Today I’m going to talk about a point that I feel deeply about here, that is, the children here, including Sister Seko now, have one thing that runs through their schooling process from childhood, the teacher will continue to cultivate their ability, It’s their language skills. It may be very general to say this, but the ability of speech (public speaking) is actually how to express your inner thoughts, your opinions, and your attitudes as fully and contagiously as possible, using some methods to make people Others can listen, understand, and even understand. Needless to say, public speaking skills. In the United States, for example, during the presidential election, you can see the various debates and various public demonstrations. You can preach everywhere and use your language skills to reflect your power. Personal character and charisma are very important. They are a very important criterion for how these voters view you, and they are also a criterion for reflecting your leadership. From the stage of children, they pay special attention to the ability of public speaking. They cultivate this ability in various ways and lay a solid foundation. There are many traditional courses in this area. Another point is that even if you do an ordinary job, as an ordinary person, how to express your attitude, thoughts, and ideas to outsiders clearly, accurately, and contagiously needs to be cultivated. Therefore, this kind of speech ability reflects a person\’s education level, overall inner leadership, potential ability, and a very important standard for outsiders to evaluate you. I see that these children in the United States are very happy to express themselves. I understand this very well. Even if you go shopping every day, some American supermarkets are very obvious. The supermarket will ask the cashier to stop paying after you have finished shopping. He talks to you all over the place, like what the weather is like today, what do you think is the best here? I also think this thing is very good, and this thing in our house is very good, so he will talk to you about these things. You can see his self-confidence, the feeling when he speaks, and the appeal. It is definitely a habit that has been formed since childhood, or it is a tradition for them. They feel that in the so-called traditional business society like the United States, only if you express yourself fully and contagiously can you influence others, make others listen to you, and then continue the topic according to the purpose you envisioned, and then achieve your goals. Why do Americans always like to joke and make all kinds of jokes? Whether it is as big as a presidential election, as small as a talk show, or a family gathering, including in movies and TV series, they love to joke because they take this very seriously. They feel that this kind of joke can introduce the topic well and attract other people\’s attention. Making a reversal when others are laughing can soften the original serious topic first, and then suddenly insert your point of view, which will make others\’ attention particularly focused, and on the contrary, the original serious topic can maintain its seriousness. This way of using humor is all about speech and language skills, which is also related to my major. Qian\’er ran for student union president in his school a while ago. He went to an international school since he was a child, and he criticized the students who were running for election.I have no personal experience, no enthusiasm, and no desire. This is completely different from the public school I went to since I was a child. I have been a team captain and various student cadres since I was a child, but he has never been. At most, he helps the teacher collect homework. So when his grade was running for student cadres in school, even though the names \”President\” and \”Vice President\” sounded pretty big, he still watched from below. Later, we communicated on the phone, and he also had a vision and wanted to stand on that occasion to share some of his ideas with the students below. This is actually nothing more than the influence of the environment here and the attention and importance paid to speech, which makes many children willing to stand up in front of others and have the courage to express their opinions and opinions. This is very valuable. This concept should be ingrained in their hearts since childhood, taught and practiced every day. It is recognized by them that if your speech skills are particularly good, you can fully express yourself in front of others through your language expression skills, and you are particularly infectious, this is an important manifestation of your leadership and an important factor in your popularity. In this case, children will have a vision and be willing to show themselves in front of others. When communicating with others, he can also express his views more clearly, logically and contagiously, because this is an ability he has developed since childhood. So this is why I think an ordinary American, whether he is a McDonald\’s service worker, a business manager, or a worker engaged in manual labor, as long as he has received formal education, he can express his views clearly. Some time ago, our roof was leaking, and we hired a company from Laomei to check it out. When that person came, he chatted and joked with us first, and then talked about the roof problem and his career. He was eloquent, generous, and full of humor. Feeling and self-confidence, eyes shining with light. This demonstrates his professional self-esteem and self-confidence, abilities that have been cultivated since childhood. I think this is something we are lacking. We always say it is better to be restrained. If there is something we don’t want to express in front of others, we don’t want to talk about it. But I think language expression ability is really lacking. Children should be allowed to have this concept from an early age and be able to express their opinions and attitudes clearly, accurately and contagiously. I have the courage to stand in front of the class, not just to answer the teacher\’s questions, but to express my opinions naturally, truly and down-to-earth. There are no stereotypes or framework restrictions. I can express myself freely and slowly speak out my experience. It is very important for children to encourage children to talk more and love to talk, analyze their feelings with them, summarize experiences and lessons, and help them. I think language skills are very important for an international talent. There is a saying that goes: \”A good horse comes from his legs, a good man comes from his mouth.\”
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