All far-sighted parents should give their children a hard-working education

There was a news story on TV before: A mother worked hard to raise her son, and his son found a job soon after graduating from college. However, he often resigned after working for less than a month. He always complained that the workload was heavy. He had to get up early in the morning and work overtime at night. It was too hard, too tiring, and he couldn\’t bear it. For two years, my son has been idle at home with peace of mind, either playing games online or using his mother\’s small salary to spend time in the society. In response to his mother\’s accusation, he plausibly said: \”If you can\’t support me all my life, why have you been so pampered to me since I was a child?\” After this program was broadcast, many parents fell into deep thought. Is there such a potential crisis in their own families? When we were young, the old people told us: \”If you don\’t suffer a small loss, you will suffer a big loss; if you don\’t suffer a small hardship, you will suffer a big suffering.\” In other words, when children are young, it is a good thing for children to suffer a little and encounter some difficulties. If we are afraid that our children will suffer hardship and take on the responsibilities of our children, although we will avoid the children\’s crying and entanglement, we will deprive them of the opportunity to cultivate good character and develop their own abilities. This is a great harm. Everyone should know about the amazing Chinese PDF. We always say that today’s children are not sensible, but we don’t know that it is because we protect them too well and prevent them from being sensible. If you want your children to be sensible, considerate and considerate of others from an early age, you should let your children endure hardships from an early age so that they can understand the sufferings of the world and know how to cherish and be considerate. Most of today\’s children are very smart, but most of them fail to achieve the expected success in the end because they lack willpower and the spirit to persevere. Childhood and adolescence are the basic stages of life. It is very important and necessary for parents to consciously create some conditions and carry out hardship education for their children. \”Enduring hardship\” is a kind of psychological endurance. How to let children endure hardships and what kind of hardships they endure? Doudehui collected and summarized the following points to share with parents. 01. Parents should have the awareness to let their children endure hardship. For example, when a child is learning to walk, do not always support her. Careful parents can find that children who are always supported by their parents to practice walking take longer to learn to walk than those who walk by themselves. Children who practice walking take longer. When your child is three years old, you should ask him to help you carry things when you go out on the street. When the child reaches the age of five or six, he should be asked to sweep the floor and clean the table, and be told how to save electricity. He can also be taught to organize his own room. After school, the child is asked to go to the market to buy groceries to reduce the pressure on his parents. Let your children clean the toilet during the holidays and learn that smell and dirt are part of life. Let your children do menial and heavy work appropriately, knowing that their parents need their care. When children go to middle school, they have to manage their own living expenses. There is only so much money, and if you overspend, you will starve. Cultivate children\’s various life skills so that they have strong hands-on ability. When a child is about fifteen years old, he is required to work at home or outside to exercise himself, get in touch with society, and develop a spirit of hard work. Parents must be willing to let their children endure these hardships. 02. Children should be independent. Cultivate children’s independent will from an early age and reduce their dependence on others. In other words, the children are responsible for their own affairs. At home, complete your own daily life independently, clean your own room, and clean up your own belongingsEtc. When it comes to learning, you must think and complete independently, and you must be mentally independent. Parents cannot think about problems for their children. They need their children to think for themselves and respect their opinions. This way, the children can think independently and have their own opinions, thus laying the foundation for their future success. 03. Parents should take the initiative to endure hardships with their children. You must know that parents who only know how to enjoy are unlikely to raise a child who can \”endure hardships\”. Therefore, parents can go for morning runs and participate in sports with their children, such as playing ball together, swimming together, and traveling together. This can increase the opportunities for communication with their children and also allow their children to get exercise. Being able to endure hardships comes from the accumulation of little things in daily life, and from the little things that do not compromise. For example, the weather is very cold and the child does not plan to go to kindergarten today. Parents do not accommodate their children and take them to kindergarten in the cold wind. The sun is scorching hot, and parents are very tired when they come home at night. Parents will take a shower with their children as usual instead of falling asleep. The child and his parents were running, and they were about to reach the predetermined end point in ten meters. The child was panting and didn\’t want to run anymore. Parents encourage their children to run to the finish line together. Each one of these is training and honing the children, giving them a strong will and quality, so that they can endure hardships. The more you love your children, the more you need to strengthen their \”hardship\” education. Letting children suffer a little and suffer a little is true love and responsibility. 04. Being able to endure hardships comes from the accumulation bit by bit in daily life, from the little things that are done without compromise. For example, when a child is unwilling to get up in the cold winter; when it is difficult for a child to complete a handicraft; When a child jumps rope and is exhausted at the end; when a child is completing his share of housework and his friends come to him to play… these are all occasions for hard training. At this time, children need encouragement, guidance and encouragement from their parents and family. Require children to persist in finishing what they are doing, and require children to persist in fighting against difficulties. In fact, the spirit of enduring hardship comes from this last grit of teeth and persistence. When it comes to hard-working education for children, we must pay attention to methods and methods. \”Tiger mothers\”, \”wolf fathers\” and \”eagle fathers\” are not enough to learn from. Parents need to first assess their children\’s ability to endure hardship before teaching them; they need to respect their children\’s wishes without forcing them to give orders; they need to set an example by setting an example rather than just using their words. 05. It is necessary to persevere and not to be exposed to the cold. The long road in life must be walked by themselves, and the difficulties must be solved by themselves. One day, they will have to face the society by themselves and shoulder the responsibilities of their families. Especially for boys, for a future man, hard work is his foundation. Without the spirit of hard work, he is destined to have difficulty facing the increasingly competitive social competition. Allowing children to endure some hardships and hardships is a preparation for their future life journey to be smooth and smooth, and to prepare for their energy and momentum. Let them fully realize their own value in the stormy life after entering society.