Another child was seriously injured by being \”teased\”, please stop hurting my child

It is a good thing for parents and children to have fun and play, which is a good thing to enhance the relationship between parents and children. However, a few days ago, a heartbreaking and regretful thing happened to a 2-year-old girl Feifei. Source: Hubei Economics Feifei’s father saw a parent-child interactive somersault game on a video platform and thought it was very fun. In order to make his children happy, he also wanted to try it with his daughter. As a result, when he grabbed his daughter and turned her upward 180 degrees, he suddenly lost his hand, causing the child\’s head to fall to the ground and her spinal cord was severely damaged. The doctor diagnosed that Feifei\’s upper limbs can no longer move and her lower limbs have insufficient muscle strength. It is not known to what extent she can recover. Image source: Hubei Economic Vision This was a joy for parents and children, but due to neglect of safety, a heartbreaking tragedy occurred. Children\’s safety is no small matter. From the time a child is born, parents spend a lot of time thinking about \”preventing fire, theft, and bad guys.\” They want to give their children a \”golden bell\” to isolate them from all dangers, but they ignore the hidden dangers around them. Of course it is a good thing to play with your children, but you must pay attention to the appropriate measures. You must be especially careful about the following dangerous behaviors. Do not take your children to play dangerous actions. Recently, a parent-child game called \”Take Off\” has become very popular. The adult holds the child\’s legs, puts one on the shoulders, and puts the other on the chest, so that the child\’s body \”stands up\”. The whole process is like a plane taking off. Many parents just want to have fun, but they don\’t realize that if they miss it, their children may fall and get injured. The child\’s body is not fully developed and is at a very fragile stage. This action can easily lead to sprains of the child\’s legs and waist. Some people also put tape on the door to \”lure\” the children to pass by, causing the children to fall and embarrass themselves while their families laughed. If there is no tacit understanding between parents and children, this \”trick\” is very dangerous. If a child accidentally stumbles and falls, he or she may injure his knee or hand. If he accidentally hits his head, he may suffer brain damage. Even if some children are not injured, they will be confused, \”Why are my parents making things difficult for me?\” In the eyes of children, some pranks may not be so interesting, so why should they \”play with children\”? Moreover, a child\’s imitation ability is very strong. He may also use the same method to tease others. Once danger occurs, it will be too late to regret. The famous educator Mr. Chen Heqin firmly opposes teasing children. He believes that playing with children is also moral education. Children who are often teased may have moral defects. Don\’t scare your children on purpose. A foreign father found a dummy and put it in the kitchen to scare his children. The unsuspecting child ran in happily, but was frightened by the unfamiliar dummy and screamed and cried uncontrollably. . The frightened baby first hid in a corner helplessly, then rushed over and hugged his father tightly. During the whole process, the baby\’s parents were laughing, but I couldn\’t laugh at all. I could feel the child\’s fear, helplessness and heartbreak through the screen. In just ten seconds, a child\’s sense of security has been seriously damaged. A friend of mine also suffered a \”destructive\” scare when he was a child. An uncle said he had something for her, and she happily extended her hand. The uncle took out a mouse and put it on her hand. Her friend was frightened.She stopped screaming, her legs were shaking and jumping uncontrollably, and she cried heartbreakingly. \”At that moment, it felt like the whole world was dark.\” Since then, she has had a very serious psychological shadow and stress reaction about this incident. When she grows up, whenever she thinks about it, she will feel chills in her back and stomach. There was a stir. Image source: Hubei Economics Medical research shows that children in the growth and development stage have fragile tissues and organs, imperfect functions, and weak defense ability against fear. After being frightened, fear often remains, leading to psychological disorders. It still leaves a psychological shadow when I grow up. Don\’t scare children intentionally. Adults can never imagine how much mental damage this will cause to children. It can range from a lack of sense of security and inner panic to a more severe form of psychological burden, which can lead to timidity and lack of confidence over time. Don\’t tease your children to drink or smoke. In 2015, Xu took his 2-year-old son to a friend\’s house for a visit. The friend kept clinking glasses and toasting with the child. After drinking almost two taels of white wine, his son fell asleep and eventually suffered from breathing problems due to excessive drinking. Circulatory failure and death after resuscitation failed. A survey once showed that 15 out of 20 children had been teased to drink. A Swedish research report in the \”Journal of the American Medical Association\” proved that among the nine influencing factors that lead to patients\’ dementia, alcoholism has the most significant impact. Alcohol will have an impact on children\’s liver, bones, endocrine, etc. Parents must pay great attention to it and try to avoid even touching it with chopsticks. Some adults will tease their children to smoke, thinking it is funny for children to smoke in style, but they do not know that smoking can cause great damage to children\’s respiratory systems. Some children get into the habit of smoking through the unintentional amusement of adults. Not long ago, a video of a 4-year-old boy smoking in Xinhua, Hunan went viral on WeChat Moments. The boy blew smoke rings and flicked the ashes. His movements were so skillful and his expression was so leisurely that people were shocked to see him. I don’t know when the child got into these bad habits, and it has been a year or two. Children under the age of 3 have particularly strong imitation abilities. They can imitate whatever the adults around them teach and do. Teasing children to drink and smoke often happens, some of which are stopped in time, and some of which happen because of parents\’ carelessness or for the sake of face. Although no major harm is caused, the hidden dangers cannot be ignored. Next time, if someone teases your child to drink or smoke, please say firmly: No! Don’t throw snacks at your children. Cute grandma likes to tease her children while eating. Grandma opens her mouth and throws small particles of food such as melon seeds and peanuts into her mouth. Every time she successfully catches the food, Mengmeng laughs and claps her hands to say do it again. She has a great time. One time, Mengmeng ate popcorn and threw it into her mouth. As a result, she failed to control it well and got stuck in her throat, causing retching and coughing. It was very painful and frightened the whole family. Doctors said that such an action is very dangerous. If you inhale hard when taking food with your mouth, it is easy to inhale the food into the trachea and cause suffocation, with disastrous consequences. In addition to not throwing snacks at children, children should pay special attention when eating jelly, noodles, and granular foods to avoid getting stuck in the throat and choking.I’ve woken up many times, but these distressing accidents still happen from time to time. In 2017, 3-year-old and 8-month-old Ning Ning (pseudonym) was suffocated by a jelly stuck in her trachea; in 2016, a 2-year-old child in Puyang almost died after eating jelly and was stuck in the trachea; in 2014, on a flight from Wenzhou to Beijing On the Internet, a boy accidentally got stuck while eating jelly. Fortunately, the plane landed nearby and the boy was successfully sent to the hospital, where the danger was finally turned around. Many people always think that danger will never happen to them, so they take it lightly. However, \”Don\’t be afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of what happens.\” No one knows which will come first, tomorrow or the accident. Image source: \”Kikujiro\’s Summer\” Do not tease children with words. Parents can detect dangerous actions, objects, and foods in time, but many times they ignore another \”invisible weapon\” that may harm their children: verbal teasing. Ms. Tian from Wuhan was just 2 months old after giving birth to her second child. The whole family was still immersed in joy, but she did not expect that her eldest daughter suddenly threw her younger brother from the 8th floor. This fresh little life left the world forever. . The trigger for this tragedy turned out to be a joke from the neighbor\’s aunt: \”Daughter, your mother doesn\’t want you when she has an eldest son!\” Picture source: \”Little Naughty Nicholas\” My friend\’s son used to like to go to the nearby restaurant. I play in the park, but for a while whenever I go near the park, my child becomes a little nervous and anxious, and is even less willing to go in. She felt that the child was abnormal, and after communicating for a long time, her son timidly said, \”The aunt at the canteen said that you don\’t want me anymore and you want to take me home.\” After hearing this, the friend felt very distressed and quickly hugged her son to comfort her. \”Mom doesn\’t want you anymore.\” These six simple words are huge to a child. When he thinks that his mother doesn\’t want him, the child\’s spiritual world is almost on the verge of collapse. This is why many parents use all kinds of methods to deal with their children, but to no avail. Only the sentence \”Mom doesn\’t want you anymore\” is the most effective, because this is the child\’s last trump card. Image source: \”Reply 1988\” Some jokes can cut holes in a child\’s heart like a knife, causing unnecessary harm. \”If you cry again, the police will come and take you away!\” \”If you don\’t obey again, the doctor will give you an injection…\” Don\’t say such words to your children. They are likely to make children fear the police and doctors from an early age. A police reminder once went viral on WeChat Moments: Parents, please don’t tell your children that we will take them away if they are naughty. We hope that when they are scared, they will run to us instead of being scared away by us. Children do not fully understand the concept of jokes, let alone guess what adults mean. Some teasing behaviors and language are not interesting to children. They not only confuse children, but also cause uneasiness and feelings of disrespect, hurt children\’s self-esteem, increase social fear, and make it difficult to trust others when they grow up. Yin Jianli once said that \”teasing\” children and \”teasing\” children are two different concepts. \”Interesting\” children should be based on the premise of children\’s happiness, and create events that make children happy in a way that children can understand and accept. \”Teasing\” children is when adults condescendingly take advantage of children\’s naivety and deliberately make children make mistakes, cry, and harm children.Afraid. Its purpose is to make adults happy, but it brings humiliation, worry and loss to children. Why childhood memories are so vivid is because they are a child\’s first life experience. What a person will look like when he grows up must be the accumulation of many \”childhood moments\”. I hope that every child\’s \”childhood moments\” will be filled with warmth and love, rather than teasing and harm.