As an emotionally stable mother, she is most afraid of her children’s summer vacation

At the beginning of the summer vacation, I saw a friend in the circle of friends posted a message lamenting: \”There are still 62 days before school starts. It\’s scary to think about it. Can we make the summer vacation shorter?\” I am not afraid of the sky or the earth, but I am afraid that my children will have summer vacation; and, It\’s still so long that it\’s intimidating. I understand my friends very well. Summer vacation is not only a waste of money, but also a waste of time for my mother. A good friend has two children, one is 8 years old and the other is 6 years old. They are at the age when they are full of energy and extremely destructive. My friend\’s husband works out of town, and she relies on her alone to pick up, drop off, and take care of the children. She usually takes her children to school, and even though she is so busy that the soles of her feet feel windy, there is still some time left for her to breathe and be alone in the day, so that she can adjust her mentality and cheer up to cope with the chaos of every day. When the holidays come, even this little bit of peace is deprived of me. Living with my two children 24 hours a day, I was on the verge of losing control of my emotions almost every day. The sun is scorching outside during the day, and I have nowhere to go but to stay at home with the air conditioning on 24 hours a day. If there were summer homework, the children who were jumping up and down could be held down for a while, but after the implementation of the \”double reduction\” policy, there is no summer homework. We have put together the building blocks countless times, the picture books in our inventory have long been torn, and we are worried that our children will become addicted to mobile phones and damage their eyes. They live in the same room from morning to night. Out of boredom, the two children have to fight at least ten times a day. At first, she patiently asked for the whole story, explained it rationally, moved her emotionally, and decided the case impartially. Later, they started to be very troublesome, indiscriminately, and hit each other fifty times to quickly close the case. Later, I simply turned a deaf ear and turned a blind eye. I was still in the middle of the child\’s crying and pushing, and did whatever I needed to do. Anyway, you are still so angry that the two children have reconciled through tears and laughed. She enrolled the eldest child in a painting class and her second child in a basketball class. Do you think parents enroll their children in classes during summer vacation in order to hope that their children will succeed? Not entirely, mainly so that my ears can be quiet for a while, but also for my breasts and blood pressure. When their children get older, parents will be repeatedly indoctrinated with the idea that summer vacation is crucial and is the best time to overtake in corners. Children are learning ahead of schedule, so you can’t let your children run wild for two months. Anxiety is contagious, and people are easy to follow the trend. You should enroll in one or two cram schools. I won’t say whether it has any effect, but it can alleviate the parents’ anxiety to some extent, offsetting the “physical pain” at the moment of paying. How much money can be spent to support the children\’s summer vacation? This topic always makes parents feel sad and change their mood when talking about it. To be honest, even if my children go to college, I am still afraid of my children taking summer vacation. After returning home, the child\’s work and rest are reversed. She never leaves her mobile phone, does not sleep at night, does not wake up in the morning, does not eat breakfast, and starts every morning at noon; and she does not leave the house, and the places other than her bed are far away, and her daily exercise steps are She can\’t count more than 200 steps; except for hanging out with her classmates and going shopping, she rarely goes out. Distance creates beauty, and no matter how strong your love is, it cannot escape the law of being rejected by your parents when you return home. Some people joke that college students who are at home during the holidays can only enjoy themselves for three days at most, and then they will be disliked on the fourth day. The reasons for being \”disliked\” by parents are relatively concentrated: unhealthy work and rest, dirty and messy rooms, excessive use of mobile phones, staying at home and not going out, and being unable to complain when asked to do something. Although I remind myself again and again – aA nagging mother is cheap and will be disliked, but I still can\’t help nagging. As a result, the parent-child relationship is in jeopardy. I can’t help but miss the summer vacations I spent in the countryside when I was a child: there were no tutoring classes or piles of homework. I ran wildly in the fields every day, caught fish and shrimps in the river; listened to the chirping of cicadas under the trees, and watched the stars at night. Let it grow naturally and play carefree; the cicadas sing for a long time and the green trees are shaded. I lie on the bamboo mat at home and feel that time surrounds me like a tide, growing endlessly. When I reach middle age, I have been repeatedly hammered by life, and I no longer have any big aspirations. For me, the ideal summer vacation is: air conditioning, Wi-Fi, watermelon, and no children calling \”Mom\” all the time.