As long as parents do the three things, their children will change amazingly

Today\’s report about the start of school for the child shows that the second daughter has no appetite in the morning and doesn\’t want to eat anything. The child\’s father said how could it be okay not to eat even one bite of food. He said that the child started to have sex early in the morning, what\’s going on? The child burst into tears and told me that he wanted to vomit when he saw the food. I said, if you don’t want to eat it, don’t eat it. Later I went to school on an empty stomach. When it comes to eating, our children are very picky eaters and do not conform to traditional parenting concepts. But I accept the child. If the child doesn’t want to eat, it means he doesn’t need it and is not hungry enough. It is a choice to respect your child\’s feelings or choose to force your child to eat. But forcing children to eat will make them unhappy and the food they eat will not go well. Can nutrition really be changed? I am skeptical. No matter how much knowledge you learn, various problems will still occur and need to be faced every day. 02So, I think we need to have these three abilities to accompany our children, then the children\’s problems will no longer be a problem. The child will also get better and better. 1. Have a sense of relaxation: create a relaxed atmosphere for children. If the children are not satisfied, we will be nervous and anxious, and we dare not relax. What we say is either emotional, blunt, or emotionless. Psychologists have done experiments. The iron mother has a pacifier tied to it, which can provide milk to the newborn monkey, while the wool mother has no milk. These little monkeys will only go to the steel mother when they are hungry. After eating, they will hug the wool mother. Therefore, parents should not be too tight, otherwise they will be like steel mothers who cannot establish emotions with their children. \”Educating children is like flying a kite. If it is too tight, the string will break; if it is too loose, it will not fly high.\” If we have an appropriate sense of relaxation, we will not be overly nervous about our children and control everything, but give them appropriate freedom. and space, allowing children to explore the world freely. Just like the famous painter Feng Zikai, he was full of relaxation when educating his children. He never forces children to learn specific skills or knowledge, but encourages them to discover their own interests. In such a relaxed environment, children can grow freely and give full play to their creativity and imagination. Parents who have a sense of relaxation will not get angry because their children fail a test, nor will they become overly anxious because of their children\’s small mistakes. They understand that growth is a process and children need to learn through constant trial and error. They view their children\’s growth with a peaceful mind and give them enough patience and trust. When parents have a sense of relaxation, children will feel the warmth and security of the family. They are no longer under tension and pressure all the time and can show their true side more relaxedly. In such an atmosphere, children\’s personalities can be fully developed and their creativity can be stimulated. 2. Have acceptance: Let the child feel unconditional love. Just like the child didn\’t eat this morning, I accept the child, so there is nothing to be anxious about. What will happen if I don\’t eat once? Acceptable parents can accept their children\’s imperfections and give them unconditional love. Every child has his own strengths and weaknesses. We pay more attention to discover the shining points of children and give them timely affirmation and encouragement. When your child makes a mistake, don\’t criticize and blame them blindly, but listen patiently and guide them and tell them the consequences of doing so. When parents haveWhen you are strong, children will feel that they are loved and respected. They will face life\’s challenges with more confidence and pursue their dreams bravely. Because they know that no matter whether they succeed or not, their parents will always be by their side to support and encourage them. Many people worry that if they accept their children, the children will rebel. In fact, there is no need. We accept the children as persons and how we discipline them. 3. Have adaptability: be able to cope with changes at any time. \”The only constant in the world is change itself.\” Accept this truth, then you will regard your children\’s daily changes as commonplace. Whatever happens, deal with it one by one and solve it one by one. This is ability. If you want to be adaptable, you must learn, don\’t rest on your laurels, keep learning new knowledge, and then practice it, so that you can know which methods are suitable and which are not. With resilience, you can be keenly aware of social changes and children\’s needs, and adjust your education methods and methods in a timely manner. When children encounter difficulties in study and life, parents with resilience will not be helpless but will actively look for ways to solve the problem. When parents are resilient, children learn from them how to cope with changes and challenges. They will face the unknown future more bravely and have stronger adaptability and competitiveness. In short, when parents have a sense of relaxation, acceptance and resilience, this creates a good environment for their children to grow. In such an environment, children can grow up freely, feel unconditional love, and learn to adapt to a changing world. In the new semester, let us strive to be parents with the \”three things\”, witness the amazing changes in our children, and jointly write a bright future for our children.