A red envelope tricked a child into taking off his clothes and doing a live broadcast! Online sexual assault is 100 times scarier than you think

Child sexual abuse has always been a heavy and painful topic. Almost every day and every week, shocking sexual abuse cases emerge in people\’s field of vision, but they will soon be overshadowed by new hot topics. For example, the suicide of beautiful writer Lin Yihan last year triggered heated discussions and close attention from parents on \”child sexual assault\”. Now that Lin Yihan has passed away for nearly a year, I wonder what parents have in mind about \”preventing sexual assault\”. \”Is the string still tight? Many parents believe that if they want to prevent child sexual abuse, they will be safe as long as their children are not alone with others. However, you may not have thought that \”sexual assault\” has now spread to the Internet, and children sitting at home and surfing the Internet may also be raped! Not long ago, the China Children\’s Culture and Arts Foundation\’s Girls Protection Fund (hereinafter referred to as \”Girls Protection\”) released a \”Girls Protection\” report on child sexual assault cases in 2017 and child sexual prevention. \”Assault Education Investigation Report\” exposed a shocking set of data on child sexual assault cases, among which \”online sexual assault\” was prominently listed: ① In 2017, 378 cases of child sexual assault (under 14 years old) were publicly reported by the media, with an average of 378 cases per day Exposure started at 1.04, and the overall data was significantly higher than in 2013. ② There are 6 cases closely related to the Internet, mainly including: netizens sexually assaulting children after meeting them; taking nude videos of children through online chats, coaxing children to film pornographic videos and uploading them for profit, etc. The following live examples will surely make parents even more moved: Some online sexual assault cases involve tricking children into taking off their clothes in the name of giving red envelopes, making friends, or recruiting child stars or models, and require them to touch their private parts with foreign objects. After taking off their clothes, they also performed nude catwalks and dances, and tricked girls into masturbating. Some girls met criminals in real life and were tricked into having sex while being live-streamed. There are also girls who are unwilling to cooperate with requests such as taking off their clothes, but are later persuaded. For example, one girl said, \”My mother won\’t let me take pictures of that (lower body),\” but the recruiter said, \”Every parent wants their children to be successful, right?\” Another girl expressed indifference, and the recruiter replied, \”I have to.\” Done, you took the money.\” What shocked the parents even more was: There was a video showing a girl taking off her top and video chatting with someone. The father pushed the door open and entered the house, but was not impressed by the scene of his daughter panicking about getting dressed. No abnormalities noticed. In August 2017, netizens reported that a series of child sexual abuse videos \”Jiangsu Teacher Liu, Bi Xin\” were circulating on the Internet. According to information released by the police, there are a total of 75 videos of child sexual abuse. Among them, the scenes of a middle-aged man molesting different girls are unsightly. Dozens of children were sexually abused, and some only gave the victims 10 yuan as reward. The series of child sexual assault videos continues to ferment, and some netizens report that there is also a large amount of suspected child molestation content in the \”Western Wind\” forum. According to the filming party, these videos were signed under a contract and money would be given to the children after filming. The purpose of selling pictures and videos is to support the operation of the site, and I do not make a lot of profits. Foot licking and other scenes in the video are used to interpret bad people doing bad things, and props such as fake tongues are used for foot licking. It’s not direct contact that’s called “sex.”Although there is currently no clear definition of the concept of \”sexual assault\” in our country, the currently recognized concept is: any sexual assault that occurs between a child and an adult (or an older child) in order to satisfy the latter\’s desires. Sexual behavior that is obvious or not obvious, contact or non-contact. The reason why children participate in it is because they are induced, coerced, violent, intimidated or manipulated. Among them, contact sexual assault refers to genital penetration, caressing, kissing and touching , non-contact sexual assault is to expose yourself in front of the child, invite the child to spy on you, touch yourself, or lure the child to make sexually suggestive actions through the Internet. You think that the child is doing well at home and has no chance to come into contact with strangers, but you don’t know that… When they go online, they have been deceived, sexually assaulted, and even become a tool for bad people to make profits! Half of the parents do not know what their children do online. Although online sexual assault incidents are still relatively rare in China, they are very common abroad. A person who lives in Tess, a mother in Campbelltown, Sydney, revealed how child sex offenders tricked her children step by step: One day, Tess\’s 10-year-old daughter asked her to help download a video sharing application called Live.me because All her classmates were using it. But just one day later, when Tess was checking her daughter’s iPad, she discovered that someone on Live.me had sent her daughter a disturbing message: The content of the message was as follows: – How old are you? ? -12 – I am 10 years old – Do you like playing games? – Yes, who doesn\’t like playing games? – Okay, in the game I will play with you next, you just need to follow the instructions below, OK? – OK – First, all you have to do is take off your top (don\’t be afraid, there\’s nothing weird about it) – OK – Take a photo and send it to me – Are you kidding me? – No. I promise I\’ll delete the photo later – Me No – why not? Tess was shocked when she saw this and immediately called the police. Later, Tess also created an account on Live.me, pretending to be a 6-year-old girl. The one who targeted her daughter The person immediately contacted her, pretending to be a 9-year-old child, and asked her if she wanted to play a secret game, and also asked her to send photos without clothes. After experiencing this incident, Tess and her daughter sat down and had a good talk. , telling her daughter that if someone asks her to do something inappropriate, she has to tell her mother. Fortunately, Tess is a very attentive mother, and she checked her daughter’s iPad in time to make sure there was no unsafe content in it; Tess’s daughter is also very smart and has not been fooled. However, not every child will sternly refuse such temptation; and not every parent has the awareness to prevent their children from being harassed online or even sexually assaulted. Today’s children are not exposed It is impossible to use the Internet. They will chat, make friends, discover and explore the world on the Internet. If parents do not supervise their children\’s use of the Internet, it is easy for bad people to take advantage of it: ① A British survey on children\’s Internet use shows that : Children’s time online accounts for half of their leisure time. Children aged 3 and 4 spend 8 hours and 18 minutes per week using mobile phones and other small-screen electronic products.By the time they are 15 to 17 years old, they spend more than 20 hours online per week. ② Another survey results show that about one-third of children in the UK have been threatened or induced by Internet abusers to share sexual photos or even nude photos of themselves. ③A global survey of 13,000 parents showed that more than half of parents don’t know what their children are doing online. On the one hand, there are children\’s needs for the Internet, and on the other hand, there are potential threats from child sexual offenders. What measures should parents take to protect their children\’s online safety? When making friends online, you need to be careful to tell your children that you can make friends online, but you must have the awareness to check your identity and distinguish authenticity: ① Talk to your children more about online safety and let them understand that when they agree to join a social platform, they The information is protected and they can request that the information related to them be deleted quickly if they wish. ②Don’t trust strangers easily. Don’t add strangers as friends at will. Don’t open email links sent by strangers. Know how to identify “fake news” and adults who pretend to be children to deceive. ③Things that cannot be done in reality cannot be done online. Many children regard the Internet as a virtual world, and even regard the Internet as a channel to break through the constraints of their parents and release themselves to their heart\’s content. Therefore, parents should especially remind their children of the reality of the virtual world and clearly emphasize that if this person cannot do things face to face, they cannot do them online. In particular, children must understand that they must not let others touch their private organs under any circumstances. They must refuse when others ask them to expose their private organs or watch pornographic images, and do not post their private photos online. Supervise children\’s Internet access. For children who lack judgment and awareness of Internet security, parents must also control the home network and install software that can manage Internet-connected devices. This is also a good way to strengthen security measures. At the same time, parents should also frequently check their children\’s commonly used Internet devices, such as computers, iPads, and mobile phones, to ensure the security of the content. Put down your mobile phone and spend more time with your children. The reason why many children spend a lot of time online is largely because they lack love and care. They hope that someone can talk to them, play with them, and encourage them to do things in real life online. things he is not allowed to do. In order to reduce the harm of harmful information on the Internet to children, it is best for parents to take time to accompany their children to surf the Internet, play small games, and consciously talk to their children about Internet topics, such as making new friends online, chatting What. Doing so will make it easier for children to identify themes such as money fraud, sex fraud, and love fraud, and will also cultivate a good parent-child relationship without causing children to focus all their attention on the Internet. At the same time, parents should also lead by example, limit the time they spend on social networks, and put down their mobile phones when eating and staying together as a family. Parents should also do this to prevent their children from being sexually assaulted! Lin Yihan has a description in her \”Fang Siqi\’s First Love Paradise\”: \”Just now at the dinner table, Siqi said to her mother in a tone of bread and butter: \”Our tutor seems to have everything, but no sex education. . \”My mother looked at her in surprise and replied:\”What sex education? Sex education is for those who need sex. Isn\’t that what education is?\” Siqi understood for a moment that her parents would be absent forever in this story. They were absent from school, but they thought they hadn\’t started school yet. \”However, the most important thing to prevent children from being sexually assaulted is parents! If parents don’t teach their children sex education, how will their children know how to protect themselves? ① Provide systematic sex education to children from a very young age with an open attitude and reference to scientific guidelines. ②Don’t take chances and lose your awareness of the acquaintances and relatives around you. Nor should you rashly assume that boys will not be sexually assaulted just because your child is a boy. ③Remind the child that regardless of whether the other person is a teacher, classmate, parent or relative, if the other person makes an uncomfortable move, touches his private parts, or induces the child to be alone, the parents need to be informed in time. ④ Communicate regularly with teachers to understand your children’s friendships at school, because there may also be some sexual harassment among classmates. ⑤ Pay close attention to your children’s online habits and netizens, because many sexual harassments and assaults occur through the Internet. ⑥Once a child is violated, keep the evidence, call the police, and send him to the doctor as soon as possible; if the offender is an acquaintance or relative, parents must resolutely resolve the problem through legal channels. Be sure to let your children know that no one can invade their privacy, whether in real life or online.