you are unhappy, and the unhappy mood will disappear after a while. After the child is handed over to the teacher, the parents leave quickly. Don\’t be too entangled, and don\’t set rules and conditions at this time and place. ✘ Wrong behavior: \”Daddy will stay with you for the last five minutes. Let\’s keep our word for the last five minutes.\” \”Don\’t cry, shut up now!\” Not only does the child cry for five more minutes every day, the crying becomes more serious, and the adaptation period may be lengthened. , still crying after two weeks. The baby may suddenly miss his mother during the day, suddenly look for his mother, and start crying. At this time, the teacher will usually comfort him. Most children cry during nap time. ✔ Napping skills: With the teacher’s consent, bring sleep companion toys to help you fall asleep. After two weeks, the intense crying when entering kindergarten in the morning usually subsides and changes to: not going to kindergarten in the morning, not wearing clothes, not going out, not getting in the car, etc. Basically, babies can enter kindergarten smoothly at about six weeks, meet their parents smoothly, or actively say that they want to go to kindergarten. Some children do not cry on the first day of kindergarten but start crying on the second day. Generally speaking, it is because they just play and do not react on the first day. This is also a normal phenomenon. Parents should neither worry nor be blindly optimistic. How to help your baby prepare for kindergarten? If possible, take your baby to the kindergarten in advance to experience various open activities. Take your baby to get familiar with the route from home to kindergarten. Give your baby psychological hints in advance: the kindergarten is very fun, with slides and toys; there are many children as friends, and everyone can play together; a certain child goes to the kindergarten with you; the teacher can help you, and if you have any questions, you can call the teacher. Diet preparation. Children entering kindergarten for the first time may not cooperate with normal diet. They need to cooperate with the diet at home: drink more water and eat more fruits and vegetables. Try to have breakfast in the garden and have another meal after returning home in the evening. Tell your baby about the day-to-day flow of kindergarten. Let the baby have expectations about the kindergarten process, which will help the baby relieve tension. For example: when the baby arrives at the kindergarten in the morning, he will eat first, do exercises and play on the slide after the meal, then go back to the classroom to play, and then sleep with the children after eating. After you wake up, play with the teacher and children. After dinner, when it’s still dawn, your father/mother will come to pick you up and take you home. This sentence is very important. Some children refuse to take a nap because they are afraid that they will fall asleep and miss their parents to pick them up from the kindergarten. The children\’s thoughts are as simple as that. How to cooperate with teachers in home-based co-education. Parents’ anxiety will definitely be passed on to their children. Therefore, parents please be strong, even if they are anxiousDon\’t show it in front of your children, let alone talk about it in front of your children. Trust the teachers, understand the hustle and bustle of the intensive kindergarten period, and give the teachers some time. Be very close to the teacher in front of the children to lower the children\’s vigilance. In the early days of entering kindergarten, try not to make unreasonable demands on teachers. For example, if a child doesn\’t eat vegetables at home and asks the teacher to feed him more vegetables when he first enters the kindergarten, it will easily make the child resent the teacher. In the early days of entering the kindergarten, he \”does not correct his mistakes.\” The early stage of entering kindergarten is the process of the baby adapting to the kindergarten. Most behavioral habits need to be gradually transitioned. In the first two weeks, try to keep them consistent with the family to help the baby reduce anxiety and reduce the child\’s strangeness to the teacher. No matter what \”bad habits\” your baby has at home, it is not recommended to change them in the early days of kindergarten. Various problems can be solved one by one after the child enters the kindergarten for three months. Common problems that parents worry about include: not liking to drink water, not liking to eat, picky eaters, finger-licking, touching the penis (in the anal desire stage), peeing in pants, etc. Kindergartens often organize various activities that are beneficial to the healthy physical and mental development of children. Parents are requested to cooperate and actively participate in various activities. Insist on sending it to the garden. After the weekend break, admission to the park on Monday may be repeated. If September 1st falls on a Friday, it will be delivered on the following Monday. Try not to be late or leave early. If you are late or pick up early under special circumstances, please say hello to the teacher in advance. What preparations should be made to enter the park? What to bring? 1) Kindergarten teachers usually propose some items that parents need to prepare at parent-teacher meetings: go to the kindergarten in advance to collect supplies: clean the bedding and dry it before use. Comfort products (discuss with the teacher whether you can bring them). Diaper bottles. Do you need diapers for naps? Do you need milk for naps? If you drink milk, please try to bring a portable milk box so that teachers can make it conveniently. Summer mat, diaper pad and rice pocket. Babies who do not wear diapers should prepare changing pads. Communicate with the teacher in advance about the temperature of the air conditioning in the kindergarten, whether the kindergarten provides rice bags, etc. Changes of clothes, underwear, indoor shoes, and clothing can be packed in plastic bags. Try to bring as many spares as possible. It is common for you to wet your clothes and shoes when you wet your pants. In addition to peeing your pants, playing in the water can also make your clothes wet. Regardless of whether you have textbooks or not, try to bring a small school bag. The first is to give the children a sense of ritual, and the second is that if the teacher distributes the children\’s works, there will be a place to store them so that the children will not be easily damaged in their hands. For all the above personal items, please write down your class number or name. Generally, kindergartens have childcare teachers to wash pants. Teachers say that they have to wash at least a dozen pairs of pants every day. After washing, they will be collected the next day. It must be convenient for teachers. Own. 2) Health care preparation: communicate with the kindergarten in advance about the baby’s health, disease status and allergies. Consult the physical examination requirements before entering the park in advance, and submit vaccination books, health care manuals, physical examination forms and other materials in a timely manner. Kindergartens require accident insurance. If you have purchased similar insurance, you must communicate with the kindergarten in advance. 3) Equipment preparation. Some kindergartens provide baby videos to facilitate parents to observe their children\’s condition at any time. You must download relevant software in advance, register an account, enter the class system, and try out and debug in advance. 4) Communication: Know the class teacher’s mobile phone number, WeChat ID and other contact information in advance. Save the valid phone number of the kindergarten. Some kindergartens do not allow teachers to check their mobile phones frequently.The teacher cannot be contacted in time if she is on mute, so she needs to call the kindergarten.