Adults should stay away from their parents. This is the greatest respect for themselves and their parents.

An adult who does not have a company or property in his family to inherit should keep a reasonable distance from his family of origin, especially those who have struggled on their own and are far more capable than their family of origin. This rule applies to both men and women. The most stupid behavior for adults is to let their parents interfere with their own careers. There are three well-known examples, Zheng S, Wu Moufan, and Cai Moukun. The parents of these three are considered to be the best fighters among idiots. Those recordings of Zheng S\’s good mother directly exposed her, and then made a considerable contribution to the national treasury. Wu Moufan\’s good mother directly sent him to prison, and the recordings of Cai Moukun\’s mother also put him in jail. In a desperate situation, no one knows what will happen next. These mothers are extremely confident, possessive and controlling. They must hold their children in their hands and control their every move, and then force out some psychopathic children. What\’s even more troublesome is that they think they are very powerful, much more powerful than their children who have made careers. They should solve any troubles by themselves, and the power should be in their own hands. There are many such examples. The three of them and their parents are typical negative examples. If you can do better than your parents, it is your own acquired efforts and abilities, not what your parents gave you. Not only should you not listen to them, but you should not even mention it to them. They don’t know that much about your career, they are standard laymen, and their knowledge and abilities are far lower than yours. The most successful part of their lives is that you won the championship in that swim. Letting your family of origin get involved in your career is like hiring a nanny who can only do housework to be the general manager of your company. If she doesn\’t screw up, then you should spend all your wealth on sports lottery tickets. Some people just can\’t figure it out in their minds. They feel that the most trustworthy people in the world are their parents, so they feel relieved to leave some of their career matters to their parents. These people need to straighten out their logic before moving on to their own careers, or they will be tricked one day without even knowing why. You should also keep a reasonable distance from your parents after you become an adult. This will at least make you more independent and less dependent on your parents. Especially for people from ordinary families, your parents are simply ordinary people. The reason why they live so ordinary lives is because their perceptions are wrong. Even the parents of celebrities are also in a mess. If you want to take a different path than them, you shouldn\’t learn from them. You should think independently, explore the world independently, and create your own career independently. The saddest thing is that the children of ordinary families continue to grow old after they reach adulthood. This is the biggest shortcut to ruining life. They are still relying on their parents, counting on their parents to find them a job through their connections, counting on their parents to introduce them to a partner, and counting on their parents to pay them the down payment for a house. People who do this are not even as good as their parents, and their ceiling is lower than their parents. It is natural for the rich to gnaw on the old, but it is especially shameless for the poor to gnaw on the old. The rich gnaw on the old and get richer, while the poor gnaw on the old and get poorer. The rich have long completed their accumulation, and their connections and resources have long consolidated their status. No matter how they do it, there is a high lower limit. Ordinary people have nothing,For the purely exploited class, the more they work, the worse they get. Spending time with your parents after adulthood is equivalent to entering a vicious cycle together. The worse you are, the more I scold you, the more I scold you, the more resistant you are, and the more resistant you are, the worse you are. In the end, everyone falls together. For those who have successful careers far away from home, what their parents talk about most every day is that you have to come back to see us more, pay more attention to rest, eat well, drink well and sleep well. All polite words, all positive words. Adults should stay away from their parents and be independent from their parents. This is a respect for themselves and their parents. Only when you leave your parents can you grow up. Only when your parents leave you can you easily return to your own life and focus your life on yourself. The relationship you should maintain with your parents is limited to daily life, such as visiting your parents during holidays and festivals, and taking your parents on trips and tasting delicious food when you have time.