After becoming a mother, how long has it been since you did these 10 things? Talking about my mother\’s heart

Before you became a mother, you were still a gentle and graceful young girl, living a free life, enjoying the romance and surprises of your boyfriend. When you think about the warm days of a family of three in the future, your heart feels warm and itchy… However, since the day the child was born, you suddenly find that it is completely different from what you thought before! Especially in the first two years after giving birth to a baby, the huge life changes will make you in a hurry: the girl turns into a young woman, with endless things to worry about all day long; the husband turns into an old shopkeeper, who makes you want to die all day long. What’s even more helpless is that I have been surrounded by children eating, drinking, pooping, and peeing all day long. I haven’t done many things for a long time… I haven’t worn high heels for a long time. Before I had a baby, I loved wearing high heels and black stockings. Why? Where does beauty come from? Especially the feeling of instantly increasing your height by 10cm when wearing high heels is simply irresistible. But after I gave birth to a baby, the high heels in my shoe cabinet were getting moldy and hairy. Wear pullovers at home and put on flat shoes when going out. Don\’t ask me why, because the child is running around all day long, and I can\’t keep up with him in high heels… I haven\’t put on makeup for a long time. Before I gave birth to a baby, I paid most attention to my face. It would be better if I could use better cosmetics; wash my face. When I run out of milk, I have to go to the original store to buy the original one… If a pimple suddenly breaks out on my face, it\’s a big deal. I want to touch it with aloe vera gel 8 times a day. But after giving birth, in the words of a mother, \”I care more about my child\’s butt than my own face.\” The child\’s skin care cream must be the best, natural and non-irritating; diapers must also be the best. Okay, I\’m afraid that my child\’s butt will be red… When it was my turn to buy cosmetics for myself, I couldn\’t bear to do it anymore. I searched for small trial bottles of other people\’s products online all day long… I hadn\’t bought new clothes in a long time before I gave birth to a baby. When buying clothes, you only care about whether they look good or not. Price is secondary. Buying a coat worth thousands of dollars is a trivial matter. When you are in a good mood, you like to go to the store to buy clothes to encourage yourself; when you are in a bad mood, you have to go to the store to buy clothes to comfort yourself. But after I gave birth to a baby, I only had children\’s clothes in my eyes. As soon as I went to the children\’s clothing area, I couldn\’t move my legs, and I automatically imagined what my child would look like wearing this clothes. In addition, after spending the whole day with naughty children, no matter how good or clean the clothes are, they don’t need to be messed with. The pants you just put on may be peed on all over you in the next second; the cute top with all kinds of accessories on it may be ripped off by your children the moment you put it on… So, just wear sportswear honestly. It’s been a while since I sang in KTV with my girlfriends. Before you gave birth to a baby, you must have three or five love songs that are the best in your life. You usually practice them very well. Whenever you get a chance, you go to KTV to be a Mai Ba. You can play real, falsetto, and vibrato. Use it freely: \”I want to hold your hand like this and never let go. Can love be simple and harmless…\” \”Dimples and long eyelashes are your most beautiful mark. I can\’t sleep every day, missing your smile…\” …\” After having a baby, I rarely go to noisy places like KTV. And your singing talent was completely buried in the ocean of children\’s songs. What came out of your mouth was: \”Pull the carrot, pull the carrot, hey, hey, hey, hey, pull the carrot…\” It\’s been a long time since I had a full night\’s sleep before I gave birth to my baby. , every weekend or rainy day, I must stay in bed for a whileSon, that feeling was so comfortable…but after giving birth to the baby, everything fell apart! When the baby was young, it was common for him to get up in the middle of the night to feed and change diapers. It would be better if the baby is older, right? No, the naughty kid often wakes up very early. Sometimes he wakes up early when you are off work, then crawls to you when you are sleeping, picks your nostrils, pokes your mouth, pulls your hair… It’s been a long time since I traveled, and girls love it. When I saw the beautiful photos of tourist attractions, I longed for them. I once vowed to go to Tibet, Yunnan, and see the snow in the Northeast… But after giving birth to a baby, I was tied to an invisible thread. The dog leash can\’t go anywhere. When you meet a clingy child, he will cry when he can\’t see you for a while. Sometimes even if I go on a trip, I still think about the baby at home all the time, whether he cries, misses his mother, bumps into each other… I haven’t done my hair for a long time. For many girls, hairstyle It represents your mood. When your heart is gentle and elegant, wear long, straight hair, which is beautiful and elegant; when you are in a sunny and cheerful mood, go for short curls, which will make you relaxed and neat, and your whole person will be energetic… But life After having a baby, how should I put it, it is already good to be able to wash your hair in time. If you happen to give birth to a girl, your long hair will be a good tool for her to practice braiding. She will give you a crooked braid, a bun, and a twist… and she is a naughty kid. It\’s neither gentle nor heavy, and it will make your scalp hurt for several days. So many mothers are forced to cut their hair short. It’s been a long time since I took a photo of myself. Most girls probably can’t resist the temptation of taking photos. After all, the self in the photo is artistic, youthful, and sunny, and it’s so beautiful. But after giving birth to a baby, when it comes to taking pictures, I can\’t help but associate it with the baby. Birth photos, full-month photos, 100-day photos, one-year-old photos, two-year-old photos; when you turn on your phone, it is also full of children, eating, playing with toys, sleeping, having a tantrum… but I have forgotten about myself. It\’s been a long time since the two of us had a world together. During the period of love, there was plenty of time for romance. The two of them would often hold hands and walk on the streets. They wouldn\’t stop until all the lights went out and would sit at the door of a small bar. …After giving birth to a baby, I feel like I have become a world of one person – the baby\’s world. The whole family\’s enthusiasm and energy are all devoted to the work of raising children. They are exhausted all day long. As for holding hands and walking for a while, they have neither time nor interest… It has been a long time since I had a drink and dinner. The temptation of delicious food for girls. It is no less important than beautiful clothes. After all, of all things in the world, \”only food and love cannot be disappointed.\” In daily chats with friends, food is always indispensable, and whenever we have free time, we all go out together to eat, drink, talk about life, and relationships… But after giving birth, what I am most passionate about every day is researching milk powder and various products. Complementary food for young children, researching how old the baby can eat egg yolks… Occasionally, my best friend calls to make an appointment, but I have no choice but to turn it down. After all, I have to take care of the child, and I really don’t have time to go. Having a baby has a really big impact on a woman’s life. Many of her previous dreams and interests are forced to give up, and sometimes she has to face complaints and incomprehension from her family.My heart is exhausted. So I really hope that the fathers who read this article can be more patient and understanding towards their wives. After all, if the wife is happy, the children can grow up healthily, and the whole family can be warm and harmonious.