Advice from the head teacher: If parents are not cruel, no matter how good the education is, it will be in vain (you should read it no matter how busy you are)

There is a saying that goes like this: \”Educating children is like nurturing flowers. Only by carefully watering, fertilizing and caring for them can they succeed. But at the same time, they also need to be moderately pruned and remove excess branches and leaves to make them thrive.\” On the road to education, Blindly pampering children is like fertilizing a sapling without pruning it. It seems to be deeply nourishing, but in fact it makes it difficult for the branches to reach the sky. Dear parents, indulgence is not love, but irresponsibility for the future of your children. For the sake of their children\’s future, every parent who loves their children must be cruel! 01 Parents who are truly far-sighted know how to be cruel to their children. Previously, I came across a video like this: A netizen shared his own growth experience, saying that when he was in junior high school, his grades were very poor and he was addicted to the world of games every day. However, he counterattacked and entered Peking University during the college entrance examination, and his rebirth was indispensable without the help of one person – his father. When he was at a low point in his life, his father did three things: first: restricted the use of games and computers; second: accompanied him throughout the study; third: studied with his children; his father not only blocked the Internet at home The TV stopped. When the children were doing their homework, they stayed with them the whole time and did not play with their mobile phones or watch videos. In addition to supervising their children\’s learning, parents are also growing up, learning a lot of education-related knowledge, and working hard with their children. Under his father\’s strict requirements, he gradually transformed from the \”internet-addicted boy\” in the past to the high-profile \”Peking University tyrant\” today. There is a sentence in \”Tsinghua University Scholars\’ Guide to Teaching Their Children\”: \”Parents must understand that children lack self-control when they are young. It is normal to not take the initiative in hard things such as learning, but it is abnormal to take the initiative.\” Blind indulgence will only destroy the child. . Education is not just about imparting knowledge, but also a process of shaping character and cultivating habits. And those parents who are truly far-sighted know how to educate their children ruthlessly. 02 Give children a liberal education today, but tomorrow society will give him a hard lesson. There is a saying that goes like this: There is no greenhouse outside the campus, and there will be no child\’s play when you grow up. After entering the society, no one will protect you from the wind and rain, and no one will bear the burden for you to move forward. You must learn to find your own direction and resist the wind and frost. Rather than letting children encounter setbacks and blows in the future society, it is better to give them strict discipline and guidance in the early stages of their growth and pave a solid path for their growth. You must know that every child is like an uncarved jade, which itself has no gorgeous luster and needs to be tempered and carved in order to show its inherent value and beauty. Excellent parents are like experienced carvers. Under their careful carving, the child\’s rough jade gradually shows its brilliance and becomes a unique work of art. 03 Behind every outstanding child is the hard work of his parents! There is a segment in the TV series \”Family with Children\”: Liu Xing blamed his mother for not cultivating his special talents when he was a child. Liu Xing\’s mother couldn\’t help complaining: When you were a child, I enrolled you in this class and that class, hoping that you could learn knowledge, but you yourself were not willing to learn it! Liu Xing quickly retorted: Mom, I was so young at that time and didn’t understand anything. Don’t you understand too? I don\’t want to learn, so you should respect my wishes instead of forcing me. You should start withNurture me and guide me since I was young, rather than forcing me to learn. Learning is boring for all children. Because of this, parents’ help is particularly important. They should not only provide guidance when children are confused, but also encourage children when they feel tired. Parents’ companionship and support are powerful motivations for children to persist in learning and make continuous progress. Behind every outstanding child, there seems to be a pair of invisible wings, which are the hands of the parents struggling to lift them up, just like an eagle lifting up its young eagle, helping it soar into the blue sky. 04 Education is a serious matter and never easy. Education is never an easy matter. It requires our hard work and wisdom to cultivate, care and look forward to. It is this seriousness and difficulty that makes the fruits of education more sweet and precious. As the saying goes: There is no small matter in education, everything is education: There is no small section in education, and each section is a model. Children are like saplings waiting to be pruned. Without the ruthless pruning and tempering, it will be difficult for them to grow into towering trees. As parents and teachers, we are like the helmsman and sails on a ship. We must understand, trust, cooperate and support each other. Only when the helmsman and the sail work closely together can the ship ride the wind and waves and reach the other shore safely. For the sake of our children, let us work together! Build a harbor for children to grow!