\”It takes ten years to grow a tree and a hundred years to cultivate a person.\” The growth of a child is like planting a tree, which requires careful cultivation in order to thrive. As parents, every seed we sow in our children’s early years will influence their future direction. The power of habit: from companionship to independent learning \”It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish.\” At the primary school stage, parents\’ companionship is important, but its core goal should be to help children gradually achieve independent learning. In first and second grade, parents can provide appropriate guidance, but they should gradually guide their children to solve problems on their own to avoid over-reliance. In senior grades, if children still require full parental supervision, they need to rethink their education methods to avoid falling into the \”junior high school dilemma.\” The amount of learning in junior high school has increased sharply, and parents are unable to accompany them all the way. Children also need to cope with it alone. Therefore, it is crucial to cultivate independent learning habits in primary school. Ignite interest and stimulate inner motivation. \”Interest is the best teacher.\” Many parents arrange heavy extracurricular classes for their children in primary school, trying to get ahead of them. However, short-term performance improvement is often difficult to sustain, and children can easily fall into a state of exhaustion and lose their enthusiasm for learning. What should really be done is to stimulate children\’s desire for knowledge and let them find fun in exploration. Giving children enough free time and space, encouraging them to ask questions, think, experiment, and cultivate critical thinking is far more effective than cramming teaching. Interest and intrinsic motivation are the guarantee for lasting learning. Parent-child communication, building a bridge of trust \”Communication is a bridge of the soul.\” In the growth process of children, it is crucial to establish a good parent-child relationship. Parents should not only focus on their children\’s academic performance, but also focus on emotional communication with their children. Sharing daily life moments and listening to children’s voices not only deepens the understanding between parents and children, but also provides emotional support for children when they face challenges in the future. As children get older, they may become withdrawn and reluctant to share their inner world with their parents. Therefore, communication habits established early will become a valuable asset in helping children transition smoothly into adolescence. Children in primary school need wisdom to accompany them. \”It takes ten years to grow trees and a hundred years to cultivate people.\” Education is a long-term and arduous task that requires our persistent efforts. On the road of children\’s growth, let us be a wise guide, sow the seeds of love and hope, and wait for the flowers to bloom. \”You will reap melons if you sow melons, and you will reap beans if you sow beans.\” Family education at the primary school level is like a carefully cultivated garden, and every effort will bear fruit. Cultivating children\’s independent learning habits, stimulating their love for knowledge, and building a deep parent-child relationship. These seemingly ordinary daily activities are actually the cornerstone of children\’s future success. Let us use patience and wisdom to write a beautiful chapter of children\’s growth together, so that every seed can thrive in love and hope. In the growth journey of our children, our role as parents is like careful gardeners, carrying responsibilities and expectations at every step. The primary school stage is the golden period for our sowing habits, interests and parent-child relationship. Let us work together, water with heart, wait for the flowers to bloom, and witness the children running freely in the fields of knowledge and soaring towards the sky of dreams. Remember, every little detail today is a big achievement tomorrow.
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