At the parent-teacher meeting before Children\’s Day, one child\’s frankness stunned everyone.

It’s almost Children’s Day, and our kindergarten has set the theme for this Children’s Day to “Have fun together at home, let your dreams fly!” As the name suggests, there are many places in this Children’s Day that require the participation of parents and friends. In order to allow parents to have fun together, To have an understanding of the content of this Children’s Day, and in order to allow more parents to participate, our kindergarten decided to hold a parent meeting. On the day of the parent-teacher meeting, it rained a little, but this did not affect the participation of parents at all. Everyone came to the classroom on time for the parent-teacher meeting. After giving some detailed introduction to some of the contents of Children\’s Day to parents, the next step is the time for teachers and parents to communicate. The key content of the communication between teachers and parents is of course the performance of their children. When it comes to this topic, every parent opens up the chat box. There seems to be endless topics to talk about. The various performances of children, good or bad, are really diverse. What? Everything is available. However, because the content of this parent-themed exchange meeting focused on Children\’s Day, children\’s activity display and performance capabilities have become the focus of discussion and exchange between teachers and parents. Some parents say that their children usually love to sing and dance at home, but they wonder how they will behave in kindergarten? After summarizing, I found that these children are divided into two groups. One group is indeed the same as those in the family and kindergarten, lively and expressive. But the other group is just the opposite. They just shrink back in front of children or in front of everyone. The teachers have paid special attention to this group of children, encouraging them to show themselves boldly and enhance their self-confidence. Have the courage to show your original colorful side. Coincidentally, some children look like versatile little stars in kindergarten, but this is not the case at home. The child Rui Haohao is a particularly typical one. His voice is in good condition, and he has a good sense of rhythm and control in music, so in addition to being a soloist, he also participated in a cool street dance performance. That handsome performance won bursts of applause from his friends. Speaking of these advantages of his, Rui Haohao\’s father couldn\’t help but be surprised. The child was indeed well-behaved, yes, but being so expressive was really unexpected. Because usually Rui Haohao is mainly quiet at home. After saying this, the teacher felt strange and wondered, how could it be like this? Next, a tripartite dialogue between the child, teacher, and parents found out the crux of the matter. The teacher first communicated with Hao Hao. Ask Haohao if he sings and dances happily at home? Haohao blinked and looked at the teacher, and then said, no. The teacher asked why? Haohao answered without thinking: \”Because my parents never cared about my performance. They don\’t even look at me. Why should I perform for them?\” The teacher was stunned when he heard this, and then asked Haohao, are your parents too busy with work to watch your performance? Hearing what the teacher said, Haohao curled his lips dissatisfied, and then told the teacher that every time he learned a new song or learned a new dance in kindergarten, he always wanted to show it to his parents first when he got home. But at the beginning of the performance, my parents said it was very good, so there was no need to perform the rest of the performance. Then one of them held the mobile phone and the other held the computer, and they stopped talking.Take care of yourself. Look at their appearance, you can\’t see the enthusiasm of the children and teachers. If they don\’t look at you, then you don\’t have to perform for them with enthusiasm. The child\’s words made the teacher completely understand why Rui Haohao was so different in his home. When the teacher conveyed the child\’s words to Haohao\’s father, Haohao\’s father became embarrassed. He told the teacher that he and his wife were indeed as Hao Hao said. The child was perfunctory before the performance was finished. He simply said \”Awesome\” and thought that the child was young and such praise would be enough. But I didn\’t expect that this kid would be so sensitive and have such thoughts in his heart. In fact, there are many parents who do this like Haohao\’s parents, thinking that they can deal with their children by praising them hastily, but this is not the case. Children are young, but their thoughts are not small. They can feel that you are Whether you are sincere or just perfunctory. If you sincerely respond to the meeting, your child will be positive and upbeat, but on the contrary, you may experience depression that you may not even think of. So as a parent, especially when dealing with a little one who you think is still young and doesn’t know the world, don’t deal with it carelessly. The first thing you need to do is to be sincere about everything your child expresses to you. To treat him sincerely means to put down everything in your hands, listen to him wholeheartedly, watch his presentation, sit quietly or hold him, and talk to him. Secondly, your praise should not always be general: You are great! You are fine! Praise should not only focus on the results but also the process. Praise the child for the results while telling him the issues that need to be paid attention to during the process. This is meaningful praise. This kind of praise will make the child feel your intentions, and he will work harder and try his best. Get it done! Finally, a word about time. Maybe we parents are indeed very busy, but no matter how busy we are, we still hope to spare some time. Even if we only have ten minutes of sincere companionship, our children will feel your love! Don\’t ignore your children, don\’t perfunctory your children, this is not only for the better growth of your children, but also for our parents themselves! To put it further, it is for the future of the motherland!