Be wary of laziness leading to stupidity. Expecting your children to feel self-conscious is the weakest education.

Every time after the test results come out, the children always say that they lost points due to carelessness, and the parents believe it. In this way, the real problem is obscured. Children think they know everything and there is no problem. Just pay more attention next time. But in fact, the real problem has been ignored. A collection of 285 super nice bedtime stories for children with video + audio. How many children have poor grades, not because of carelessness or stupidity, but because of \”lazyness leads to stupidity\”. The child is not unintelligent but is too lazy to learn and help the child with homework, which is the most troublesome thing for parents. As soon as school is over, the child just wants to play. He leaves his school bag and doesn\’t care about his homework at all. He has to be reminded repeatedly before he reluctantly takes out his homework book. I finally sat down, but I couldn\’t write. I was either scratching my head and scratching my head with the pen, or staring at the book in a daze. When I asked him what was going on, he said: \”Mom, I can\’t do it.\” How many parents have doubts when helping their children to do homework: Is my child so stupid? \”Have you forgotten the knowledge you just learned today?\” \”Didn\’t the teacher teach it in class? Why can\’t you do it?\” In fact, it\’s not that the children really don\’t know how to do it, but they are too lazy to learn it. During class, the teacher explained the new knowledge in detail. When the children understood it, they thought they had learned it. But if there is a lack of review, thinking and homework after class, the knowledge just heard will not be truly absorbed. Confucius said: \”You can become a teacher by reviewing the past and learning the new.\” The smarter the students, the more they understand the importance of after-school learning. When tutoring homework, many parents are used to \”accompanying them to read\”. Some are always there to give guidance and supervision, while some can\’t stand it anymore and directly help their children complete their homework. Excessive interference from parents will make children feel that learning is not their own business. Anyway, if you make a mistake, someone will help you correct it, if you don’t make a mistake, someone will do it for you, and if you fail in the exam, there will be someone to help you make excuses. Children without a sense of responsibility will not regard learning as their own business, and will become accustomed to being lazy, not using their pens, not using their brains, and not studying. Children who get used to being lazy will really become \”stupid\”. Laziness is a bad habit and will seriously delay children\’s learning. Many parents think that they only need to supervise their children, but they do not understand that superficial laziness in children is easy to detect, but deep-seated laziness cannot be traced. The child listens carefully to the class and keeps doing the questions after returning home. Why can’t his grades improve? Other children don\’t work as hard as my child. Why do others always get first place, but my child doesn\’t get any better? Faced with these doubts, the best answer is: Never try to use tactical diligence to cover up strategic laziness. A professor from Tsinghua University once boldly commented: In China, at least half of the students are \”fake efforts.\” On the surface, he looks very hard-working and hard-working, but in fact, he is ignorant when studying and his grades are a mess. They seemed to have used 12 points of effort, but due to improper methods and low efficiency, they only gained 6 points in the end. It doesn’t mean that the longer you study, the higher your score will be. It doesn’t mean that you can be reborn if you keep cramming. It doesn’t mean that you are diligent if you only sleep for 5 hours a day. Pseudo-diligence is very harmful to children. Please observe whether the child has the following problems: he is not thorough in answering questions and relies too much on reference answers; his learning is not targeted and he is greedy for more in answering questions; he does not know how to summarize knowledge points, and he has learned too muchJust forget it. The more time you spend studying, the smaller the results will be. Children suffer from pseudo-diligence because they have not found the right method. Efforts without goals and struggles without plans are just show. Blind indulgence is a great harm to children. After many years of teaching, I have increasingly discovered a truth about education: there are no real stupid children, only children who are dragged down by laziness. Parents\’ improper education methods are the root cause of indulging children\’s laziness. Every time a child encounters difficulties in learning, the parent\’s response attitude determines the child\’s learning attitude. Parents with a gentle attitude and strict requirements give their children a bottom line that they must respect and abide by; parents with a tough attitude and strict requirements give their children a bottom line and exert a lot of pressure; parents with an ambiguous attitude give their children room for bargaining; parents have no regard at all , giving children a reason not to work hard or study. Parents\’ wrong education methods are causing their children to become \”stupid\” as they learn. You must understand: Expecting children to be self-conscious is the most powerless education. Expecting children to fall in love with learning and learn to learn is the most difficult wish to achieve. A Chinese teacher who has taught for more than 20 years said this: \”In elementary school, parents and teachers should help their children establish a sense of learning and develop good study habits.\” The lower grades of elementary school are a period when children are extremely dependent on adults, as well as their learning attitudes and behaviors. A critical period for habit formation. The reason why many children are lazy is because they do not have the correct learning attitude and study habits to support them. In order to prevent children from falling deeper into the pit of laziness, we can no longer indulge our children. To raise a diligent and studious child, please give him just the right amount of control; to raise an outstanding child, please point him in the way forward. How many children have become stupid due to laziness. The essence of education is to cultivate habits. The great educator Mr. Ye Shengtao said: \”The essence of education is to cultivate habits.\” The difference between children in primary school is, in the final analysis, the difference in habits. To cultivate children\’s good study habits and get rid of the problem of \”lazyness leads to stupidity\”, parents, children and teachers must work together: parents must learn to really care – spend money wisely, education cannot blindly follow the trend, only suitable for children . Use inspections instead of nagging, pay more attention to children\’s learning, and discover problems in time; be firm enough to discipline, do not indulge, do not be lazy, and protect the growth of children. Children must learn to work hard – be proactive, regard learning as their own business, and regard learning as the most important thing; think positively, preview before class, review after class, and be sure to ask for advice when you encounter something you don\’t understand; study actively and write more , read more, practice more, and take every assignment seriously. Teachers must learn true tutoring – improve classroom efficiency and try to ensure that every student can understand and learn; pay close attention to students, discover problems in time and discuss countermeasures with parents; teach learning methods to help children learn more efficiently and attentively. Parents who are truly far-sighted will inevitably be a little ruthless when educating their children. When a child is young, if he is not pushed, he will miss the best opportunity to learn. Growth happens only once, education cannot be repeated. When children are not self-conscious and cannot learn, parents must educate, supervise and guide them correctly in order to help their children become talented.