An 8-year-old girl was stabbed in the vagina and lost her fertility. What should be the response to school violence?

When I saw this news on Weibo today, I was shocked. Eight-year-old Xiaofeng (pseudonym) came to school as usual. She had a habit of lowering her head and carefully crossing the gap in the seat. Suddenly a boy rushed to her and asked her: \”My eraser is missing, did you steal it?\” Xiaofeng shook his head and said, \”I have never seen your eraser at all.\” After a while, another boy She also came over and said, \”You owed me one yuan last time and you haven\’t paid it back yet. When will you pay it back?\” She looked at the two vicious boys and didn\’t know what to do. The two boys began to join forces and beat Xiaofeng violently. The thin Xiaofeng was knocked to the ground after a while. As the beating was not enough, they brought brooms, took off Xiaofeng\’s pants, and then pointed the brooms at her lower body and beat and poked her randomly. After a beating and scolding, Xiaofeng endured the severe pain and got up from the ground. Finally, when school was over, she walked out of the school gate alone, but found that her lower body was bleeding all the time. She squatted on the roadside in pain. At this time, a neighbor passed by her and took her home on a bicycle. Xiaofeng\’s home is actually not like a home. Her father is mentally retarded and has no mother. She lives with her grandfather and grandmother. When grandma saw Xiaofeng bleeding, she hurriedly pulled out a book to help wipe it, but even after tearing up every book, the bleeding still couldn\’t stop. Xiaofeng almost fainted from the pain. The family worked together to send her to the hospital. After all-out treatment, the bleeding finally stopped. According to hospital records, the wound was very deep: there was a wound about 1.5cm long on the front wall of the vagina, and the deepest part was about 0.3cm. , active bleeding can be seen. There is a wound about 1.0cm long on the posterior vaginal wall about 4.5cm away from the vaginal opening, and the deepest part is about 0.2cm. Active bleeding can be seen. Grandma Xiaofeng told reporters that when the incident occurred, the family of one of the boys had given him 100 yuan. After that, the family members of the two boys never showed up or paid compensation. Now the granddaughter is afraid of going to school, and the family is also worried about it. For young Xiaofeng, this day will leave eternal pain in her heart. Behind this vicious incident, we see how terrible school violence is. It really shocked everyone that a seven or eight-year-old child could do such a cruel and inhumane thing. I just want to ask, where is the teacher at that time? How indifferent are the students who are watching? How much education do parents of children usually provide to their children? School should be a paradise for children, a place full of laughter and laughter, but Xiaofeng’s experience has shown us too much darkness and ugliness. According to Weibo, Xiaofeng was often bullied and beaten by classmates before this incident… A small campus is a small society. It should be full of joy and laughter, but this school is full of violence and blood. . Many people may think that children are so young and they are just playing around without being careful. But please remember that school violence is not a farce, it will only be a tragedy in the end. I remember the movie \”The River of Sadness\” was released some time ago. The story told in it was also related to school violence. The heroine Yi Yao\’s parents divorced when she was very young, and she lives with her mother in a small alley in Shanghai. In order to make ends meet, my mother started doing massage at home. For this reason, in the alley, sheShe suffered discrimination from her neighbors every day; in school, she suffered the looks of her classmates every day. Later, due to her mother\’s work, she unfortunately contracted a sexually transmitted disease. This incident was learned by classmates and spread wantonly in the school. From then on, she was completely isolated: some people pointed at her behind, some poured ink on her body, and some students stuffed chalk into her mouth. For Yi Yao, life was really worse than death. , on the one hand, he had to constantly raise money for his own medical treatment, on the other hand, he suffered violence and insults from his classmates. Finally, she decided to jump into the river. Having had enough of the cynicism and pranks of her classmates, death may be the final relief for her. It was not sexually transmitted diseases or poverty that ultimately killed her, but the harsh words from her classmates and the seemingly harmless pranks that pushed her to death. She finally said: What does it feel like when a lighter burns your hair? What does it feel like to have chalk dust stuffed in your mouth? You are the same whether you do something or not. You are colder than a stone. You are vicious and stupid. You do whatever others do. You wish that one more person would die in the world. Because your life is really boring, because you feel that you will not bear any consequences, your future life will be comfortable, and you will not feel that you have done anything evil. Campus violence killed a young girl in her prime. In this story, everyone who has hurt her is an executioner. Campus violence is often not easy to detect, but it does the most serious damage to a person. Behind the violence is indifference, viciousness, and the ugliness and ignorance of human nature. Such vicious events actually not only appear in the news and movies, but also happen around us from time to time. I remember when I was in junior high school, there was a new classmate in our class. At that time, she happened to be sitting at the same table as me. It didn\’t take long for us to get acquainted. We often discussed topics, ate and chatted together. Because she was ill as a child and took hormone drugs, she was very fat. So the classmates in the class gave her many nicknames: Fat Girl, Fat Pig… Sometimes, she had to walk through the long aisle to hand in her homework. The boys deliberately arranged the tables very tightly, and then put them in the back. Discussion: Look, I said her butt must not be able to get through it, right? How could she possibly get along with that bearish look? This kind of casual ridicule and teasing made her become more and more inferior. Slowly, she became less and less talkative and unwilling to interact with anyone. Soon after, she dropped out of school. Later, I heard that her parents took her to receive treatment because she was suffering from mild depression. From then on, we just lost touch. The campus is a microcosm of society. There is beauty and there is ugliness. After the vicious incident occurs, it brings more vigilance and education to us. Campus violence allows us to see the lack of moral education and moral decay of students. If this situation is not stopped and intervened, more children will be affected. harm. Regarding school violence, let’s look at a set of data: On average, a child is bullied every 7 minutes. When violence occurs, adults intervene to help in only 4% of the cases, peers intervene in 11% of the cases, and in up to 85% of the cases, no one intervenes to dissuade or help. Then whenWhen school violence occurs, what can be done to stop the harm and let children feel the warmth of school again? First: Schools should strengthen students\’ moral education, make it clear that campus violence is a crime and an illegal act, and make students aware of the terrible consequences of such behavior. We strive to create a friendly and safe campus environment for Xun Sheng. Let the children grow up happily in a healthy and orderly state. Second: On the one hand, parents should guide their children not to become perpetrators of violence, and at the same time, they should not let their children become victims of violence. Communicate more with your children, pay attention to their emotional changes, and strengthen communication with school teachers. Let children establish a sense of self-protection and know how to bravely resist and promptly report to teachers or call the police when faced with threats of intimidation or violence. Third: In addition to school restraint, parents’ intervention, and children’s actions when facing violence are also important. 1. In legitimate defense, do not tolerate being beaten. When you resist, the other party will shrink back due to fear or guilt. 2. Scream for help and report the situation to the teacher promptly, or call the police immediately for help. 3. Participate in self-defense training so that children have basic self-defense abilities, so that they can have the confidence to defeat the opponent when threatened by violence. All occurrences of school violence are not accidental incidents, but are caused by the backlog of a series of incidents. School violence is never a farce, but a tragedy. In order for children to grow up in a healthy, safe and orderly environment, we must unite various forces and work hard to prevent school violence. May all children be treated gently by time. May all schools be filled with warmth and light.